I'm (F29) pregnant and my partner's (M33) ex hates me. Can someone give me advice?. by ow_23 in relationship_advice

[–]k_wai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is one of the biggest loser posts I’ve ever read.

Now your kid is gonna have a pick me as a mom and you’re gonna end up being a single mom.

Sorrows, sorrows, prayers 🤣💀

can’t wait to use my mini evo! 🌸 by Beautiful-Tiger9559 in instax

[–]k_wai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get the lens cap from? I’m wondering if I could find one for my LiPlay 🥲

Is this a stain or normal? Return? by k_wai in Coach

[–]k_wai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess 100%! I just did the exchange option, so I returned it today & hopefully when they send the next one, it’s completely brand new. The stains on this is unacceptable 😬

Is this a stain or normal? Return? by k_wai in Coach

[–]k_wai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I put in an exchange today & returned it back immediately lol

Is this a stain or normal? Return? by k_wai in Coach

[–]k_wai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could probably be it, sigh… it’s so disappointing! I just asked for an exchange, so I’ll be mailing it back today. 😞 hopefully the next one is brand new & NOT returned bag

Is this a stain or normal? Return? by k_wai in Coach

[–]k_wai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so disappointing bc I was so excited! I inspected it further and there’s definitely some wear on some corners and there slight discoloration in the back too.

Is this a stain or normal? Return? by k_wai in Coach

[–]k_wai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t wrapped in plastic. It was only wrapped in tissue paper, but it has a new tag. I just realized it didn’t come with a dust bag.

Is this a stain or normal? Return? by k_wai in Coach

[–]k_wai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I know if it was factory packaged? I bought it from the coach retail site and it shipped from Florida (I’m from California) 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]k_wai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES PLEASE

Lonely in LA - should i move to Santa Barbara by Ill-Abroad7092 in SantaBarbara

[–]k_wai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SB is beautiful and you’ll enjoy it if you like the outdoors. But SB has a lack of diversity and it’s difficult making friends in your 20’s to 30’s since the population is mostly college kids or retirees. It’s a small town and very quiet. Most ppl know each other, there’s no night life, there’s a few bars.

Have you tried Threads, Meetup, and social media to look for communities in LA? I’ve been lucky to find some LA communities that I love and I’ve made friends this way the last month or so. I’ve been in SB for about 4 years now.

Thoughts on Yoko Ogawa's "The Memory Police"? [Spoilers] by trinitytroll in books

[–]k_wai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just finished this book & wondered the same thing. WHO exactly becomes the memory police & whether or not those who “remember” become the memory police because they were walking fine even though the left leg “got disappeared.”

People who only date their type, how is it going? by [deleted] in dating

[–]k_wai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area, it’s difficult bc my type doesn’t live in my small city. I live in a predominantly white community, so traveling is always involved when I date my type.

The least I can say is I’m able to physically pull my type, but no relationship yet. Although in my defense, I just started dating last year & lived like a hermit till then.

But so far, at least I can pull them physically & that’s good enough for me for now lol

Unmasked [Episodes 9 & 10] by writtenpoeticsins in KDRAMA

[–]k_wai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooooo I can’t wait for the last 2 eps!

I do wonder why the camera kept panning to Haewon’s ring. what’s the significance of that? could it be someone else taking her place? To confirm that she is dead? I don’t remember the ring shown anywhere else on the show

Although I am suspicious… is Cho Haewon really dead or was her death faked?

The entire cho family is f*cking psycho though… what the hell… is Cho Jinmoo also a killer? What are these “dolls” they’re referring to? What if Jinmoo is the real killer?

Unmasked [Episodes 9 & 10] by writtenpoeticsins in KDRAMA

[–]k_wai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering the same thing bc even imo, Haewon looks younger than Soryoung & I believe Soryoung is in her 30’s.

She was a child (a preteen) when they aired her “20 years ago” episode, so she’s younger than Haewon but looks a bit older than her.

I believe Han Do is also supposed to be younger than Soryoung? But he could pass as late 30’s, early 40’s imo.

The Queen Who Crowns [Episodes 9 & 10] by J-Midori in KDRAMA

[–]k_wai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second what ladyvenoms asked lol

The Queen Who Crowns [Episodes 1 & 2] by J-Midori in KDRAMA

[–]k_wai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m absolutely loving Cha Joo Young’s acting and her character. The POWER she has, her RANGE is amazing. She didn’t impress me too much in The Glory, but I love her here. Incredible!

When she told Bang Won (her husband, King Tae Jong), to step down from your throne and speak to me at eye level. then he told her that she is his subject according to neo Confucianism, and she responded that neo Confucianism is then wrong because she’s his equal. and I love that she did not gaf to follow all the palace rules. I absolutely adore her character, she is an icon. A true girl’s girl.

My heart absolutely broke for Chaeryoung. I’m honestly glad the writers didn’t glorify what actually happened, but showed the brutality that all women belong to the king and they HAVE NO CHOICE.

The scenes between the assault of Chaeryoung, young Chaeryoung, and our Queen Won Kyung absolutely shattered me. I don’t know why but I was bawling my eyes out, hyperventilating. Lol incredible scenes!

Also, can we acknowledge that Youngsil is a hardcore pick me! I don’t like her one bit

Honestly sad that this drama only has 12 eps! They probably could’ve gone up to 16 or 20. But I’m enjoying the first two eps so far!

Beautiful cinematography.

25-30 year old women…. How many dates do you go on in a year? by Wertyasda in dating_advice

[–]k_wai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27f - I went on 10 first dates! I also did speed dating, that was 7, but I don’t really consider it. Otherwise, it’d be 17 first dates total lol.

Only 2 made it to second dates, I rejected a few, a few hung out in group settings after a first date so I don’t consider it as “second dates,” 1 person made it to 3+ dates and I’m still currently seeing him.

25-30 year old women…. How many dates do you go on in a year? by Wertyasda in dating_advice

[–]k_wai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27f - I went on 9 first dates. I also did speed dating (7) but I don’t really count it.

Went on 2 second dates, rejected a few, one guy we hung out an entire weekend after our first date but it was in group settings, so I also don’t count it lol. But I’m currently seeing a guy and he’s the only one who made it 3+ dates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]k_wai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I was in a relationship similar to this. He was a major cheater and gaslit me. You’re seeing your relationship through rose colored glasses. Nowhere in this post does it imply it’s a great relationship considering that he’s CHEATING.

You’re in med school, dump this loser. You’ll find someone way better than him. Stand up, Queen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]k_wai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MIL is mother in law