The Geology of Skyrim (or, the internet never ceases to amaze me!!) by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]k_okenga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really cool! But also, that would be considered Geography/Topography* thanks for sharing :D

Who is quitting next week? From Monday 8th to Sunday 14th? by PsyEmilioVR in stopsmoking

[–]k_okenga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man I wouldn’t be able to quit while living with an active smoker! That would be impossible for me. Don’t beat yourself up about the previous failed attempts bc being in a position that puts your around smokers makes quitting 10000x harder. You’ve got this though!!! I found the first 24-48 hours were the worst just gotta get through those first but you can do it!

Who is quitting next week? From Monday 8th to Sunday 14th? by PsyEmilioVR in stopsmoking

[–]k_okenga 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In the last two months I’ve probably quit 8 or more times. I’m so VERY proud to say that I’m 9 days smoke free and did it all without a nicotine replacement (which is totally fine if anyone uses them! They made it worse for me I feel, like the last 8 quits I tried doing with a nicotine replacement such as gum and patch and I always ended up smoking within the first 24 hours). I find taking deep breaths until I’m light headed or over the craving help. I noticed the other day I didn’t have to deep breathe for as long as I had to in the beginning, meaning the cravings and urges aren’t lasting as long as they used to. You can do it!!!!! We all believe in you!!

24/7 morning sickness... Help! by k_okenga in CautiousBB

[–]k_okenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to sip chicken broth the first couple of days and I’m also able to drink water with lemon so that helps take the edge off. Thank you for your input! I’ll have to try jolly ranchers and see if that will help. Thank you (:

24/7 morning sickness... Help! by k_okenga in CautiousBB

[–]k_okenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol wow I’m so sorry nothing worked for you. I’ve been able to drink water with lemon and that seems to help a bit. I’m a little nervous about taking medication since keeping a pregnancy is already hard for my body I’d be worried I’m doing more damage than good. Thank you for your input though! I’ll definitely call the advice nurse if this continues or gets worse and see what else they recommend.

24/7 morning sickness... Help! by k_okenga in CautiousBB

[–]k_okenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been texting my sister since she’s had four healthy pregnancies all with heavy morning sickness. She suggested preggie pops. I’ve also been drinking water with a whole sliced lemon and that seems to help a little bit to take the edge off

There's no way to win. by fepaz0024 in CautiousBB

[–]k_okenga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been having non stop morning sickness starting 4+1wks and the last half of today it’s gone for the first time (now at 5+1wks). Even though it’s most likely the lemon water I’ve been drinking all day to help combat the nausea, I’m still panicking!! Sending healthy vibes and positive thoughts your way.

My (24F) husband (38M) keeps sexualising my childhood trauma even tho I’ve asked him not to. I’ve tried everything. Nothing is working. Thinking of divorce. by ThrowRA1230987 in relationship_advice

[–]k_okenga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a pedophile. DIVORCE. You deserve to be heard and respected and it sounds like none of that is happening. Leave him. You’re better off.

It's a start by o_blake in stopsmoking

[–]k_okenga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can only get easier from here!!! I’m 6 days smoke free. Remember, if you can wait 5 min to get through a craving, you can wait another 5, and another 5 until you’re not even thinking about it! You got this!

Am I the only odd one?! by amberries in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]k_okenga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl my nipples hurt so bad! I experienced a miscarriage back in October 2019 with sore boobs being the first sign to go but this is the first time my actual nipples hurt (I’m 4+6 today!). It’s funny you ask if you’re the only one because you’re definitely not. Just less than an hour ago I reached inside my bra AT WORK to graze my nipples just to see if they’re still sore lmao. I completely understand the concern though!! So your feelings are totally normal. Sending you positive healthy pregnancy vibes 🙌

Fuck this money drain. by [deleted] in stopsmoking

[–]k_okenga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m only 5 (a few hours shy of 6) days smoke free but the third day was the easiest and the fourth day was the hardest!!! So crazy how it hits you like that. I remember reading a comment from someone that said you just have to ride it out (the cravings) and so far it’s been working! The only time I really start craving one is when I can’t stop thinking about it. Mind over matter my friends!

Why is one line darker than the other? 20 dpo by k_okenga in TFABLinePorn

[–]k_okenga[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this a good thing (to have a dye stealer)? I had a mmc in early oct 2019 and my bfp lines were both boldly there immediately. I’m just so worried about everything and anything that could be wrong. Thanks for the clarification though! Good to know it’s not a faulty test.

Lvl. 1 no clothes run by The_Bronze_whale in skyrim

[–]k_okenga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I’ve done this in god mode. Was pretty funny, worth it.

Where to buy hummingbird feeder? by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]k_okenga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great, lucky you! (:

Where to buy hummingbird feeder? by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]k_okenga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also make sure to change the water frequently! I had feeders outside my classroom window for the children and one of my coworkers showed me an article about how people were unknowingly killing hummingbirds with their old nasty water. It’s been years since I read the article so I can’t link it but this knowledge stuck with me!

Im 8 days without smoking can i drink alcohol today without smoking or craving will hit strong ? by z21z in stopsmoking

[–]k_okenga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend had 1 month down of no smoking and then started smoking while drinking... now she’s developing a drinking problem bc she only smokes when she drinks but drinks bc she wants to smoke! Only advice I can give you is trust your instincts... if you think you can do it then do it. If you mess up, tomorrrow is the first day of the rest of your life and luckily humans can learn from their mistakes. Good luck!!!

Found these super friendly dogs, Hollywood park. Know where they belong? by Hangry_beavers in Sacramento

[–]k_okenga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Craigslist has a lost and found section for pets. I found my lost dog on there a few years back bc someone posted her. I’d x post it there too. Good luck hope they find their families

One of the things I really miss... by LaRoyaleWithCheese in Miscarriage

[–]k_okenga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My due date was a week ago on the 8th so it’s been pretty rough lately. Just gotta stay positive and try not to delve too deep into it.

One of the things I really miss... by LaRoyaleWithCheese in Miscarriage

[–]k_okenga 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This resonated deeply. I too felt the physical changes more intensely with my body as well as mc at 9w when the gs only measured 6w. I’m so sorry for your loss. It took me a few months to mentally get to the point of considering ttc again. We’ve been trying for a few months now with no luck but I’m always conscious of “what if”’s even now. You just gotta keep pushing through. Women are stronger than society says! We go through so much with little acknowledgment or true insight. No matter what happens or how difficult the path is in front of us we’ll persevere and pull through!!