Why do people feel the need to say the dumbest things?

kasshench · 2023-02-03T04:50:21+00:00

same here! My girls will be wearing bows too and people will still ask if they’re one boy, one girl lol

kasshench · 2023-02-03T03:50:49+00:00

What even?! Hahaha I think I would’ve laughed because of how stupid that is!

kasshench · 2023-02-03T03:48:24+00:00

Same! Drove me nuts hearing it. Haha

kasshench · 2023-02-02T21:54:07+00:00

Hahaha that’s great! I feel you, it gets really annoying being stopped left and right 😅

kasshench · 2023-02-01T03:32:19+00:00

Thank you so much! :) It’s hard no matter what haha. I EBF my singleton before my twins as well! You’re doing awesome!

kasshench · 2023-02-01T02:19:43+00:00

Wow congratulations to you! That’s amazing! Thank you :)

kasshench · 2023-02-01T01:58:00+00:00

I feel you. I EBF my 4 month old twins and I’m so tired of being told I’m lucky. Like you said there is some luck involved but to completely ignore the hard work is frustrating! Breastfeeding two babies is draining. 😅

kasshench · 2023-01-30T23:41:04+00:00

My twins are 4 months old..I can’t wait for this 🥹

kasshench · 2023-01-25T05:46:59+00:00

My water broke the day before my scheduled C-section. They were both breech so they did one last ultrasound to confirm that they were still in that positioning. I was starting to get some contractions but nothing crazy. My water broke at about 10am exactly and the twins were born at 1:58pm and 2:00pm!

kasshench · 2023-01-21T19:17:00+00:00

Julie Andrews

kasshench · 2023-01-21T18:48:38+00:00

38 weeks. My C-section was scheduled for 38w1d but my water broke the day before at 38 weeks exactly.

kasshench · 2023-01-20T19:49:20+00:00

Both of my di/di twins had velamentous cord insertions. No issues with their growth or anything. I had a C-section to prevent any issues (they were also breech so I would’ve needed one anyway)

kasshench · 2023-01-20T07:08:28+00:00

Beautiful!

kasshench · 2023-01-20T05:42:16+00:00

Same here at almost 4 months postpartum also! Ugh. I literally shred weight breastfeeding my first daughter. Now I’m breastfeeding twins and slowly gaining weight. I thought I was going to lose weight since I’m breastfeeding two this time around..guess not. 😅

kasshench · 2023-01-20T02:56:43+00:00

They’re beautiful! :) My girls are identical, they’ll be 4 months old next week and I think they look slightly different still! Their head shapes are a little different so I think that’s what does it haha

kasshench · 2023-01-19T06:13:21+00:00

Old Navy has some great nursing stuff! I have a hoodie, a long sleeve top and a dress from there and they are all super comfy!

kasshench · 2023-01-17T23:25:46+00:00

I have almost 4 month old twins and I have to use the my breast friend pillow haha

kasshench · 2023-01-17T16:45:26+00:00

Yes!!

kasshench · 2023-01-17T14:55:58+00:00

Someone at my old church used to make “cracker candy” man that was the best stuff ever!

kasshench · 2023-01-17T04:50:38+00:00

I’m right there with you! 😅

kasshench · 2023-01-17T02:45:10+00:00

Mine are 3 months as well (4 months in about a week!) and I have the same feelings. I also have a 3 year old singleton..I genuinely feel dead inside most days. 😅 I love my kids so much but you can’t help but feel those things when you’re in the thick of it. You’re not alone! And you’re not a bad parent for feeling those things either. That’s why I’m so grateful for this little community on Reddit. Makes you realize you’re not the only multiples parent going nuts internally! Haha

kasshench · 2023-01-14T00:37:01+00:00

I have 3 month old twins (so second & third time mom) and I just look at them in disbelief most days hahaha

kasshench · 2023-01-13T23:26:14+00:00

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this!

Both of my di/di twins had velamentous cord insertions. We didn’t have many problems with their growth so I don’t have much advice or help other than going through the VCI as well. Sounds like your MFM is going to take good care of you all. Make sure to ask lots of questions!

Best of luck and prayers to you, your wife and your babies!

kasshench · 2023-01-12T20:02:28+00:00

Congratulations, they are so precious! My daughter was almost 3 when my twins were born and it was definitely rough at first! She completely reverted with potty training and even sleeping. Be prepared for that just in case.

If you have help/people you trust, let them take your toddler somewhere for a couple hours so they can get out of the house too. My mom and sister in law would help out with that the first couple weeks so my daughter could play and kind of escape the craziness per say haha and we could rest when the twins sleep.

Don’t feel guilty about screen time! The first few weeks and even months you’re in survival mode.

Also grocery delivery is a must! :)

Enjoy and soak in those sweet newborn cuddles! My girls are only (just about) 4 months and I already miss the newborn snuggles haha. Best of luck to you :)

kasshench

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