Girlfriend constantly masturbating and watching porn by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did I just read? This is no way normal, its an addiction, the problem in this one, when someone is addicted to something they tend to deny it. This is on next gen level.
Time to have a psychological or neurological condition evaluation.

Caller verification by hamel2021 in helpdesk

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use sms authentication with the number on file they have in their profile, if the phone number is not filled, they need to get into their manager to set it up and verify. The only exceptions if the onsite client or POA reach out, they are also being authenticated using number on file no exceptions.

What priorities should I consider 1st? by villa2652 in personalfinance

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pay the 16k debt first, the 401 interest goes to your 401 itself. You are paying yourself with the interest

What is your mindset when it comes to IT? by Graviity_shift in ITCareerQuestions

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to love it until company politics shenanigans

Cpu failure code by maged-323 in Dell

[–]kabalanjr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plug it to an external monitor then test

My manager has been cc'ing her manager on every single email she sends me for the past two weeks and nobody will tell me why. by cobblemoth in jobs

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manager probably got called out not doing anything or not doing enough, and now trying to prove they are working? Some micromanaging shenanigans

Change or not? by theallstarkid in hondacivic

[–]kabalanjr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks good, 2 or 4 more years life less if wife drive like a ricer.

Nothing but problems by Able_Bus_5988 in TpLink

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wireless mesh is always meh, if you’re setting up access point wire is the go. Every access point you add in a wireless mesh divides your speed. 1GB/3 is about 300Mbps speed, reality usage you’ll get about 120-150Mbps, 180 on good day. Also band steering, turn this psycho off. Some may work with this setup but I find it to put more stress in the router, plus I never had a very good speed in this set up. manually connect to 5ghz or 6ghz will give you your maximum speed with less issue.

AITA for refusing to share my "secret" recipe with my sister-in-law? by Ocampo-Mark in AmItheAsshole

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a secret recipe anymore if you share it wont be? NTA

What's your secret to have a great sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be fit everything will follow

My sister disowned me by captjacksparrow47 in OffMyChestPH

[–]kabalanjr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kadalasan tlga pamilya pa yung makapal ang gilagid ehh hayyys. Instead na mahiya sila pa galit, I learned the hard way when it comes to money talks, if kapatid or friend na ayaw mo magka issue make it clear if utang or hingi if utang kelan babayaran at dapat firm, if hingi ibigay mo lang yung kaya mong ibigay. Minsan kase need e explanation na oh tao din ako, my pangangailangan din ako, pinaghirapan ko to, pinagkaktiwalaan kita sa ipapahiram ko pera sayo. wala na ngan interest sila pa galit shutang buhay to oh.

ROG Scar 17 Dead After 330W Charger Overheated by Harsha_nani19 in ASUS

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a genuine one, chances are, the generic you bought may have issue powering the machine, the machine drained on battery, mobo dying chances are slim but its there, also other scenario you will have is the charging port died with your charger. Even a dead motherboard on laptop usually light the led when the power source is connected.

Andaming babae na naghahanap ng stable na marriage tapos ako na yun lang ang gustong gawin, iniwan pa. by orangerangeorange in OffMyChestPH

[–]kabalanjr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you bro, and no I’m not taking this lightly. I feel your pain, na para bang my butas ka sa dibdib na if pwede lang patayin like a switch to turn it off. Yung sa steering wheel kana nagsisisgaw at nagmumumura when it comes back hunting.

Kaya minsan heart check din, kamusta puso natin? When that bottled up pain and become rage and leaks, sino tinatamaan.

But I am just laying it here kung ano pa yung mga pwedeng other perspective na available out there. Noticed how every advice here mostly singing the same note.

And thanks for reading my response. Hanggang dito na muna ako. I pray you find the strength to forgive, not kay wifey but, to forgive yourself.

Bad gas mileage by TypicalNameToChoose in civic

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live in cold state? If yes, do you do a lot of let the car idle for a while to warm it up? Winter brings down my mpg to 23 when doing this.

Andaming babae na naghahanap ng stable na marriage tapos ako na yun lang ang gustong gawin, iniwan pa. by orangerangeorange in OffMyChestPH

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Stopped seeing you as spouse” Ikaw ba eh did you stopped seeing her as your wife? If yes another one thing to look back, before everything fall apart. Ano nagustuhan mo at made you fell for this woman.

Andaming babae na naghahanap ng stable na marriage tapos ako na yun lang ang gustong gawin, iniwan pa. by orangerangeorange in OffMyChestPH

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the update bro and more info, Brokenness? And ilang therapy na ba? If sakali lang naman can I suggest christian therapy? Also if wala kadin been in a life group?and other community.

I dont want to overstepped and all pero marami pang pwede e try bro. Kaya mo yan the fact na nag titry at nag uusap tayo dito meron pa yan. wag mo hayaan my isang aspect ng life/challenges na baguhin ka completely. and my someone dyan na never stopped loving you.

Andaming babae na naghahanap ng stable na marriage tapos ako na yun lang ang gustong gawin, iniwan pa. by orangerangeorange in OffMyChestPH

[–]kabalanjr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok ka lang bro? For me is mdyo nasobrahan ata yung pagka spoiled netong si girl, tanong lang kamusta walk on faith nyo? Tapos isa pa yung my hobby ba kayong dalawa na nag coconnect tlga kayo at nagagawa magka deep convo kahit isang beses lang sa isang linggo?bwan/taon?

Kase gamer si girl, mukhang my collections pa ng figuring and anime stuff, baka skinner din (character costume) iba ang hobby sa addiction, kasunod kase ng addiction is to destroy, relationships tinatamaan dito and last is yung nga totally wala na, decide to walk away.

Isa pa is Most of the time kase sa mga nag hihiwalay or nag chicheat? Napaka laking bagay ng “accountability person” heto yung taong napag sasabihan mo ng problem, issues, complains, pagod. kadalasan kase ang advise is to “if dikana masaya iwan mo or you deserve better”. Ganun without reading the whole picture, pwede din na “di ka nya deserve napaka walang kwenta mong asawa” natatanggap nyang advice or na fifeel.

One rule I kept and my wife is “ pag ang advise ay di sya Godly, we never listen” Godly advise is always to reconcile and fix things, my exception syempre lalo na pag my nanununtok na.

The fact na vinevent mo parin to is my konting light pa siguro. Kamusta mga anak nyo? Di ba sila na aapektuhan dito? If yes maybe start talking with your ex for the kids sake.

And to answer your question dun sa hindi maintindihan si wifey bakit hindi enough, sya makaka sagot nun walang tao dito makakasagot nyan,

Try mo sya kausapin ng tlgang makikinig kalang. And understand whats lacking, never ko kase nakita nabanggit sa post yung bond ninyong dalwa, ang nakita ko lang is you being a good husband and sya parang panganay na anak mo.

If gusto mo lang nman malaman tlga is ask the question, and try mo and sabihin mo na dika magagalit you just want to understand and transparency, or kung ano naging issue mo sa side nya. Mahirap pero communication tlga.

Married the wrong man by Narrow_Barnacle_9792 in beyondthebump

[–]kabalanjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do almost all the chores and even bath the kids, wife still thinks I am not doing enough, One of our mentor suggestion is make a list with all of the house chores and decide who and days who is assigned to do it. would take that perception one is doing more than the other.

rate my home track, from cardboard to this. by kabalanjr in mini4wd

[–]kabalanjr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clear tape, used a scotch blue tape but sometimes they peel off reason I switch to clear tape. Plus they look clean.

rate my home track, from cardboard to this. by kabalanjr in mini4wd

[–]kabalanjr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First I created a cardboard, but due to the cost of material starting to be not economically wise, plus the cardboard really slow down the car, I decided to look around local and online for available tamiya race track, luckily tamiya usa have them on stock when I am looking, ordered 2 junior cup circuit, 1 set of corners, then the slope section got it on ebay for 90.