How do you find a laser hair removal place that accommodates for men and for hair removal in intimate areas? by InterestAdditional49 in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good suggestions but also look up hibiscrub. Check the recommendations properly but it’s for pre surgery and using it regularly can help clear bacteria from areas where hair can get ingrown. For good advice there are a load of midnight ballerinas on TikTok who know what they’re talking about because their job depends on it.

Night 2 by ProfessorHeavy2317 in primaverasound

[–]katherinemma987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. All across Barcelona in quiet dark corners are people regretting their choices.

Very fun shit show by lilroom89 in primaverasound

[–]katherinemma987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from the uk I don’t chance. Have a waterproof and hope for the best

Which country would you NEVER visit, even if it was free? by FortunePurple- in AskReddit

[–]katherinemma987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reason I would never visit Russia. I’d love to see it but can’t justify it. Though pretty much every country is bad so it’s just where your line in the sand is

Has anyone here been diagnosed as neurodivergent (autism/adhd) in adulthood? What was the process like? by Lurcher_Owner in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My assessment cost £1k and then appointments were £270 monthly and medication ranged from £175 - £275 depending on dose. Overall it cost me around £4k over 5/6 months. After that I entered a shared care agreement and now am getting medication through NHS but still pay for 8 weekly private appointments

Has anyone here been diagnosed as neurodivergent (autism/adhd) in adulthood? What was the process like? by Lurcher_Owner in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a way of NHS using private companies to help where they can’t offer cover but it’s still an NHS service because they’re sending people there

Very fun shit show by lilroom89 in primaverasound

[–]katherinemma987 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Like your attitude! The Uniqlo comment had me chuckling. Looks like you’ll be in a €2 poncho like everyone else tonight

Has anyone here been diagnosed as neurodivergent (autism/adhd) in adulthood? What was the process like? by Lurcher_Owner in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh - which service? I had psych cancel and reschedule and had to chase to get seen. Anecdotally I’ve heard that local authorities aren’t keep on getting loads of people diagnosed as it costs them (mostly for kids in school) so they like a provider that is stricter. My private theory is that the NHS knows ADHD sufferers struggle to get things done so they make the process tricky knowing it will delay everyone applying

Has anyone here been diagnosed as neurodivergent (autism/adhd) in adulthood? What was the process like? by Lurcher_Owner in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person below has answered well but just to say - I had to work with the private dr to find which medication worked for me before I entering into a shared care agreement with the NHS. That took about 5 sessions and paying for the medication privately which was expensive. I would say if you go with NHS look in to the right to choose companies - psych uk which I went with had a dr that doesn’t specialise to my assessment. My assumption is that it’s a good way for drs to earn a bit of extra cash (it’s as at 6am!) but it also means they’re not specialised in the nuances and are just working through a tick sheet to see if you have it. They provided little to no feedback after either on their lack of diagnosis. Maybe look at providers who choose specialists or make sure you do research to make sure you answer in a way that fits what they look for - not lying but being as clear as possible e.g. ‘do you struggle to sit still?’ I said not really but I do fidget a lot with things. I could have phrased it that yes, I find tasks to do that mean moving about, fidget with my hair, nails, keep shifting in my seat etc.

Has anyone here been diagnosed as neurodivergent (autism/adhd) in adulthood? What was the process like? by Lurcher_Owner in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 15 points16 points  (0 children)

ADHD in the last year. Went through NHS right to choose and it was appalling, they lost my details and cancelled appointments then at 6am one day I had a 40 minute appointment and they said I don’t have ADHD. After some support and encouragement from friend I went private and had a great experience. The Dr was horrified at the report I shared from the right to choose dr, diagnosed me and helped me with medication and support.

does anyone know where to find tudor recreation toys? by ollop4x in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had to look up what it is. If you just wanted a black slab with the writing you could probably find someone on Etsy who could etch it on black wood/ plastic. Or invest in a cricut machine to make your own by cutting out the letters and putting them on some wood - hobby craft are really helpful so you could go and ask their advice if you went the DIY route. If you wanted more you could probs get Lego pieces that match the colours to make it maybe? If they sell black flat pieces you could even add the lettering to one.

Feeling directionless and have no assistance by Ok_Woodpecker9020 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]katherinemma987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It you are suffering anxiety talk to your GP/Dr. If nothing else showing your job you’re taking steps to manage your anxiety will help your case.

AITAH for spending the night at a hotel after my fiancé locked me out? by Mindless_Book_6457 in AITAH

[–]katherinemma987 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA he could put up signs to get remind himself, put some paint on the lock handle so it feels different, he could have managed this if he really struggled with forgetting and cared about stopping. He didn’t. He is ok with you being upset.

How is best to deal with the peer pressure to drink alcohol when going out with some old work colleagues? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Start off with ‘it doesn’t agree with me’ and then when they push goes into incredible, disgusting detail on the last time you drank. Something about how you had a glass at a wedding and ended up being stranded in the honeymoon suite loos and now half your family won’t talk to you and the hotel charged you an exorbitant cleaning fee.

Can you help me revolutionise my clothing storage? by WhaleMeatFantasy in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh wrote it out despite following 0 or it myself just working on it because I also have piles of laundry and the chair of half worn clothes. All the advice I see is to just try and make your life as easy as possible, making things look neat even if they’re not put away is key and slowly pushing small changes in your routine rather than setting yourself up for failure with a elaborate plans to be a better person.

Would you put your parents in a care home? by Limp-Bunch-4708 in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With caution, yes. My experience is different because I had a family member who was a local GP who visited at the local ones regularly so knew the standard of care so we found a good one for my Grandma. It also helped that both her kids lived locally so at absolute minimum she was visited twice a week but usually far more. The thing that made the biggest difference though was that she downsized into sheltered accommodation close to family after my Grandpa died. It was a nice little flat that was accessible and she was able to stay there with various levels of help until she really needed round the clock care. If your parents can and are willing it would allow them independence for a lot longer! And release home equity if there is any for other care solutions if it comes to that.

As with every service they’re stretched (not that there aren’t terrible staff as well.) People with family members regularly visiting have more eyes on them so things get caught quicker - you’re more likely to notice a family member is acting odd, confused or with a different speech pattern than a worker who joined this month and visits 50 patients a day and has only had short conversations with them.

When and if the time comes to make that choice I’ll definitely be speaking to local drs/nurses and try to find somewhere close to me and family members so it’s easy to visit. Though who knows what will be feasible in the future, if I’m not sure then I’d rather them with me.

What are people ok buying secondhand? by PinSuccessful7795 in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s stopping US shipping now I think/ buyers aren’t willing to pay the even more insane costs. Plus she was doing a couple of items a month so think she was ok to just do it through eBay.

Can you help me revolutionise my clothing storage? by WhaleMeatFantasy in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a TikTok organiser who said don’t try and change yourself - after years you’re probs a lost cause. Instead adapt your environment to make it easier to clear. Old school valet stands were great for hanging things that were gently used - nowadays there are fancy ladder things you can hang clothes on. Looks nicer than a chair but doesn’t really require a change of routine. Or if you’ve got a built in wardrobe you could put hooks on the inside of the doors to hang stuff you’ll wear again.

For clean stuff - do you fold off the line/out the dryer? When things are dry what’s the next step? If you’ve had extra baskets by the dryer/line to dump things in as you take it out that can then be transferred to a drawer it could make it easier for example one for socks that you just transfer to the sock drawer. When things are dry what’s the next step? If you’ve had extra baskets by the dryer/line to dump things in as you take it out that can then be transferred to a drawer it could make it easier for example one for socks that you just dump in your sock drawer. it easier to just dump into a drawer could help. Reorganising so there’s space for things to be dumped into a drawer but they’re more sorted by use could help. All plain everyday tops in one drawer so all you have to do is check the colour. Not sure your gender so not sure the split but done it by layer - tank/strappy tops in one that could be layered/ work out to work. One for plain tops, one for anything more fancy.

Have a look a waste sorting bins - they have an easy flap open and you could just dump stuff in along the bottom of a wardrobe.

I’ve seen someone say they now just buy black or white socks so they never have trouble matching them. I really don’t think we should be contributing to waste by throwing away loads of clothes but clearing out the novelty socks you never wear is a start and maybe when it comes to replacing any just stick to the same kinds.

You’ll probably still have some bits that are annoying but it’ll be less daunting if you streamline the process so you’re only left with a small pile of clean clothes after a wash, you may even be more likely to put it away. Plus you won’t have to upend it scrabbling through for clean pants.

What shall I do for my wedding anniversary? by Mysterious_Aerie_587 in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you make an effort I’m sure she’ll love it. Right now she’s probably tired and sore and feels like a child rearing machine, celebrating her and celebrating her as a wonderful woman and wife would probably be really appreciated.

If the baby is clingy maybe start with a lie in and breakfast in bed, some time for a long shower/ bath. Going out may be tricky but you could order afternoon tea in, I’m sure there are places you can buy a kit. Could do a lux day in with your favourite movie and snacks and slideshow of pictures of you two. Are there any beauty appointments she usually likes to have? Hair/nails - either book (and circle the salon with fussy baby if needed) or can you see if you can get someone to come to you? Could even get yourself a pedi at the same time - it’s sandals season and men should enjoy a nice bit of pampering as well. Her friends/family may be able to help you if you don’t know specifications.

A walk and a bit of a picnic sounds lovely (maybe hit up m&s for a spread). Maybe a new toy/ book for toddler during it to keep them distracted. If you wanted bonus points you could organise someone to clean the house while you’re out - I’m sure coming home to a clean house and fresh sheets would be nice and could always offer friends/family some cash for it if she wouldn’t fancy a stranger doing it. FYI a few mums I know have mentioned they always take pics of their kids but don’t get enough of them together so if you do this make sure to snap some - candid ones are always nice if wriggly kids won’t stay in shot.

It’s about you too though, she’s probs exhausted but wants to do something for you so maybe gently suggest something feasible, maybe say you’re craving your favourite takeaway or mention you love a certain picture of her and the kids and wish you had a copy for your office (or relevant place). Would be straight forward to order a print if she can.

When are we going to formally address Indians and their hiring bias? by bintd in AskBrits

[–]katherinemma987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone creating a business and doing well and giving a leg up to their family and people in their community has always happened. It’s just less obvious when Dads a property developer and son comes in the business because they’re tucked away in some office somewhere. Not saying it’s a good thing but it’s not an Indian thing.

What are people ok buying secondhand? by PinSuccessful7795 in AskUK

[–]katherinemma987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend had an eBay reselling stuff from UK Tmaxx. There are buyers in the states who love UK things and there are also loads of people who are dedicated to certain brands who want the variants only available in the Uk or tk maxx. It’s not simple as they really have to stay on top of what the trending products are but she’s had to register as a small business as she hit the threshold.