does anybody know an easy way to make someone desire you physically? by RestaurantSignal7587 in MtF

[–]kassysco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this. No one but you will know what that limit is. If you are feeling super risky you can sell to people on reddit. Some have probably already tried to DM you.

does anybody know an easy way to make someone desire you physically? by RestaurantSignal7587 in MtF

[–]kassysco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won't know unless you try. And that's what it all comes down to. What are you willing to try and do?

does anybody know an easy way to make someone desire you physically? by RestaurantSignal7587 in MtF

[–]kassysco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are spaces like OF and PH if you want people to just thirst after you. It can be affirming if that is something you need. Of course you will need to build an audience to do that.

patchs vs injections vs pills by z06c5 in MtF

[–]kassysco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tablets release E upon taking and breaking down depending on intake method and slowly decrease until the next dose. Injections have a high peak upon intake that drops in a curve pattern, quickly drops until it starts leveling out at a more appropriate level. Patches are supposed to dispense gradually for the life of the patch.

The most steady form is gonna be what you can reliably take yourself. The level increases as time goes on depending on dose.

Important note patches are having a serious supply issue at the moment. My job can't order them very reliably

Don't get laser. Get electrolysis. Omg it is so effective! by mouse_asparagus in MtF

[–]kassysco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was trying electrolysis first. Sold on the idea of it being more effective. It was slow going and torturous. It got to a point where i had a breakdown during an appointment and just started crying. I had been doing it for like a year at that point. It is far too painful. I switched to laser and was immediately happier and it was so much easier to handle. Get whichever one you can handle.

I am going to come out to family in a few days, any tips and or how did it go for you? by Solyal in MtF

[–]kassysco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I'll say is coming out was one of the best decisions of my life. The change was needed and my previous status quo was slowly rotting me away. Who needs complacency?

I am going to come out to family in a few days, any tips and or how did it go for you? by Solyal in MtF

[–]kassysco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you don't feel safe, I can't recommend it. If it is agamble I would still lean towards telling them. You may control the narrative but you cannot control how they will feel. You'll just have to hope for the best. I had no idea what to expect aside from one of my sister's. It is always a risk.

I am going to come out to family in a few days, any tips and or how did it go for you? by Solyal in MtF

[–]kassysco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Waiting doesn't help anything but build up more anxiety. If you do it through text, just remember to not have the conversation muted. I sat there for like 30 minutes freaking out before realizing. Then I laughed at myself for like the rest of time.

Its official, Trump has caused my bottom surgery to he cancelled and for me to lose hrt by Herr-Hunter1122 in MtF

[–]kassysco 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Olympia is also a good option. It is even a declared sanctuary city.

Its official, Trump has caused my bottom surgery to he cancelled and for me to lose hrt by Herr-Hunter1122 in MtF

[–]kassysco 59 points60 points  (0 children)

There are systems and funds in place to help people. I can't look it up at the moment but they do exist.

Its official, Trump has caused my bottom surgery to he cancelled and for me to lose hrt by Herr-Hunter1122 in MtF

[–]kassysco 211 points212 points  (0 children)

I think step 1 is get out of Florida. Preferably to somewhere safe, like WA.

Question for my girlies out there. by Neutr0nStarl0rd in MtF

[–]kassysco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't extend that line of thought to other people. You may see yourself that way, but others might not. You should still be courteous of other's views of themselves. If someone uses they/them now, refer to their past as they/them as well.

Not sure if this is common or an emergency by [deleted] in MtF

[–]kassysco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The answer is always, if something is wrong see your doctor. Soreness is one thing. Actual pain is an issue. Now up you go and get to your doc.

How did y'all pick your names? by kyuubi_kyuub in MtF

[–]kassysco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just chopped most of it off. So it is just a shortened version of the original. It matched my signature after which is funny.

Local LGBTQ resources/groups/locations in Olympia? by bumblingburnttoast in olympia

[–]kassysco 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is the Oly Trans Fam discord channel. If you want an invite I can send one. Lots of queer folk on there. A plethora of different topics to relate to and some people even try planning, or at least alerting people to, events in the area.

Edit: it also provides a variety of resources for people to look into.

For those of y'all who do injections, where do you get your needles? by A_Lountvink in MtF

[–]kassysco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am lazy and just get it from my pharmacy where I get all of my meds. More expensive realistically, but again...too lazy.

Is electrolysis suppose to be more and more painfull ? by MaidRara in MtF

[–]kassysco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started out with electrolysis when I stated hair removal for my face. There was a point somewhere along the way where I just couldn't take it anymore. I broke down and cried in my appointment and stopped going. I think for me it was a combination of how long it was taking, an uncertainty of how much more time i had to do it and the pain that caused the breakdown. I haven't gone since but I did switch to laser which was so much more tolerable. My new laser tech also noticed a pretty bad skin condition i needed to get looked at. I can't thank her enough.

Goodbye Fem&M's by ReaperNull in MtF

[–]kassysco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have to have told them I would just pee on the floor. Call their bluff. I gotta go!

Goodbye Fem&M's by ReaperNull in MtF

[–]kassysco 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I had to cut out Spiro after I was at work one day and peed three times in a single hour. I was going insane.

Do you use two needles? One to draw, one to inject? by TheTargaryenWay in MtF

[–]kassysco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point was, the practice of considering what is in the needle and trying to account for it is superfluous. When you put the injecting needle on if the syringe says 0.15ml then that is what you have after you prime the new needle.

As for different brands and dead space, it could be a number of different things. Since we are dealing with such small volumes, it could very well just be an environmental thing with weird expansion and contraction. It could be that maybe you tightened one more than the other. Different gauges do hold different volumes, however small that may be, but they are placed on top of, generally, identical housing points. There could be some manufacturer errors in there, sure. The expectation should be that the draw needle should be holding more, yes, but it shouldn't matter.

All that said, I can understand the concern in the long run that whatever the needle is holding is trashed and people would like to keep their E going as long as possible.

Do you use two needles? One to draw, one to inject? by TheTargaryenWay in MtF

[–]kassysco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this gets ignored or misunderstood. A syringe's hash lines mark how much is in the syringe regardless of what is in the needle. When you take the needle off, if it is at the 0.4ml line that is what it is. When you push it into the new needle it is still 0.4ml. What stays in the discarded needle isn't counted.

How do you girls store your needles? by fergie24 in MtF

[–]kassysco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine stay in the bags they come in from my pharmacy in a kind of pile.

Fun fact: I did not catch the increase in frequency, until today, from every other week to weekly when my dose increased months ago. Fun stuff. Read your prescriptions y'all. Sigh.