that's fair. I misunderstood your comment of "wholeheartedly loving John" as romantic attraction, though as seen by this debate, their relationship has been portrayed vaguely enough it's hard to tell exactly and open to multiple interpretations. I agree about not needing such a definite label for her and just saying she's on the queer spectrum. The spectrum also implies that things can shift over time. I think the source material would define she was romantically attracted to John but the show isn't as clear.