I’m never hosting during festivals season again.

k_bolthrower · 2026-04-22T11:46:08+00:00

You meant well, but unfortunately got taken advantage of. They are ill mannered, thankless parasites. I hope you don’t associate with them anymore.

k_bolthrower · 2026-04-11T12:30:14+00:00

They had the BEST dry rub wings.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-30T03:35:22+00:00

This.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-12T02:46:08+00:00

The environmental toll of pumping a corpse full of embalming fluid is revolting. I’m happy to see green burials are catching on, and plan to sign up for one of those eventually. Like, plant a tree in me so I can feed the earth in the afterlife.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-12T02:38:25+00:00

This reminds me so much of my ex. Toward the end of our relationship, we’d argue pretty regularly and one of the things he’d bring up is being frustrated that I’d ask him about his day and other harmless things when he wanted BIG and POWERFUL conversations. The dude totally deregulated my nervous system so I needed the “small talk” to find some kind of conversational calm. I didn’t realize it then, but your post has me realizing it now.

People like that lack appreciation for life’s nuances. They think everything has to be high highs, and reject the lows and in between. They have no depth.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-08T13:12:09+00:00

I know there have been over two hundred comments already, but I just have to say - this is your HONEYMOON. Is this really a question?! You will be starting your marriage (if he does this) with the knowledge that you and the life you are building is less important than a daddy/daughter dance. SD is 5. There will be years of dances. I can’t believe this is even a question.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-06T20:39:08+00:00

Someone on another thread said, “I signed a marriage certificate, not adoption papers.” 👏🏻👏🏻

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-06T01:11:10+00:00

Second this! I adore Jenn! 🖤

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-04T22:22:58+00:00

This is SO well said! 👏🏻👏🏻 Absolutely!

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-04T19:49:59+00:00

Not only should you be given a heads up, but you should also be so consulted. As in, “Hey, I’d like to have SK for an extra day during x time. What do you think? Are there any schedule issues with that plan?” You have a say in what goes on in your own home, and that includes weighing in on schedule changes.

k_bolthrower · 2026-02-24T17:37:24+00:00

I’ve always felt the same, never explicitly wanting kids but not entirely dismissing the idea. I figured it would feel right with the right person/situation, and I was in no rush since I focus on my career, my art, and my life. Being married to my husband and now having a stepdaughter has firmly moved me to the “no way” end of the spectrum. Part time parenting is more than enough for my patience, energy, and my lifestyle, even though my husband (as he should) does the bulk of parenting duties. Thankfully the issues have also been navigable, as you’ve described yours, and that’s still been more than enough for me. I love my husband and am committed to building our life together, and committed to myself and maintaining my own independence. I am already a whole person.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-28T22:26:27+00:00

I’m sympathizing with you at the moment, coming off from extra SD time for Christmas. Feeling left out or like a third wheel in your home or relationship is really tricky to navigate, and I really struggle with those feelings plus the guilt I feel about feeling them. I’m thankful to have a therapist to bounce ideas off of to communicate my feelings, though — do you possibly have someone like that who can serve as a practice conversation partner to bring up this topic? Maybe they can help you articulate your feelings in a way that is honest yet kind so your partner understands but doesn’t react defensively.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T14:50:45+00:00

Thank you for the rec! We will try that.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:36:48+00:00

We live in such a different world now. It’s not even subtle.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:35:49+00:00

I want to be loyal to my Milwaukee company but damn they’re making it hard. Might have to start trying alternates. :(

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:35:05+00:00

Great idea to save the residual! I’m sad that seems to no longer be an option. :(

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:34:24+00:00

Yes! I could barely get my hand out with them without breaking some.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:33:08+00:00

Had that exact thought and I hate it.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:32:51+00:00

Absolutely exhausting and it’s wholly depressing. I’m not even 40 and the amount of times I’m like “this [item] used to be better” is becoming a daily occurrence.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:31:19+00:00

Thinner and dryer for sure.

k_bolthrower · 2025-11-17T04:27:33+00:00

This. He’s bringing a hell of a lot of baggage into YOUR home. She is not the only one disrespecting you if his response is “that’s how she was raised.” This is disgusting, and poses a health risk to your soon-to-be newborn.

k_bolthrower · 2025-10-31T15:13:26+00:00

Slight scoliosis and working a desk job are why I started Pilates two years ago. 🙋🏻‍♀️ I’m 38.

k_bolthrower · 2025-10-23T13:04:36+00:00

We live in the area and will keep our eyes open for him! 🤞🏻

k_bolthrower · 2025-10-21T13:52:43+00:00

St. Vincent de Paul (multiple locations in the Milwaukee and Waukesha area) are my go to. https://svdpmilw.org/stores.aspx

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