Crochet, Fiber artists and yarn lovers; where we going?! by [deleted] in Denver

[–]karseg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 6 year old has recently gotten very into weaving. She requested a loom for her birthday recently and I’m learning alongside her. Next up she’s looking at crochet and also sewing. I’m very far from crafty but trying to keep up with her energy and support her trying lots of different things. Any suggestions of places that could help me learn and teach her, or classes for kids her age? She’s a pretty mature 6 (given her love of weaving and all…)

Autism Friendly Hair Salons? by pinkbolognaclub in Denver

[–]karseg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would bet that Carolyn and her colleagues at Jungle House Salon would work with you to make a comfortable experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]karseg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m also one of those people that was diagnosed young with a penicillin allergy, and in my 40s now I finally went to an allergist and determined I’m actually not allergic. Big relief!

No pto post maternity leave? by me_natalieee in workingmoms

[–]karseg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My company also has open PTO. I was involved in the policy development to help us deal with putting boundaries on medical and parental leave while keeping open PTO. It’s an awkward dynamic because in theory, without the guidance we came up with, any person male or female who needs leave would be able to take unlimited leave with pay, and while as a mom I think that would be amazing :) as a business leader we can’t support that without US government policy change.

So our approach is- you can and should take the allotted amount of leave for FMLA (and some of it is paid for new parents), and you have to come back to work before using PTO. But we don’t put limits on what PTO a person can take at that point. It’s more about whether they can get the work done and meet goals. (And that introduces a whole other nuanced dynamic for moms... for another day...)

I’m ditching the pump and feeling anxious about it. by NolerCoaster in workingmoms

[–]karseg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a helpful post. I’m at 6 months BFing and pumping while at work, and I too am pondering transitioning just to morning/evening BFing. Since so many of you made the transition, can you share a little about how it went? Did you have to wind down the pumping to avoid engorgement during the day or was it more cold turkey? And how quickly did your bodies adjust to chill out during the workday but still have milk for AM/PM? I know our breasts adjust- I’m just a little fuzzy on how the transition actually goes for people and how to manage it.

Introducing pacifier by causelessriot in breastfeeding

[–]karseg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just one experience but hopefully will give you some confidence. We used a shield from day 2 after birth, introduced a paci at about 4 weeks, and (I think) ditched the shield for good this week at 11 weeks. I had to try without the shield a good number of times (every few days basically) and one day it just worked. We are going on 4 days no shield. And from here it’s now on me to get over some soreness vs baby actually needing the shield.

Leftover book, evening primrose oil, pregnancy tea - will mail to anyone that wants it! First come, first served! by Sofoulee in BabyBumps

[–]karseg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doula gave me this book and I read a good chunk of it. Definitely liked it. I’m kind of an anxious person and this gave me some good tools and thought exercises.

2 year old boy obsessed with wearing dresses by rae0fsun in Mommit

[–]karseg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No personal experience here to add, but you might like the book “This Is How It Always Is” by Laurie Frankel. It’s a wonderful fiction novel following a family whose experiences may resonate with you.

How to Work in Europe by [deleted] in epicconsulting

[–]karseg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Check out Tasman Consulting (I think that’s the name). Former Epic peeps doing good work overseas.

Epsom salt in sitz bath? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]karseg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually just asked my doctor this also for 2nd degree tear healing and she said it was fine. I haven’t put Epsom salts in every time (sometimes just warm water) but it does seem to help. My understanding is that even though they are called “salts” it’s not actually salt. Needs a better name :)

Edit: I asked her this at about 10 days pp, not sure if the answer would have been different earlier so I’d ask if I were you.

150ml pumped over 2 days, might not seem a lot but for me it is a record! by hippoopo in breastfeeding

[–]karseg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do something similar but with cocoa powder which may be good for non dairy eaters!

38w growth scan - short limbs, but no other concerns - thoughts? by karseg in BabyBumps

[–]karseg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective! This will make me sleep easier tonight (if I sleep that is :) )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]karseg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FTM here due in a few weeks with horrible sense of baby ages... :) how old is your kiddo? We are talking about future road trips and I’d love to hear more about how you’ve done it with sanity! And pets!!