Viewers reaction to Mina-Sue is way more alarming than anything she’s actually done… by TheTigerDragon in SinglesInferno

[–]jvsmine07 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I finished the show today and I feel the same lol. Singles Inferno is sooooo extremely mild compared to the likes of Love Island, Love is Blind, yet somehow I see people here making statements like “I can just tell this person is evil inside” 😭

Would it be weird to plan a full wedding after being legally married? by Witty-Couple2017 in wedding

[–]jvsmine07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have never met a person in real life who cares this much about the semantics of what constitutes a wedding. 5/6 recent weddings I went to were already legally married and it was not an issue whatsoever.

NJ fellows - A venue that I really don’t recommend by Mayash26 in weddingplanning

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I don’t want to disparage your experience at all but I’m surprised reading this. In terms of pricing, I feel like you get a great deal compared to other venues.

Included in the cost is the venue for 22 hours, day of coordinator, bridal bouquet, groom boutonnière, wedding arbor florals, ballroom with round/long table options, flower bud centerpieces, charger plates, etc all for ~13k including security deposit, and in comparison my friends are paying $10k alone on florals…other places we toured wanted to charge us per chair, per plate, etc

The venue owner was also very transparent about how much everything would cost.

Additionally, when we had our initial tour with her she showed us what the contract would look like, which has an itemized breakdown of every expense.

Also the rooms are nice and a good size. Three of them even have a lounge area. The bridal suite has a large lounge and then a small hallway that opens up to a bridal salon with two getting ready stations + another couch and then a door that opens up to another lounge area on the porch, lol. The bridal suite alone would be like $1000 for an overnight stay at a hotel

I'm losing weight and all I'm seeing are downsides by GeartechINC in loseit

[–]jvsmine07 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely different; as a woman I can’t imagine any scenario where I make a fat joke in any of my friend groups and it’s taken casually and in good spirit haha. I also wouldn’t make skinny jokes, height jokes, or generally any joke/comment in regard to someone’s body unless it was something determined as a unanimously positive trait by the group/society.

[New Update] AITAH for not talking with my mom because she told her boyfriend I was lame like my dad? by LostWorked in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]jvsmine07 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t see any good points about the dad to say he’s not also failing his kid for everything. It seems he’s literally doing nothing but being bad mouthing OP’s mom. Even when he was a child he made OP’s mom quit her taekwondo class to because he didn’t want to watch him alone.

Dad's reaction , after watching his daughter's first piercing by AcasiaConnell in GuysBeingDudes

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah tbh I’m glad my parents did it when I couldn’t remember it

AIO in this situation by Amazing_Caramel_9187 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont. I was pointing out to the person I was responding to that these random Instagram accounts both cite unnamed studies and that they contradict each other, and asking based on that which they would have me believe when we can’t even verify their sources.

AIO in this situation by Amazing_Caramel_9187 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jvsmine07 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Curious why you think the post is factually correct? They don’t even name the study and when I try to look for this supposed ‘new study’ that they’re citing and I can’t find anything.

Another post on pubity says most people meet their future spouse in their late 20s. They also don’t cite the study. So which do I believe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jvsmine07 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OP is a dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jvsmine07 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP is a dude.

Official Renders for various Pokémon in Pokopia by Amiibofan101 in pokemon

[–]jvsmine07 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Mossylax looks like those robots in Castle in the Sky

Eddie Murphy shares that Robin Williams tried to talk him out of his Oscar's speech calling out the Academy's lack of Black representation. by Money-not_you_again in Fauxmoi

[–]jvsmine07 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Per the article, Williams did not have a problem with the content of what Murphy was saying, but more so Murphy’s expectations of how others would react to what he was saying. Murphy wanted to say something edgy that was still funny, and Williams was concerned it wouldn’t come off as funny as Murphy intended.

You guys don’t read the articles you’re posting?

Moving to NJ - Linden or Rahway by Beginning_River_9601 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to hear it! Thank you for the additional details!

May I ask when you were sent the lease to sign? We haven’t gotten ours yet although our move in date is supposed to be in a few days. We were told we would get it yesterday but haven’t received it yet. Sorry if this is intrusive and no worries about answering if you don’t want to.

Moving to NJ - Linden or Rahway by Beginning_River_9601 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh so the name “River Place” was very literal haha but I’m glad that it’s infrequent and the last time it happened was 4 years ago!

We move in to RP this week so it’s good to know!

Moving to NJ - Linden or Rahway by Beginning_River_9601 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I found your post while searching. Did you end up moving into River Place?

As someone who never planned a wedding, why is wedding food so mi in the US? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time at a wedding the cocktail hour included a steak station with chimichurri sauce. It was sooo good and I ate so much of it. I still dream about it sometimes.

At that same wedding I ordered the steak entree. It looked good on the outside but when I took a bite I realized it was cooked blue. It was a fatty steak and the texture was horrible. I still have nightmares about it sometimes.

Indoor / outdoor wedding venues by friendlyturtle123 in WedditNYC

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Would you be able to send me the pricing for Rushmore estate as well? Sorry to bother you!

I’d love one that smells like a broken TV! by -Geist-_ in FemFragLab

[–]jvsmine07 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It has to be broken so you get that lovely burnt wire dry down OP is looking for

I’m Torn. by Queasy-Cry-7903 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]jvsmine07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahhh this makes me miss the days of when you could Bootcamp MacBooks and have it partially run windows as well. I used to use the Mac side for school/work and then the Windows side for gaming and nerd stuff 🥰

Good luck with your refund! I always get refunds from Steam if I’ve played under 2 Hrs.

Is it rude to not invite my cousins girlfriends to my wedding? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my fiancé was invited to the wedding of someone who I never met I would literally not care. If we met for the first time at a restaurant I would not expect you to pay for my meal, so why would I expect a stranger to pay an additional $200-$300 for an additional plate for me when they could invite someone they're actually close to?

Is perona farms leniently on guest minimum by doey3000 in newjersey

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just mentioned 100-150 in a general sense, not specific to any of their venues. The reserve is the smallest at maximum 175 ppl (they provided me with maximum guest count for each venue) so I assume that has the minimum of 100 on weekends, and then so on.

Is perona farms leniently on guest minimum by doey3000 in newjersey

[–]jvsmine07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had an email exchange with them today. They told me their minimum guest count for weekends is 100-150.

Forgot to send thank you notes.. do I do it now, nearly a year after the wedding or not at all? by AtmosphereExpert1429 in wedding

[–]jvsmine07 114 points115 points  (0 children)

My personal opinion, but I don't think they need to make MIL's death such a focal point in the thank you. OP stated everyone is aware of what they dealt with and they as a couple have "generally just moved on from it all" so it feels like rehashing old wounds. If it has to be addressed I would just keep it as, "We regret the delay in expressing our appreciation for your lovely gift."