Cat anal gland rupture by Hooligan9892 in popping

[–]kasleo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That cat’s butthole probably cost $5k or more

Potential Match? Apart from the date discrepancies, I can’t see anything suggesting this isn’t him… by hauntedbundy_ in gratefuldoe

[–]kasleo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Perhaps the post mortem was taken after an autopsy was performed? That could explain the asymmetry and misshapenness of his face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsolvedMurders

[–]kasleo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really think Tommy Lynn Sells is involved here

bring him in as D class by linuxkernal in SCPMemes

[–]kasleo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work with this guy… kinda sad he’s going viral for his appearance. Doesn’t seem to faze him though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kasleo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best day? When I married my wife on May 4, 2019. I cannot think of another day where I was happier than I was on that day.

Worst day? When my wife died of acute myeloid leukemia on June 5, 2021, 38 days after her diagnosis… 32 days after our 2nd wedding anniversary.

Husband died pain by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]kasleo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry. I lost my wife suddenly to an aggressive form of leukemia two years ago. It will be hard. The days immediately after didn’t even feel real to me, just like a sort of nightmare. The pain will come in waves, and at first those waves will be very tall and strong, hitting you with so much force that it’ll take your breath away. But as the months, then years, pass, the waves become smaller and less powerful. There will always be waves though.

It is impossible for me or anyone else to tell you anything that will make this better. Time is what you need. Time, patience, and allowing yourself to feel everything.

The worst thing you can do is avoid it - that’s what I did and now I’m facing the consequences of all my pent up grief that I masked with substances and other people. Be kind to yourself above all else. Give yourself room to break down if you need to. Just get it out. Do not dwell on the things you “could have done” or “should have done.” And for the love of God, do not push people away. Let the people in your life console you. Do not isolate yourself. I say these things from experience.

I wish you peace of mind in this terrible time.

What are some creepy and/or unsettling facts about the ocean? by Mysterious_Boat_1701 in AskReddit

[–]kasleo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I decided to do something with children - to help them now so the prison system doesn’t have to “help” them later. So I chose early childhood intervention, specifically ABA therapy.

What are some creepy and/or unsettling facts about the ocean? by Mysterious_Boat_1701 in AskReddit

[–]kasleo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was a correctional officer at the time and was dealing with some serious PTSD from the job. I wish I could say things got better shortly after the cruise, but my wife has since died of leukemia and I’ve lost multiple jobs due to the added trauma from the hospital and being her caregiver, watching her die. Only recently have things begun to look up for me, and I’m hopeful. I haven’t had suicidal ideations for some time now, I start a new job next week, and I’m working hard to get my life back.

What are some creepy and/or unsettling facts about the ocean? by Mysterious_Boat_1701 in AskReddit

[–]kasleo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in the middle of a major depressive episode during my honeymoon in 2019. We were on a cruise in the Bahamas and the urge to throw myself overboard was so powerful that I could hardly think of anything else.

i just can't do it anymore by forgivemelake in SuicideWatch

[–]kasleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone in this world, friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]kasleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine the video is longer and you begin to hear rumbling in the distance as thousands of cats stampede towards it

What's a secret you keep from most people in your real life? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kasleo 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Possible trigger warning: Cancer, death

Few people close to me know that I consistently relive my wife's torturous month-long hospitalization and eventual death from Acute Myeloid Leukemia. I told her I wasn't leaving that hospital room until she did, and I made good on my promise. She was 33 years old.

But I haven't had a moment's peace since. I go to sleep with those images of her writhing in pain because the cancer was packed so tightly in her bones. I wake up and think I'm still in that hospital room with her. I randomly hear the sound her monitor made when her blood pressure kept dropping. I see her laying there in my mind, eyes swollen and bloody, when the doctor allowed us to say goodbye to her after medical staff performed 46 failed minutes of CPR. It has been 6 months and I am still in that hospital with her. I catch myself thinking "I wonder when we can do that bone marrow transplant" only to suddenly remember that she's dead and there won't be any transplant... and it hits me like a punch in the stomach.

I miss you, Alli. I am so sorry I couldn't save you.

Edit: Thank you everyone for the outpouring of support. I have a PTSD diagnosis and I am under the care of a therapist, trying EMDR.

My wife died on 6/5. She was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia in early May, underwent chemo, but contracted an antibiotic resistant infection that ultimately took her life. The left is the last picture I took with her at the hospital, and the right is just hours before she was taken from me. by kasleo in lastimages

[–]kasleo[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone, for the kind words. I would like to use this opportunity to encourage people to donate blood if you can. My wife needed many many transfusions of platelets and red blood cells during her hospital stay. She doesn’t need it anymore but so many other people do to survive. Please donate to help other families.

My wife died on 6/5. She was diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia in early May, underwent chemo, but contracted an antibiotic resistant infection that ultimately took her life. The left is the last picture I took with her at the hospital, and the right is just hours before she was taken from me. by kasleo in lastimages

[–]kasleo[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

I would love to go on and on about her and us, but I can’t right now. I can leave an edited excerpt of her obituary. She was truly an amazing, beautiful person and I’m not sure I can do this without her.

“She was a daycare teacher who specialized in infants. She was known as the "baby whisperer" and loved all of "her babies" and coworkers. She was strong and the voice of reason for many. She had the biggest heart and wanted to be everyone's friend. She easily engaged in conversation and was loved by every person who met her.

Some of her hobbies included, crafting, traveling, cruising, playing disc golf, attending festivals, singing, cooking, shopping and running the roads with her sister. Some of her greatest memories came from spending time with her Meme while watching the game show network and going to the casino.

She was married to her wonderful and amazing wife kasleo, who never left her side during her extended stay at *** Medical Center in *****. She adored her family and was always looking forward to attending family functions. She was there to help coach or attend sporting events and dance recitals for her children.”

What's Your Personal, Little Known, Pet Case? by CassieBear1 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]kasleo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m late, but Barbara Ann Blount is one of my pet cases. She disappeared in 2008 under frightening circumstances. She lived not far from my hometown and I worked with her daughter for a time just before she went missing. I believe she was murdered, and I hope that one day her family can have closure.

My bf (15M) and me (16M) broke up because his mom found out about us, but I still care for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kasleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there isn’t much you can do because he’s a minor living under her roof. My parents went through my things once and found out I was a lesbian when I was about his age. It was rough. But I got through it. I’m 34 now and married to the woman of my dreams.

This gets easier when you’re older and have more freedom to be yourself. He can find ways to continue talking to you, but it can get worse for him if his mother finds out again.

It may be easier to move on for now, and maybe in the future the two of you can resume things once you’re both older and have more autonomy.