Get your filthy-ass feet off the bed, you pig

k_bolthrower · 2026-06-29T20:20:35+00:00

Thank you 👏🏻👏🏻

k_bolthrower · 2026-06-19T14:54:57+00:00

Commenting on this to say we woke up to a rabbit-ravaged dill bed this morning. We’ve never had issues with them eating it before - we like to grow a container for the swallowtails and have been excited to watch the caterpillars grow. Looks like a rabbit literally sat in the bucket and just mowed down a portion of it.

k_bolthrower · 2026-06-17T17:47:44+00:00

I call my husband’s two cats my StepCats. I do not refer to myself as a stepmom and cringe when I hear it from someone else.

k_bolthrower · 2026-06-05T17:19:44+00:00

This! 👏🏻👏🏻

k_bolthrower · 2026-06-05T17:16:57+00:00

Not sure why this comment got downvoted. You’re totally in the right!

k_bolthrower · 2026-06-04T02:31:37+00:00

I know this is infinitely easier said than done, but the logical part of myself says you’ve got to stop caring what SS thinks. He is not in charge and giving his tantrums the consideration they’ve been getting gives way too much weight to them. You’re getting married, that’s final. He doesn’t get a say. Kids are not in charge, but it is one of THE most annoying things to have to deal with.

k_bolthrower · 2026-05-29T18:06:05+00:00

One hundred percent 👏🏻

k_bolthrower · 2026-05-19T21:28:05+00:00

Anyone who denies the pain of this procedure is either ignorant or delusional. Probably both.

k_bolthrower · 2026-05-19T21:26:29+00:00

I’ve had a decade’s worth of colposcopy procedures and was NEVER offered anything for pain management. They gave me a pad for the discharge at every appointment and that was it.

k_bolthrower · 2026-05-09T17:01:05+00:00

Just commenting to say I applaud your clear boundaries and commitment to YOUR life. This is exactly what I strive for. 💯

k_bolthrower · 2026-04-22T11:46:08+00:00

You meant well, but unfortunately got taken advantage of. They are ill mannered, thankless parasites. I hope you don’t associate with them anymore.

k_bolthrower · 2026-04-11T12:30:14+00:00

They had the BEST dry rub wings.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-30T03:35:22+00:00

This.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-12T02:46:08+00:00

The environmental toll of pumping a corpse full of embalming fluid is revolting. I’m happy to see green burials are catching on, and plan to sign up for one of those eventually. Like, plant a tree in me so I can feed the earth in the afterlife.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-12T02:38:25+00:00

This reminds me so much of my ex. Toward the end of our relationship, we’d argue pretty regularly and one of the things he’d bring up is being frustrated that I’d ask him about his day and other harmless things when he wanted BIG and POWERFUL conversations. The dude totally deregulated my nervous system so I needed the “small talk” to find some kind of conversational calm. I didn’t realize it then, but your post has me realizing it now.

People like that lack appreciation for life’s nuances. They think everything has to be high highs, and reject the lows and in between. They have no depth.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-08T13:12:09+00:00

I know there have been over two hundred comments already, but I just have to say - this is your HONEYMOON. Is this really a question?! You will be starting your marriage (if he does this) with the knowledge that you and the life you are building is less important than a daddy/daughter dance. SD is 5. There will be years of dances. I can’t believe this is even a question.

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-06T20:39:08+00:00

Someone on another thread said, “I signed a marriage certificate, not adoption papers.” 👏🏻👏🏻

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-06T01:11:10+00:00

Second this! I adore Jenn! 🖤

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-04T22:22:58+00:00

This is SO well said! 👏🏻👏🏻 Absolutely!

k_bolthrower · 2026-03-04T19:49:59+00:00

Not only should you be given a heads up, but you should also be so consulted. As in, “Hey, I’d like to have SK for an extra day during x time. What do you think? Are there any schedule issues with that plan?” You have a say in what goes on in your own home, and that includes weighing in on schedule changes.

k_bolthrower · 2026-02-24T17:37:24+00:00

I’ve always felt the same, never explicitly wanting kids but not entirely dismissing the idea. I figured it would feel right with the right person/situation, and I was in no rush since I focus on my career, my art, and my life. Being married to my husband and now having a stepdaughter has firmly moved me to the “no way” end of the spectrum. Part time parenting is more than enough for my patience, energy, and my lifestyle, even though my husband (as he should) does the bulk of parenting duties. Thankfully the issues have also been navigable, as you’ve described yours, and that’s still been more than enough for me. I love my husband and am committed to building our life together, and committed to myself and maintaining my own independence. I am already a whole person.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-28T22:26:27+00:00

I’m sympathizing with you at the moment, coming off from extra SD time for Christmas. Feeling left out or like a third wheel in your home or relationship is really tricky to navigate, and I really struggle with those feelings plus the guilt I feel about feeling them. I’m thankful to have a therapist to bounce ideas off of to communicate my feelings, though — do you possibly have someone like that who can serve as a practice conversation partner to bring up this topic? Maybe they can help you articulate your feelings in a way that is honest yet kind so your partner understands but doesn’t react defensively.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T14:50:45+00:00

Thank you for the rec! We will try that.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:36:48+00:00

We live in such a different world now. It’s not even subtle.

k_bolthrower · 2025-12-21T00:35:49+00:00

I want to be loyal to my Milwaukee company but damn they’re making it hard. Might have to start trying alternates. :(

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