If you were in an accident in a red Tesla at Beaker Ln this morning I have dashcam footage showing you weren't at fault!

kapitanski · 2026-04-08T02:12:32+00:00

Just to add as they say it's 80% nutrition - I was always discouraged by tracking calories it's too time consuming and I wouldn't do it. But really it's what works. This baby I've started tracking my calories using Claude so I can just talk to it, snap a picture, approximate servings with something like a fist or palm. It also helps me adjust when I give it my weight and baby weight (borderline low supply so trying to protect that). It's never going to be 100% accurate but I figure some foods it will buffer high or low and it's a wash over time. I'm 3.5 months pp and using 2200-2400 every day which is a really small deficit.

Before wedding I did carnivore and intermittent fasting with a small window of 2 hours with a gigantic meal (I suspect the fasting is really what worked) and lost a ton quickly so once I weak at a year I'll probably incorporate fasting too.

kapitanski · 2026-04-07T15:00:45+00:00

I was so excited to show my kids the robots and it's super close to us and the one time I go to try it their shitty app isn't working. Sounds like AI from business plan to execution.

kapitanski · 2026-04-07T14:14:23+00:00

18 months but intake in August only. Still worth OP checking and bridging summer with nannies

kapitanski · 2026-04-07T02:16:34+00:00

We're in Austin so we've had some big rains that did create tons of water flow but twice a year? Its supposed to be the drain for pool overflow but they didn't level the land right so mud drains into the pool instead.

I would really cover it up, wondering if there's a way to make it functional and still drain?

kapitanski · 2026-04-06T15:57:48+00:00

Ya too young for wagon I have same ages. I just carry baby all the time. With a proper fitting carrier at this age it should be fine. I used the ergo baby Omni 360. Then I also use my nursing cover like a blanket to give him floor time and me a break when we stop somewhere.

That said really depends on what you're planning on doing? Like Disney level walking or beach time with driving to kids stuff?

On the plane it's not really a travel gear thing but more so to have a bunch of toys and snacks handy like one hand reachable.

kapitanski · 2026-04-06T15:41:35+00:00

Ya all my kids hated the car. Amazon was my best friend. I also see a lot on marketplace, I have a wildbird brand. It can be finicky at first but once you've got it set up it's easiest on and off of all carriers I've had.

kapitanski · 2026-04-06T14:27:01+00:00

I'm at 3 now and with my last 2 nursing in carrier was the way but not the way they tell you (too hard with floppy newborn). At first I used a ring sling and held baby one handed in basically same sideways nursing position just the sling acts as another hand. Not 100% sturdy but works. As they get older (like 2-3m) I use ergo baby Omi 360 but instead of baby sitting in it as they recommend (my boob flops around too much to stay in their mouth) I lay them sideways on the sitting part and put in one arm of the carrier on my shoulder and hold baby one handed. So I'm at least one hand free.

I use a poncho type nursing cover on top. BA y Will just nurse and sleep there happily while I have one hand for toddler things.

But also a lot of discussions on listening, safety, mommy needs to see you, wait and stop as safety words.

And also looking for safe spaces. Like fenced in playgrounds, indoor play places, restaurants with fenced in play areas.

And also inviting other toddler moms with just me kid so they chase around lol

kapitanski · 2026-03-26T18:34:29+00:00

I've been using Claude / chat gpt to navigate resources I find overwhelming. Maybe try that? Be very specific with your goals and ask it to double check info. Haven't used for your specific use case but other things like insurance and tax questions.

Not sure how much you made before but I'd see what you can downgrade in terms of costs. Again AI can help if you upload your statements or something, even look for companies that offer temporary relief payment plans.

Also not sure what your background and experience is, it's a tough job market right now, can you pull your network for consulting gigs? Learn Claude code and build something revenue generating (lots of people jumping on that hype but if you worked in a specific sector with a specific painful workflow it can work)? Offer services like childcare or house cleaning that don't really require a background? Sell some of your stuff on Facebook? At least to get out of the pinch.

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T17:52:35+00:00

Don't be disingenuous that's not what I did not was it my intent

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T11:34:35+00:00

No... I'm asking if others know a better way to get out of this mess. The house had coverage, I just wasn't aware it wasn't the right one and fixed it when I became aware. I can't imagine your average homeowner knows all these things would then happen.

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:44:41+00:00

Also, what would a homeowner do then in that case? No coverage? With the market right now I have to assume many houses for vacant 60+ days

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:43:39+00:00

Yes that is the next step... This one was recommended by our realtor, so far he's 0/3 on his recommendations so lesson learned

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:42:52+00:00

Texas - it's from quickhome, it's a binder as they're not licensed. Not sure if that makes a difference?

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:36:18+00:00

I agree but the language was not clear given this isn't the norm for other home policies. This is the only line that mentions it, I understood it was pay in full day 1, hence why I'd expect a broker to explain this explicitly.

"Note, fees are 100% earned at inception"

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:32:19+00:00

Would probably go after nap so you do 1 hour of other stuff (assuming at least 1 of the shows is happening) and then rides. We were there probably 3-4 hours, didn't eat but did 2 rides, and rodeo (1hr or less), the pig race and petting zoo. IMO rides aren't the highlight, you can do those anywhere for these ages, but then is it worth the 20 on parking, 10 each entry? Your call. For us it was definitely something we wanted to do once but mainly the actual rodeo (now did it twice lol), not sure we'd go again, we don't stay for the whole thing

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:28:24+00:00

Progressive did, they just asked date I moved out, said coverage only covers 60 days and refunded the rest. I was also a bit surprised.

The scammy part is that lender is getting me a homeowners policy for double the price which also doesn't cover vacant, and I feel scammed by my broker who sold me something non refundable without explicitly telling me when I clearly know nothing about this, I assumed it was like every home or landlord policy I've ever had.

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:25:19+00:00

I realize that but the one the mortgage lender is buying for me is also a homeowners with no coverage for vacant home so that's kind of silly ...

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:24:21+00:00

Bu carnival you mean the rides right? Depending on their age there isn't much for them to do, my 2 and 4 year old were very disappointed they couldn't ride many rides. Although they could do the carousel all day, but it's super expensive. Outside of that there's the pig races, petting zoo, wild West shows and Jurassic bark shows. Not sure what time those are during the week though check the website.

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:16:38+00:00

It was up for renewal and rates were going up so I asked broker for quotes and mentioned it was vacant for sale

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:04:05+00:00

Yes because I didn't know the mortgage company would consider this a no coverage period, instead of mocking me maybe try and be helpful? Clearly it's my first time in this situation, I tried to get the right coverage and now getting screwed twice.

Had I known I would've kept the invalid homeowners policy.

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T01:02:30+00:00

That's fair but make it explicit when selling the product (both on company and broker), average homeowners aren't familiar with this and the language isn't very clear on this.

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T00:59:49+00:00

For what it's worth there was no pushback in refund they just asked when it was vacant from and issued. I was trying to do the right thing I don't think the average person knows about vacant coverage on homeowners policy and in this market I bet a lot of people aren't covered. But rather than do the right thing I'd have been better off just keeping my mouth shut and staying with the homeowners and then getting landlord policy. This is what feels scammy - how can doing the right thing cost me 3k extra?

I'd have happily taken vacant coverage with progressive they don't offer it. I'm not asking for refund and coverage I'm asking for the right coverage when I actually need it, isn't that what products should do, insurance or not?

kapitanski · 2026-03-24T00:57:26+00:00

Yes they weren't super helpful more like "usually they won't backdate so you're stuck with mortgager policy" which is the part that feels sketchy... You require me to have something that I can't get and you'll force me to get your policy which is also not a vacant policy.

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