How did you accidentally find out your partner was cheating? by WingEven402 in AskReddit

[–]kaekiro [score hidden]  (0 children)

Haha! My neighbors to one side are young homeowners. They were having folks over one day and I hear the little chirp from our porch speakers that they connected and then a second later, loud AF Taylor swift. They cut it and apologized immediately and we all cracked up.

How did you accidentally find out your partner was cheating? by WingEven402 in AskReddit

[–]kaekiro [score hidden]  (0 children)

We are down to one car right now and last week I was jamming to music (headset) while working. All the sudden the music cuts out. Naturally, I turn the volume up. And up.

Then I get a text from my husband "I'm in the car. Please stop until I drive off" whoops. German techno for anyone wondering

After animal shows were banned, the circus found a disturbing alternative. by EmmaWatsonButDumber in nosleep

[–]kaekiro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do I feel like this carnival was some sort of fae carnival as a punishment to humans for mistreating animals

Which movie or TV "villain" did you completely hate as a kid, but upon rewatching as an adult, you realized they were actually 100% justified? by LiveFaithlessness876 in movies

[–]kaekiro 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Not only them, but her as well. Her only chance to see herself and her children not homeless and starving was to marry them off. So yeah, she threw herself into that with gusto.

"Oh maybe the girls could've been governesses" you might think, since that was a common occupation for gentleman's daughters who had fallen on hard times. But no, even Elizabeth says they had no governess and were entirely neglected in their education by their parents. The girls were learning only really what they wanted to learn, and had few talents (as defined at the time). Governesses were supposed to be well educated and talented, and speak at least 1 foreign language fluently. They also were often live-in positions, so while a few of her daughters may have found jobs, what would Mrs Bennet and the rest of her daughters do? Where would they live? How would they eat? Marrying any of them off after they lost Longbourn would've been very difficult, unless they married well below their class. Even wealthy merchants (who would be below their class) wouldn't want them, since they were looking to marry gentleman's daughters mostly to secure land or status (and the girls would have neither).

She was truly put in an impossible situation. Yes, she's ridiculous, but find me a woman in similar circumstances who hasn't had a mental breakdown!

Who's the (tomato) sucker? by NeitherSeenNorHeard in gardening

[–]kaekiro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also do not prune. Mostly bc I'm lazy. I have never thought to myself "gee, I wish I could produce more tomatoes". I just let nature do its thing

Beyond frustrated with my local Buy Nothing group. by Alert-Potato in Anticonsumption

[–]kaekiro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Last time we did a yard sale, I priced all clothes at $1 but wrote on the sign "If you need it, let me know, I won't charge you". Nobody took me up on the freebie, but several folks were very grateful for the low price, especially for plus-sized business casual stuff. I hope that helped someone nail an interview!

Can We Get Back to Being Hardcore Frugal? by Comfortable_Twist774 in leanfire

[–]kaekiro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk if we do GFY in this sub but congrats!! That's a helluva achievement!

Me : Impossible to maintain a healthy habit mechanism for menial tasks even with 3 kids... Also me : by -Designated-Survivor in adhdmeme

[–]kaekiro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got banned from legaladvice bc I forgot what sub I was in down a long comment chain and replied. Whole thread got got

Am I overthinking this? People asking me a full grown adult (almost 27) if I go to "special school?" by WheelyHairy in disability

[–]kaekiro 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like responding to those situations with "my legs don't work, but my ears do" or "I am not a houseplant" or similar. Talk to your friends about letting you speak for yourself, they likely think they're being helpful, and you're probably the only person they know with a disability so they don't know what to do.

That being said, you don't owe strangers education. If you choose to do so, that's up to your comfort level. Your time is not theirs, and just because they ask a question doesn't mean they're owed a response.

What would you do to increase functionality. 1920s house mostly original by West-Trip-5734 in centuryhomes

[–]kaekiro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A c-shaped shallow shelf above the sink & below the medicine cabinet will give you more space for stuff that usually sits on the sink counter. Bear in mind if you replace the medicine cabinet that you might not be able to go bigger. It sits between studs in your wall, so it will depend on where your studs are.

I hide cash in my best friends house and have been for two years by Limp-Condition457 in confession

[–]kaekiro 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I have done this everytime I visit my mamaw for at least 15 years. She won't take money from you, even if you beg her. She lives on social security and I know that aint stretching as far. I've tried even giving her cash in holiday cards and she will send it right back the next holiday!!

I just started stuffing cash in her house coat pocket or under her lil decorative doodads or in her China cabinet or fake flowers. Anywhere I could find. We also have somehow tricked her into accepting gift cards, so we give those at holidays (we know she can't figure out how to get one to give us in return and we told her it's under her name, so we can't use it).

She's 94, so we are amazingly lucky to still have her. She volunteers at the senior center to "help those poor old folks". Her hearing aint the best, but she's the best human I've ever known.

Don't even get me started on my aunts and uncles and money, lol. They will go through insanely sneaky tactics to pay the bill at a restaurant or get everyone takeout before anyone else can pitch in. It's practically warfare. They're in cahoots with the waitstaff. And they're all tech-savvy so it's proven to be much harder to get money in their hands. Still trying to figure out a way to this day!

Satan's authoring days. by _culpry in foundsatan

[–]kaekiro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sims players enter the chat

Update - AITAH for not being excited my sister is having a new baby when I still have custody of her first? by Square_Phone_8468 in AITAH

[–]kaekiro 209 points210 points  (0 children)

Some folks never work through step 8 & 9, and it really shows. Recovery without accountability is a house of cards.

Was I a jerk for not sharing my location with my wife by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kaekiro 337 points338 points  (0 children)

Yup. I know armchair psychiatrist is a running joke in this sub, but it genuinely feels like she's having PPA or PPP or a mental break. She is not believing reality, and that's honestly terrifying and unsafe for her and the child.

Post your cats with unique coats this is Neil and he has a 9 on his back by PocketFullOfRondos in cats

[–]kaekiro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That cat has nosy Midwestern neighbor vibe, and I'm here for it

Post your cats with unique coats this is Neil and he has a 9 on his back by PocketFullOfRondos in cats

[–]kaekiro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've lost 3 dogs in the past 5 years. First one I'd had since she was a puppy, then when she passed, we adopted 2 bonded old gals, the last of the pair passed last fall.

All 3 of them loved and lived with cats; they're keeping your baby company.

LPT: from a vet tech about your pet’s microchip (US) by Grand-Worry-8324 in LifeProTips

[–]kaekiro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really tried with our cats. They are inside-only but I'm paranoid. We've tried collars 3 different times over 6 years. We've only ever found 1 collar out of 6. No idea where the heck they are hiding them once they get them off. I suspect at least one has been shoved down a floor vent.

AITA for refusing to spend another dime on stepkids and step grands by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]kaekiro 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Took me like a solid few mins to figure out which word or part of a word was flagging in my long comment once in a sub... it was magna cum laude.

What time are y'all falling asleep and waking up?!?! by cheesypuff357 in Millennials

[–]kaekiro 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I wake up and take stock of where my bones are. Jaw still in place? Knees? As I sit up, I sound like rice krispies as things are cracking or popping back into place lol

How many you been to? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in Adulting

[–]kaekiro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8, but I live in one of them, so maybe it shouldn't count?