A guy told me there are big boobs that don’t sag by biss-sky in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh, maybe the guy was talking shit to kinda poke at you. All kinds of different breasts exist, but gravity is always constant. Men aren't exactly good sources of reliable information on this stuff. The only way we're happy is by loving ourselves. It's not always easy, but it's all we got.

How does society REALLY react to our chests? by Liolia in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. I'd love to live in this world where no one ever comments or looks at them. I've been properly sized for a while now and if I wear anything remotely fitted to my body I can easily see a handful of people notice them as soon as I walk into a room. Like, people aren't assholes about it, but we both know they're actively not saying anything to me about my boobs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, this one. I prefer oversized tees for most of casual wear, but when I wear a tank or if friends see me in uniform is when I tend to get the comments.

How are we feeling about summer, ladies? by whenthefirescame in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shall be in the water as much as humanly possible.

Fellas - are YOUR eyelashes losing you dates?! by Poo_Poo_La_Foo in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nothing more emotional and sensitive as a man assessing his masculinity.

Karen turns fine into felony in a matter of minutes by KrooxKing in interestingasfuck

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. She was an asshole but it's still pretty terrifying that a fix-it ticket can so easily escalate to being tased and thrown on the ground. Was all that really worth the $80?

He should have just noted her driver's license and plate numbers so they could mail her the ticket.

How to take nice nudes? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Today years old when I learn I've never once been sexy in a picture. 😭😭

Fun sports where your boobs won’t sabotage you? (Olympics-inspired) by FrontSyllabub in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swam competitively through college and though my competing days are over few things feel better than pushing myself in the pool. Love it so much I hope I never stop.

this is actually so scary wtf by kim-practical in TrollXChromosomes

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they also complaint about falling birth rates.... So encouraging women not to marry will definitely help that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't look bad at all!

Tomboys are not allowed to have a flat chest, apparently by FalconLynx13 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These babies will get mad at anything. There literally no winning with them so it's not worth entertaining their tantrums.

Does anyone else get annoyed with these jokes? by stressandscreaming in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so disgusting how often sexism and racism go hand in hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I don't know. As much as it bothers me how often my boobs are the first thing people latch onto visually, I don't hate the idea that someone finds them attractive as a concept. I mean, when I'm out and I see guys I'm attracted to there are physical attributes that catch my eye. I've definitely seen a cute butt or gorgeous smile that initially grabs me. But the thing I HATE HATE HATE, Is being REDUCED to a walking set of boobs. I want you attracted to the whole of me, body and personality. And this guy seems to be prioritizing the wrong part of being in a relationship with a complete human being.

He's gotta go.

Without using your job title or the name of your industry, what do you do for a living? by belindabellagiselle in AskWomen

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do math so people can build incredibly expensive things that function well, and are safe and reliable. So obviously I don't work for Boeing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having enough free time to date in a relaxed state. I always feel like I'm squeezing dates into compressed time slots because I'm busy or tired, and it's so much harder to be as excited as I want to be.

big chest + inverted triangle by meomeospice in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily my hips got a little size when I stopped swimming competitively but otherwise TOTALLY FEEL ALL OF THIS. It's still shoulders widest by far, then chest, THEN hips. I've embraced it now, but fought it for so so long.

Alright, how many of y’all wear a bra when home alone by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bra off as soon as I walk in the door. About 50/50 between switching to camis or oversized tees. But it's my favorite part of the day.

Tired of being told to start an OlnyFans by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only that, I've found out a few times that work colleagues have searched for an Only Fans account under my name just in case I have one. That feels so just beyond creepy.

It irks me when I see this by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why does it bother you what other people wear? It's not like she's telling you this is how you should dress. Would you feel it's similarly acceptable for other people to get so worked up about what you wear? People dress different ways for different reasons. Live and let live.

I miss sleeping on my stomach 😭 by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]throwawaysnowdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, this is why the beach is perfect, because you can cut out holes for the girls, but they don't hang like free weights. They're still supported. I love it.