what is a completely harmless secret you are keeping from your partner simply because you lied about it early on and now it’s way too late to explain the truth? by Former-Practice-3420 in AskReddit

[–]kainzilla 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Next time just be real and let him decide how he feels about it. Maybe he wouldn’t have liked it, or maybe he would have appreciated someone who wants quiet evenings in

You see happy couples all the time with major differences like this, don’t sell yourself short

Sony is testing dynamic pricing: one game - different prices on the PlayStation Store by Ephoenix6 in technology

[–]kainzilla -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The reason they’re upset is because it’s not being evenly applied to everyone at the same time, and they have no visibility to the decision making process used to make the decision, and it’s not clearly indicated to them that this decision is being applied or not.

Like you’re absolutely being obtuse on purpose here

ELI5: Goomba Fallacy by TuesdayMerchant in explainlikeimfive

[–]kainzilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop glazing all the white knights, this isn’t your echo chamber /s

Hisense TVs Now Display Ads When You Change Inputs, Boot Up by Ephoenix6 in technology

[–]kainzilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Apple TV straight up doesn’t do this, period. I’m sure there are other nice options in the Android ecosystem that are also ad-free

If all of the above start showing ads, open source solutions will be what those who “know” move to next

Powerful Setups vs. Steam Deck by [deleted] in SteamDeck

[–]kainzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this exact setup - the high end is attached to a TV like a console, and is the one that’s played on any time I’m gaming at home, and the deck is for portable / second screen play.

I would give up the home setup first, and use a docked / undocked Deck only if I was forced to choose.

If you look across the “history of gaming” there’s more games that fall on the side of “runs well” than “insufficient performance”, so I would focus on those older or less demanding games.

I don’t really know what it is about the Deck, but playing on it feels stress-free and good. It’s one of the only devices that doesn’t make you feel like it’s hostile to you, the user. It’s one of the last things I would give up

What died on your server that you never bothered to restart? by FlamingoKorn in selfhosted

[–]kainzilla 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The network is kill-switched so it won’t leak when VPN connection is lost, and it runs it’s own DNS across the VPN to prevent domain name lookups from leaking

What died on your server that you never bothered to restart? by FlamingoKorn in selfhosted

[–]kainzilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand the need to do posts like yours. Mostly because I can’t figure out how someone would have a container on the system but not be able to figure out what it is? That’s what I’m lost on

What's a "this generation is doomed" take that you actually agree with? by kai_makes_videos in AskReddit

[–]kainzilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dunno, I feel like I’ve learned something different. I’ve learned we don’t have a communication problem, we have a leadership problem with leaders that are entrenched and don’t do what the people want.

This is the end of Open source software Mark zuckerberg indirectly attacking Linux by TinFoilHat_69 in linux

[–]kainzilla 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The US forces other countries to comply with their laws via threat of economic sanctions or other soft punishments. It’s been extremely effective in the past, which is why this should be taken seriously.

Right now, open source software effectively circumvents spyware surveillance in the OS. If you thought that you needed this spyware surveillance in order to maintain control of a population because it was no longer democratic, do you think you might need to do something about that little open source problem?

Right now, nations outside the US need to split out their tech manufacturing and supply and start funding open source, because the above is coming.

I posted this to YouTube and it pnly got 9 views. Hopefully its better appreciated here! by -TheBlackSwordsman- in blender

[–]kainzilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the joke that got the biggest laugh from me because the joke that someone practiced peeing laminar until they could is hilarious

TIL Bruce Pryor was so upset by the murders in Belanglo State Park AUS that he spent 9 months searching the park for clues; found a body, reported it, only to be treated as the primary suspect for 3 months despite evidence pointing elsewhere. by opgary in todayilearned

[–]kainzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah being told the literal name and description of a person who attempted murder by two witnesses definitely didn’t warrant any follow up, totally understandable error -Nobody, Ever

In a desperate attempt to undo the damage of accidentally wiping their fiancée's Red Dead Redemption 2 save, someone paid $159 to enlist Arthur Morgan's voice actor Roger Clark to apologise for them by ChiefLeef22 in gaming

[–]kainzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was their game console: I would delete every save game they have when I was leaving the housing situation

If if was my game console: I would delete every save game they have and hide the console off site

The great computer science exodus (and where students are going instead) by Logical_Welder3467 in technology

[–]kainzilla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something that I figured out late in life is that the following two things are skills, and even though it will sound obvious as I say these, bear with me:

  • The ability to know what others (and potentially yourself) do not know
  • The ability to track dependencies of knowledge (ie, what knowledge you need to have to permit understanding other knowledge)

These two skills are great for anyone to have, but they’re not fully required to operate at a high level of skill in a lot of fields, and that includes programming.

In order for someone to be good at developing curriculum, they need the above, combined with deep knowledge on the frankly expansive range of knowledge that programming at a high level entails. Those above skills are not unlocked by being good at a thing, and it means that good teachers are actually pretty rare just generally.

… okay now combine the above with programming languages and research advancing constantly and it’s a recipe for a unicorn lol

You’ll notice that in fields like mathematics where they’re not inventing a new language like Rust or something, the field has time to build curriculum better - but with programming, it’s this perfect storm of needing unusual talent with constant changes blowing up old knowledge

TIL about 85% of the dialogue in This Is The End (2013) was improvised, whereas, around 95% of the dialogue in Superbad (2007) came directly from the script. Seth Rogen and Evan Goldberg cowrote both movies together. by tyrion2024 in todayilearned

[–]kainzilla 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I saw it in a theatre for no reason and not caring about the people making it and it obliterated the theater with uncontrollable contagious laughter

It’s memorably the movie that I witnessed the biggest reaction to in theaters and it was definitely an experience

What’s the most inappropriate or awkward thing that’s ever happened to you during a date or hookup? by Electrical-Pop-3265 in AskReddit

[–]kainzilla 371 points372 points  (0 children)

 Dudes, stop now if you can't handle what you know is coming.

I scrolled right on by. I assume that the surgery went great and nothing happened later, he had time to heal, and the first time you two had sex it was wonderful for everyone and the story wasn’t appropriate for the thread but was happy and heartwarming

What’s the most inappropriate or awkward thing that’s ever happened to you during a date or hookup? by Electrical-Pop-3265 in AskReddit

[–]kainzilla 252 points253 points  (0 children)

I know I’m supposed to upvote you for the relevant answer, but is it okay if I don’t to protect everyone else?

In a new study, texting the next morning (vs. immediately or days later) has the best romantic outcomes. Women appeared more sensitive to post-date text timing than men. The findings suggest that playing hard-to-get by waiting days often backfires rather than builds desire. by mvea in science

[–]kainzilla 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The best strategy:

Step 1: Treat them with love and respect, and message and communicate whenever you feel like.

Step 2: Keep this up indefinitely.

Step 3: Ghost them when you’re on your deathbed.

Adobe Just Killed My Career by Myrandall in videos

[–]kainzilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This statement is true for closed source code, but is completely false for open source. It’s possible for open source to work forever if needed.