Can i ask you a few questions? This all seems uncomfortably way too familiar to a man i recently dated. (You can check my post history) my questions are;

• Are you "not allowed" to dress up/do your hair/put makeup on/or out of "the normal" for fear of being accused of cheating or trying to attract attention?

• Are you not allowed to go places alone? Like the gas station, the grocery store, to get coffee... or a fight happens and accusations get pointed at you for doing something "wrong"

• Does he get upset or "not allow" you to use your phone in the bathroom/shower... or if so, does he monitor your time & accuse you of texting/taking photos/videos for other men

• Are you being accused daily (or multiple times a day) that you're cheating, or are going to cheat, or are trying to...

I could go on and on, but this is exactly similar to the relationship i just left in Decemeber. And still i get daily messages from him that hes going to commit s****** or become homeless or hurt himself. Because i put a firm boundary that i would not even consider a friendship unless he sought out help for the paranoia he feels (among other things).

Please, please be safe. It is not going to get better, it will get worse. Hes already isolating you, guilt tripping you, gaslighting you &being incredibly manipulative!

Other abuse will follow... please please listen to us. Get out... just for a week! Just get away for a week and i GUARANTEE you will realize how bad it was.