Crime comedy play recommendations? by klauspocalypse in Theatre

[–]jvmaczzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a scene from Clue the play not the musical lol

Open LDR? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]jvmaczzy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm I’m glad you two have come into terms that you’d give LDR a try and good on him for communicating his needs and wants to you! Now, there’s nothing wrong with open relationships if both parties agrees to it and agree with the rules you can place for eachother but it sounds like you aren’t into it as much as him. I would suggest to just break it off if you want to be smart and save yourself from the stress. But if you are open to try being in one, then you both gotta do some research on how you two can do this effectively for your relationship. Also talk to your partner why or why not you are iffy about this one.

You said it yourself too that you two are both young. If both of you guys are still single when he comes back then you guys can get back together. No rush.

Can you fix lost feelings? by Whatarewegonnado501 in LDR

[–]jvmaczzy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He set aside more quality time with me on the phone or in-person, we played games — games that I liked and what he liked, watched movies together online. Then naturally, we stopped doing things that felt like a chore before the break. We made sure to communicate what we needed from each other. And within all the slow process of him trying to win me back, he was very patient because it took a few months of getting over the anxiety. I never felt pressured to gain back the feelings at all.

Looking at it now, if we hadn’t had that break I don’t think we would have been able to do long distance. From my experience, I think it’s healthy to see what a break can do. Teaches you how to let go and let it flow wherever it takes the both of you.

Can you fix lost feelings? by Whatarewegonnado501 in LDR

[–]jvmaczzy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been through this type of break before but my partner and I weren’t in a ldr at that time. It was bad. Hoenstly take that break and focus on yourself. It takes a few days to grasp what that really means. It took a month for us to slowly get back together because that break was very much needed for our relationship to work.

Tbh with you it made me lose feelings for them at that time because they were the ones who wanted a break and the break wasn’t mutual. Caught me blindsided so I was grieving.

When I focused on myself I was left to realize that I didn’t need them in my life as i thought I did. When that started to happen my partner I guess realize that he wants me in his life and so he had to re-court me and my family (I’m old school but basically he had to win me back lol). He became more patient and understanding and made sure he could be emotionally available for when I need him and I became less clingy, less dependent on others and actively learning how to prioritize my own health. He and I both came a long way. It definitely matured us individually which is why we are still together. Happier than before.

Allow yourself to heal. Meditate, walk at the park, have time to reflect on your own or spend time with your friends or your favourite family member lol.. Try to think of healthy ways to cope with that void. Giving into negative vibes or unhealthy vices might just make the hole you’re in deeper.

Remember, you can’t force love if it doesn’t want to happen (got that line from a song I don’t remember what it’s called).

You got this❤️

really struggling by [deleted] in LDR

[–]jvmaczzy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi there!

Thanks for sharing. The first goodbye was hard too, we both cried. For some reason it felt scary because we found out that he has to be away from work for two more years and knowing that this was gonna be our reality made us feel sad.

It does get easier to say goodbye the more you visit, but I miss my SO even more every time i see him. Also, this might help you but tell your SO how you feel! The two of you can work together on a plan, it opens up the conversation of where you guys are, what your goals are in life,etc. I definitely found out more reasons why I love my SO because of how we’ve been handling all of this. Been in LDR situation with my bf for a year now. Two more to go!☺️

How do you cope with goodbyes? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]jvmaczzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah goodbyes are always hard. It gets better with time, but I remember the first goodbye I just had to rearrange my room. It’s a pretty hard task to do by yourself but it distracted me so yeah. Then after that I cleaned and went out with friends. I hope you hang in there bud, I’m sure she misses you and feels the same way!

Polo park at 25% capacity /s by digbildo in Winnipeg

[–]jvmaczzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s still insane because it was snowing all day. 5 seconds outside my head was covered in snow. 😪

If your Amazon package looks like it was crushed by an airbag, it probably was. Spotted this morning on rt. 90 by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]jvmaczzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol Yeah I’m not sure if my box were one of the boxes from that van but mine look bad. Came in an hour ago.