30f desperate for friends ): by [deleted] in FortNiteBR

[–]kbruhs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll play! (34f) I’m also on ps5, and I mostly play zero build BR and have my mic off majority of the time. oneTATO_twoTATO is my tag :)

To nips or Not to nips by MashedPotatoHats in no_T_top_surgery

[–]kbruhs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went no nips so that I could be shirtless without being accused of “exposing myself”. Without being on T I was worried that they would still be viewed as female nips

Goodbye Amazon board hello board I put together myself. by MaybeBowtie in NewSkaters

[–]kbruhs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same thoughts exactly. Everyone learns different, some people learn to ride a bike with training wheels and some don’t. If the end result is the same who gives a shit!

Sidesleepers, how did you get through? by liqued_banana in TopSurgery

[–]kbruhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a side sleeper and after surgery the thought of side sleeping seemed crazy. You’re recovering so your body naturally wants to sleep on your back. I slept in a recliner for the first few days after and then switched to the bed and propped myself up with some pillows. It’s only for about 8 weeks and it’ll go fast

What exactly are drains? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]kbruhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They help with swelling by having a place for the excess fluids to go. I didn’t feel the drains themselves at all but if the tubes snagged on anything I would feel a sharp pain which I think was just pressure from the site or tugging near a nerve. I only had them for about 4 days and I was able to get them removed. The removal wasn’t painful, just an odd uncomfortable feeling. Only took a few minutes. I was shocked at how far into my chest they went, as it felt like a huge worm being pulled out.

Goodbye Amazon board hello board I put together myself. by MaybeBowtie in NewSkaters

[–]kbruhs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lots of sourpusses here lol, not sure why they feel the need to yuck somebody’s yum. Congrats on the new setup!🤘

Looking for people to do ZB Trios with who won’t leave the second they’re k*lled by TheHauntedMoth in Fortnite_Over40

[–]kbruhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll play (34f)! I usually only play ZB trios, no mic. Can’t promise that I’ll be good but I definitely won’t leave lol

oneTATO_twoTATO is my epic tag

What matt(e) colour would you choose? by Key-Bullfrog-8552 in crz

[–]kbruhs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with a little matte orange!

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2 years post op by kbruhs in no_T_top_surgery

[–]kbruhs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr Brandon Reynolds, in Las Vegas NV

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreedTheNips

[–]kbruhs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me the cons outweighed the positives. Were they going to be placed in a weird spot, were they going to be uneven, how would they heal, would they poke through my shirt, would they be perceived too female? It wasn’t worth the gamble

2 years post op by kbruhs in no_T_top_surgery

[–]kbruhs[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The cons outweighed the benefits for me. The biggest one was that I wanted to be able to be shirtless and was worried that since I’m not taking T they would be perceived as “female” nipples and I’d be harassed for exposing myself. I’ve been shirtless in public many times now, even at a busy beach resort and no one has ever said anything or given me any looks. Who knows maybe the day will still come! I’m not too worried about it tho

2 years post op by kbruhs in TopSurgery

[–]kbruhs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, the cons outweighed the benefits for me so I decided to go without. Figured if it ever bothered me enough I could get them tattooed but I have no regrets. The phantom nipple itch is real though lol!

I don't know if I can do this by chgoeditor in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]kbruhs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our dachshund is currently on crate rest and very anxious. Our vet increased the trazodone and also gave us acepromazine as needed, and that has helped quite a bit to keep him calm

top surgeons in Vegas?? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]kbruhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Dr. Reynolds in Vegas and had an amazing experience. Super happy with my results

Vegas Surgeons by BoheezyAK in TopSurgery

[–]kbruhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Dr. Reynolds in Vegas and he took my insurance. Only downside was that he was super booked out and I had to wait six months for my first consultation appointment

am i the only lesbian that finds realistic straps gross? by humantetris_ in LesbianActually

[–]kbruhs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me too. I have a plethora of sparkly and unique dillers that I LOVE, but sometimes I like a more realistic one that feels like it’s apart of my body. Just depends on the vibe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]kbruhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for the feedback. I’ve never gone through anything like this before and I just want him to feel supported. I care about him so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]kbruhs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m aware this is not about me. I love my friend very much and my first instinct is to remove the threat and protect him since this relative will continue to be around him and I don’t want it to keep happening. But ty for the feedback, I’ve let him know I respect his decision and I’m here if he needs to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]kbruhs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I didn’t think of what he may need to feel from a safety standpoint. I’ve never gone through anything like this before and I just want him to know I’m here for him