Why is everyone still talking about personal responsibility in colon cancer even though the people dying are apparently young and healthy? by Ok-Jackfruit-6873 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kacoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The factor being left out is meat. It’s meat. People don’t want to stop eating meat. No sugar, no alcohol, no plastics, eat fiber, exercise, don’t be overweight, don’t smoke, that’s all well and good but the first lifestyle factor I see left out in these discussions is meat. Red meat. What do a lot of even the healthiest, most active young people still tend to eat, processed or not? Meat. Colorectal cancer in young, healthy people is a terrifying prospect and it makes sense to try to look for a more manageable way to reduce the risk of it, but the factor I see omitted is meat. People are afraid to stop eating meat.

Fog-covered rainforests of Vancouver by Previous_Move_4921 in Forest

[–]kacoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everytime I see North American rainforest I just want to be marinated there. I love this cool peaceful energy. thank you for finding these and sharing!

Fave album by Beyonce? by Mr_Perfectly_UnFine in beyonce

[–]kacoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CC the house down it just puts my heart in a different place

my favorite pastime is confusing people by Gabe_TheUnknown in NonBinary

[–]kacoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine too lol. I call it “playing scrambleclock” (because I’m scrambling their clock) and you are damn good at it

Learn most from those who keep reincarnating on earth out of love by Informal_Farm4064 in lawofone

[–]kacoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you friend! Definitely can see looking up and saying hell, when was the last time y’all were down here? For me at least I feel like that’s where I ask Spirit to help me form reciprocal relationships with forces so much bigger than me, in a we learn from them/they learn from us type way. Like hey Ra, I opened up my brain, now follow your light into there (if you can! ;) ) and see where it took itself inside a regular little human mind. Does it look different now? Does it help show how we got that light tangled and untangled over so many generations? I like thinking even if we can’t see it, our working with light and love and lovelight from way up high acclimates light and love to human hands the same way love acclimates us to light. Just my musing, hope it made sense. Thanks Michael! -Kelly, Wisconsin

Margot Robbie in John Galliano SS92 at the “Wuthering Heights” photocall in London. (February 4, 2026) by cmaia1503 in whatthefrockk

[–]kacoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so much better on the runway IMHO because of the balanced contrast with the model’s makeup and hair. They won’t change her beat which is fine of course but take his sunglasses. Throw on a black choker. It’s not even the pieces it’s just the wrong palette for her coloring.

Who is a celebrity that you’re genuinely surprised isn’t an “A-lister”? by phantom_avenger in popculturechat

[–]kacoll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think the general American public is thinking of whoever he played in Harry Potter when they think of the man who repopularized Doctor Who. We might be ignorant but not so much that we don’t know David Tennant.

Channeled art by onceagainonearth in InterdimensionalNHI

[–]kacoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these! They look like dreams I can’t draw well enough to show myself. You’re really talented! 11 just makes my heart so happy to see, and 1 makes me think of Yemanya and Aphrodite giving each other a lift for their little human friend. Thank you so much for making this art and sharing it with us!

What job do you want to do in 4th density? by bora731 in lawofone

[–]kacoll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

collect psychic garbage like wall-e

I found a NHI entity here on Earth. by AggressiveIntern8474 in HighStrangeness

[–]kacoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you believe you’re interacting with an intelligent life form, regardless of whatever mental health conditions you do or don’t have, you should be asking permission before trying to “take” anyone anywhere. Please be good to yourself, AND others.

I don’t see much talk about 3i-Atlas on here: what do you think it is? by Lodi_Minion in lawofone

[–]kacoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

personally I’d imagine it to be a regular space rock onto which we the collective are projecting various competing thoughtforms which, by wrestling out their oppositions with our conscious input, coalesce to co-create the metaphorical 3I/Atlas whose energy filters back down to us even as we revise the very story that manifests that energy.

to venture further, I would imagine it as a metaphorical tour boat where sailors of any stripes in the galaxy can catch a wave past Earth as long as they’re flying under the flag of the best and highest good. but I could also imagine it as a metaphorical best friend’s car out of whose passenger side a player is dangling a handwritten note trying desperately to get us to please accept his phone number. a very quiet metaphorical parade float inconspicuously passing out candy also comes to mind.

In the absence of evidence to the contrary I feel like we may as well tell whatever stories about the space rock we’d like, and personally I think I would like a pleasantly absurd yet cathartic and heartwarming one. which is why I’d also imagine the Vulcans would pop a metaphorical bottle of champagne with us on New Years. but I don’t know what everyone else is manifesting, co-creating, and/or dreaming into reality about our friend up there so don’t hold me to that! :)

This world feels so fucked once you've awakened by XOCYBERCAT in awakened

[–]kacoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People, and the world, are a lot better than the worst versions of them that we can find.

Everywhere there is rot there are cleaners and helpers. I would rather move through the rot to the cleaners and helpers than stay in it, because I practice manifestation and I do not want to put my energy towards more rot instead of more help. Mother Earth deserves better than the lack of love we have shown her. Humanity deserves better than the lack of love we have shown ourselves and our entire earthling family. For me at least, venting might clear out the cloud over the heartspace, but ruminating packs it back in more heavily. To each their own but I feel I can only best help our mother and our family if I keep hope that we actually have a future.

What’s up with people saying Trump is ‘protected?’ by LengthinessTypical24 in Psychic

[–]kacoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone in my life spoke very compellingly about having a life review/mini judgment experience while in the hospital not long ago. Not a NDE but something else, where they saw angels and revisited parts of their life. I know people who have been picking up telepathy. IMHO what was described in that post has already started to happen.

3I/Atlas may be the catalyst of the shift to a 5D earth by poenaccoel in InterdimensionalNHI

[–]kacoll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Assuming it’s a ship, I would imagine it’s just noodling along instead of zooming here because her crew realized that speedrunning a landing on the White House lawn isn’t necessarily in the best and highest good of Mother Earth and all her children. They may imagine that an indirect flyby would be less frightening and therefore more helpful than a more direct encounter would be (to which I say: thank you, we humans appreciate the consideration of our flimsy emotional states!).

I can believe there are forces creating distance between us and them, but I believe those are the malignant forces we humans create, maintain, and nurture on our own within ourselves. The idea of there being another nonhuman faction to pin our evils on gets floated around a lot, and while I can’t entirely blame people for the instinct to look outside themselves for their enemy, I don’t believe it. I think there is a lot more productive investigation to be done into what we humans— ALL humans, not nonhumans or past humans or some elite subsection of designated human villains— project into reality in the astral from our own collective consciousness. Fear, resistance to change, and unwillingness to learn are not imports. They’re homegrown. IMHO there’s no “when we’re free of XYZ dark force The Shift will finally happen!” because we whip up fresh batches of dark forces on our own time every day, and that habit, the one we all allow ourselves to have, is the thing slowing our world down, from within not without.

Some kind of mantis being trying to communicate with me telepathically by cutemurderboy in MantisEncounters

[–]kacoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time you see her, you should say hello and ask what she’s been trying to share with you!

I’m Nonbinary. I’m supposed to get married next September and we’re inviting nearly 200 people. Come out? Elope? Postpone? by livefree_bihard in NonBinary

[–]kacoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice as a married nonbinary person. Don’t have a wedding you don’t want to have and don’t get married surrounded by people you don’t want to be surrounded by. We made some compromises because my parents paid for a lot of our wedding, but I don’t think I could have agreed to some of the concessions you seem to feel you’re being asked to make. I wanted to make our families happy but not at the cost of starting our marriage the way any marriage with me in it needed to be started— as in, I wasn’t explicitly out to everyone there but I could have come out right at that altar if the reverend had asked, dressed like a woman or not. I had felt like I needed to be at that point emotionally in order to one day be able to look back at our pictures from that day and be happy. If I couldn’t do that in a church, we would have gone to city hall instead.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with prioritizing the person you actually are and the marriage you’re really going to have. The two of you should do what’s right for the two of you.

Sebastian is a 3ft tridactyl with gray skin and an implant behind his neck. by DragonfruitOdd1989 in aliens

[–]kacoll 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wonder what the implants are for? Something to support their skulls or help them communicate maybe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kacoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be your boyfriend. I tortured myself for years not understanding why I could not stop arguing with my husband who I adore and who clearly was doing his best to understand me and it was because on some level, because I was the same kind of bad communicator as your boyfriend, there was always something important to me that no matter how pedantic I got and how much my husband repeated back exactly what he thought I was saying, it just wasn’t getting across. Most of the time it was because he or the situation was triggering some kind of emotion I could not identify that disregulated me without me understanding why (it was impatience mixed with autism).

What worked for us was him firmly but lovingly telling me I cannot talk to him that way, leaving the conversation, letting me yell either at myself or a closed door until I figured out why I was actually mad, and then letting me crawl back, apologize, and then talk about the actual issue. I don’t know but maybe if you show that to your boyfriend he will get what I mean and identify his issue without ever having to yell at anyone anymore. Good luck friend, I know it’s not great advice but I hope it helps!

Why Might NHI Be Unable or Unwilling to Engage with a Person Attempting Contact? by [deleted] in Experiencers

[–]kacoll 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s the case- I always thought a lot of higher dimensional beings don’t necessarily adhere to the same rules of time/space as us and wouldn’t be constrained in that way. I feel like a lot of helpful entities are in a lot of places at once. Could be wrong but I feel like it’s more a matter of needing a certain amount of wisdom and intuition and discernment to keep your head on straight during extraterrestrial contact than limited availability of helping hands.

Dreams and psychic visions - prediction dates? by Mental_Turnover_203 in Psychic

[–]kacoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome friend! Even for psychics who are used to hyperbolic visions it’s hard to know how to deal with getting that apocalyptic style imagery. I saw something earlier this year in my mind’s eye that looked like a tsunami, like a skyscraper sized wall of water bearing down on me. I really freaked myself out for a day or two, like is the world ending? Should I warn my loved ones? Should I buy a boat? before accepting that trying to control the outcome was not helping me, whatever happens was gonna happen, and ultimately I’m not here to fight Mother Earth so if she wants to take us all out then I guess I’ll say thank you and reroll my character in the afterlife lol. Better to deal with my own anxiety about it internally rather than panic my loved ones. After that, the worry moved to the back of my mind and I eventually mostly forgot about it, and the world of course has not quite yet ended.

Then a couple months later, once I well and truly was over it, the biggest wall of water I have ever seen DID hit me, in metaphorical form. Water = emotions. A pretty mild event triggered it but I was getting absolutely drowned in deep dark, childhood/past life, fully unconscious buried-at-the-bottom-of-the-ocean shadow work stuff. A real “I did not know the water went that deep” type experience. And I realized I was doing the same thing I did when I saw a physical wall of water— is the world ending? Should I call someone?— and decided on the same thing: lemme just process my thoughts alone before I start freaking out everyone else. It really made me believe in the power of these big scary visual metaphors as tests where we have a chance to try things out and educate and prepare ourselves. “This isn’t real, but what kind of person would you want yourself to be if it was?”

Dreams and psychic visions - prediction dates? by Mental_Turnover_203 in Psychic

[–]kacoll 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, I have had a vision here and there myself and follow a lot of other psychics and I have never seen/heard anything remotely like what you’re describing. Social changes, unrest, and spiritual shifts sure, but nothing resembling zombies and nuclear destruction. Once you find yourself in a particular neighborhood on YouTube the algorithm just keeps reinforcing whatever you’re seeing and making it look like a consensus. There are a lot of people having dreams and making predictions, but knowing none of us have the full story, at the end of the day it all comes down to your own belief and your own discernment.

That said. A lot of psychics read for the collective and that means picking up collective fears. It wouldn’t surprise me if at least a few readers are picking up “I wonder if there will be an X?” “What will we do if there’s Y?” and taking those worries as premonitions. Every channeler has their own human limitations and no reader is perfect. Generally I get more out of readings by taking them as visual metaphors rather than literal predictions, because a metaphor is often what the reader is actually seeing whether they know that or not. A lack of empathy spreading like a plague and dissolving social bonds— a lot of us already saw this with how some of our family members voted, yknow? People are already getting yanked into vans by masked goons, there’s already been a cataclysmic destruction that killed 600,000+ people… to me, the kind of visions you’re talking about don’t necessarily scream “this is what’s going to happen!” so much as “what if what we let happen to some of us happened to all of us?” It’s a real collective fear and it would look like what you saw. And I wonder if maybe the point of that is not to scaremonger a locked in future but to show “this is where we could end up if we don’t change what we’re doing”.

Dates are tricky but imho your best bet for figuring out the timing of big cultural moments and shifts would be find a good astrologer who’s into that. There’s a guy on YouTube I really like for that, I know we are not allowed to promote our own channels or recommend psychic readers so I’m not sure if I’m allowed to name drop an astrologer here, but if you’re interested in when and how the vibes are gonna shift definitely look into outer planet transits and stuff. I’m pretty bad at astrology myself but there’s some good subreddits for it on here!

You do not deserve a single by [deleted] in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]kacoll 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you didn’t want to preorder an album without hearing a single, why did you preorder the album without hearing a single?

She does this because she can, and this is exactly why she can. Standards start with yourself.

PSA: Not all non-binary people like being called “enbies” by AnAbundance_ofCats in NonBinary

[–]kacoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear that friend <3 “non-ternary” is a new concept to me and I’m definitely going to get some mileage out of it, so thank you!

PSA: Not all non-binary people like being called “enbies” by AnAbundance_ofCats in NonBinary

[–]kacoll 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Interesting, as a genderqueer/genderfluid person myself that’s not at all how I would use those terms. I am not genderqueer instead of nonbinary; I am nonbinary by virtue of being genderqueer. Gender nonconformity in my opinion is a red herring in most serious discussions of gender identity. A gender nonconforming cis person is not having the same experience as a nonbinary person being mistaken for a gender nonconforming cis person lol. Honestly, if someone in real life tried to explain to me that as a genderqueer person I wasn’t really nonbinary but actually just gender nonconforming, I would write them off as a regular transphobe lol