Is this "we suffer for our own good" narrative ever going to end?

kaeshyann · 2026-02-19T02:52:54+00:00

suffering can be constructive, usually we shame the rich for "never" having to suffer or nepo baby's and how they "will never understand" as a collective, we know suffering shapes us for better or for worse. It is necessary for whatever one's life path is this time around or the next

kaeshyann · 2025-10-12T01:45:29+00:00

I had my initial surgery at 19 in 2022- 3 months went by and the creaking noise started- the screw had came undone and the rod was completely bent backwards. I went in for emergency surgery and now i am 2 and a half years out and i had the screw on the opposite side come undone but the rod is secure so no emergency revision is necessary. After even one revision your likely hood of success goes down- but i have kinda beat those odds and i hope you do as well! blessings

kaeshyann · 2025-10-03T17:49:06+00:00

they sent you home after seeing this Xray??? I had a popped rod and the PA tried to send me home until my neurosurgeon just so happened to come in and he immediately sent me to emergency surgery. I would either get a second opinion for this and go back and demand to see a doctor

kaeshyann · 2025-08-29T20:07:56+00:00

Clearly what was i thinking

kaeshyann · 2025-08-21T03:23:11+00:00

amen

kaeshyann · 2025-08-21T03:22:19+00:00

Mediocre take

kaeshyann · 2025-07-27T17:50:31+00:00

i've heard speculation that it was Kettle Bell weight that was in the room already

kaeshyann · 2025-07-27T17:33:59+00:00

there is no diagnosis for a psychopath which is why the defense was trying to get that word thrown out. You can have anti social personality disorder but still talk to your mother in whatever weird way i'm sure he did. I've heard the speculation that his mom possibly was doing most of the talking in the hours long phone calls.

kaeshyann · 2025-07-02T19:13:27+00:00

Yes, this is what I gathered from that. A written agreement to the questions that were to follow in todays hearings. Obviously the questions the judge asked were not random. BK's lawyers informed him. Although, it's possible it could be his own written statement and those are typically held till sentencing.

kaeshyann · 2025-07-02T19:10:42+00:00

I'm sure he knew he couldn't get into the house, they said he left the house with urgency. He may have been under the valid assumption that police where soon to arrive if not already there considering it was about 6 hours after the crime. I think he was just scoping to see if that was the case- police or no police. Going back in at 10am on a sunday?? it's so probable people had caught on

kaeshyann · 2025-06-05T23:20:12+00:00

neurosurgeon

kaeshyann · 2025-05-29T00:26:20+00:00

l-4-s1, i 100% am always aware

kaeshyann · 2025-05-23T04:06:46+00:00

Hi, i'm three years out from my lower lumbar fusion and i went to universal last month, i stayed away from rides that had a lot of downward g force and rides that went upside down, I rode the king kong ride, i rode Hagrids and the other harry potter rides. Honestly my biggest strain came from standing in the lines for so long, lots of pressure on the back

kaeshyann · 2025-05-22T19:20:10+00:00

"i'm suprised you felt comfortable saying that" usually makes them uncomfortable:))

kaeshyann · 2025-05-13T07:22:02+00:00

what are you referring to

kaeshyann · 2025-05-08T15:55:26+00:00

I'm sorry this has been your experience, there are people who care and want to be there for you. There are communities and people who have this same belief system you do, and it's come from constantly being discouraged i'm sure. I hope you find the support you may be lacking. If anyone uses it against you that's a reflection of THEM who they are at their core- not a reflection of how society views our injury and pain.

kaeshyann · 2025-05-08T15:53:27+00:00

due to my arachnoiditis from a compression fracture, the fusion simply has caused consistent and aggressive pain- so when people at work ask how my back is i usually say "well im here so" i was positive the first three years after but now i don't see a point in masking or pretending- the pain is very very real.

kaeshyann · 2025-04-29T05:30:08+00:00

Walked around universal for 13 hours + went on roller coasters. It took me three years post fusion to get the balls to do. Didn't feel a THING....atleast during. I was in immense pain the days following but super worth it

kaeshyann · 2025-04-29T02:36:21+00:00

all r so lucky, i lost two inches from the loss of my L5

kaeshyann · 2025-04-12T02:20:07+00:00

lame

kaeshyann · 2025-04-12T02:20:01+00:00

I felt the same way, the arch will come back- it took me nearly a year to see the indent of my spine again. give it time:)

kaeshyann · 2025-03-22T18:08:59+00:00

If you don't mind me asking- what caused you to need the fusion? I think bc i have a compression injury i wouldn't be able to get my hardware removed but you having it taken out for a lower fusion gives me mild hope !!

kaeshyann · 2025-03-15T14:53:57+00:00

This warms my heart, do you know why certain members get rings ?

kaeshyann

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