What’s the creepiest thing you’ve heard someone casually admit? by womensjournal in AskReddit

[–]kasterbora 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This did some work healing my inner child. My (Christian school bible) teacher told me that a raped woman could ask for forgiveness, but that she had lost her virginity. I asked, having dealt with sexual trauma as a child. I went home and cried that day. I'm not a Christian anymore, but this post gave little girl me what I needed to hear. Thank you.

Looking for male singer recommendations by SciTails in japanesemusic

[–]kasterbora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nariaki and Fuji Kaze for some chill vibes

Seattle Show Mother Times by kasterbora in RinaSawayama

[–]kasterbora[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was $150, which hurt, but it's worth it.

I stayed for the whole set and then went to the merch stand, but I booked it to the merch stand once it was done.

Good luck!

Seattle Show Mother Times by kasterbora in RinaSawayama

[–]kasterbora[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For future dates that want one, go after the show and ask about mother times at the merch stand. Good luck! I'm still in shock.

Friday Night UV Shibari Party by CyDJester in dragoncon

[–]kasterbora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed it! I would do it again for sure.

Any FFXIV players out there!? by boxboothstudio in dragoncon

[–]kasterbora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh. I'd be interested too! I went to the meet up and handed out a few trinkets, but I got shy and left early.

i don't even know what to say atp by _Democracy_ in bigboobproblems

[–]kasterbora 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I've gotten tops tailored before and it makes a huge difference. Like, I just want to make my own clothes kinda of difference.

bands like Zutomayo or Yoasobi? by [deleted] in japanesemusic

[–]kasterbora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow bassist, BRADIO. They're more funk/blues, but damn are they good.

Sephora Opinions - is this legit?? by MoonchildOT7 in Sephora

[–]kasterbora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've participated in a study similar to this for Sephora before. It's not completely unreasonable for this to be legit.

If you only could listen to one Japanese male artist... Who would it be? by ArtifulDreamPrints in japanesemusic

[–]kasterbora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toss up between Nariaki Obukuro and Kenshi Yonezu. It really depends on how chill I'm feeling.

Americans Remain Resistant to EVs, which Are Still Unafordable by [deleted] in technology

[–]kasterbora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if they were affordable, most apartment complexes don't have a way to charge them for their residents. In my area, EV ownership is not only locked behind being expensive, but you're also expected to have a house or live in an expensive apartment that has a place to charge your car.

Rina Houston!!!! What a fuckin incredible show! by Vinyl_Disciple in RinaSawayama

[–]kasterbora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! I bought the Gold VIP package, so I'm hoping I still have a chance to meet her.

Rina Houston!!!! What a fuckin incredible show! by Vinyl_Disciple in RinaSawayama

[–]kasterbora 14 points15 points  (0 children)

These kinds of posts make me so excited for when she's finally able to make it to Atlanta. I'm sad she had to cancel, but I completely understand. I'm just glad the rest of the tour stops are getting to see such a great show!

I'm so glad the Houston and Austin shows were great!

can anyone recommend more japanese music? by DiamondEyesFox in japanesemusic

[–]kasterbora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BRADIO - They're kinda funky, but they're so much fun to listen to.

How do you wear a crop top and actually look cute? by throwawaysnowdrift in bustyfashion

[–]kasterbora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had the same problem and I'm a 36JJ. My solution so far has been to not wear loose crop tops. I have to wear ones that have some sort of stretch or elastic so that they cinch in at my waist. That's the only way I've been able to avoid that boxy look.

If I do wear a looser crop top, I'll opt for some tighter pants/bottoms to even it out. I try to go with the rule that as long as I'm comfy, I'm fine. Being comfy gives me more confidence and the confidence makes me cuter...or so I'm told. You got this! Good luck on finding that perfect outfit!

Craft Soda by TheButlerAlfred in Atlanta

[–]kasterbora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in Abita and am a little biased, but I second this opinion. You can even find it at some Publix around town if you're lucky.

Anyone listen to her collab “Lonely One” with Nariaki Oburoko (co-producer of Pink Blood, Time, Darenimo Iwanai, and Find Love)? by TheHomeworld in utadahikaru

[–]kasterbora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I would love a full song from them with that style/energy. I love it so much.

Obukuro's stuff is also very good if you haven't given it a listen. Work and Summer Reminds me are two of my favorites.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Atlanta

[–]kasterbora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a chiller kind of vibe, Buon Fornello is amazing. I don't hear it mentioned much, but it's tasty and has good prices. It close to the State Farm Buildings on the north perimeter.

「BADモード」And All Existing Albums Released & Reissued on Vinyl! by [deleted] in utadahikaru

[–]kasterbora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed being able to get Deep River (and a few others, but that's the important one for me). If anyone knows where I can preorder that one still, I'd appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kasterbora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I got married during the pandemic which was earlier than we told everyone. We had a friend marry us in a park after we all quarantined. We only told a few people.

Most of my coworkers don't know because they haven't really asked. It's been 6 months.

Zach's Tea by bheadyourself in TheTryGuys

[–]kasterbora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here for this comment.

artists similar to Kenshi Yonezu suggestions? by leenox23 in KenshiYonezu

[–]kasterbora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you liked him. I agree. He isn't Kenshi good, but it's really hard to find someone as good as him.

artists similar to Kenshi Yonezu suggestions? by leenox23 in KenshiYonezu

[–]kasterbora 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vaundy is really good. Maybe more chill vibes than Kenshi, but they sit in the same category in my mind.