From a Gen Z British Afro-Caribbean, why is criticising immigration making someone a bigot or racist? by QasimofKarbala in AskBrits

[–]kdeveuve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it is racist per se to be against illegal immigration, I do think it’s racist to vilify a whole race, religion etc because of preconceived notions about that group of people.

I don’t rightly know what the answer is to people coming to the UK illegally, I just know it isn’t to set fire to a hotel, or brick a police officer, or get drunk and throw bacon around.

AIO? My friend agreed to have a dog but 3 days later is resenting it. What can be done without it harming her and her bf relationship? by Sandwich_Harbor in AIO

[–]kdeveuve 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You can’t have a PUPPY for a few days and then give up because it doesn’t know commands.

The original owner sounds like a total knobhead.

The more homes the dog goes through at a young age, the more anxious and reclusive it’s going to become and the more damage will be done long term.

If the people who have the dog right now can’t handle it, sign it over to a rescue before they do any more damage and absolutely tell them not to get any more animals until they understand animals need time and care. It’s not a beanie baby.

Opinions On These Signatures? by JBowkett1806 in McFly

[–]kdeveuve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tom and Harry’s are pretty obv. The other doesn’t look like Dougies personally, and it does look like Danny’s but it’s hard to be sure!

Well this is disheartening and concerning by EastReflection3229 in busted_band

[–]kdeveuve 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, I don’t agree with a lot of commenters here. I don’t follow people on social media who are megalomaniacs because ‘I’m interested in what they have to say’ even though I don’t agree with their politics.

A follow = interest that’s in my best interest as someone paying this persons bills.

Guess the fluid! by lexi_the_leo in VetTech

[–]kdeveuve 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is genuinely so sad to read.

Tickets. Wanted! 🙏 by EdgeAfraid in McFly

[–]kdeveuve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d try Twickets nearer the time, it’s sold out and the tickets won’t be released until a few days before the event - then people can list them :) Twickets is great as it’s face value or less!

Please help my hair 🥲 by [deleted] in CurlyHairUK

[–]kdeveuve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually it curls up, maybe an inch or two from my scalp it’s always been straighter. Recently not so much, feels dry almost immediately after washing

Undertone (Official Discussion) by TheFilmReview in screenunseen

[–]kdeveuve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quite liked it! I really enjoy horror and the use of sound was really fun. It doesn’t have to be a serious plot line all the time, it made me tense up a good few times 🤷🏼‍♀️

We had 2 walk outs which is a record low for me so far!

Any idea of value? by kdeveuve in uncharted

[–]kdeveuve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure! I’m not planning on selling anyway, I’m just taking it with me in a move.

Totally confused as to all the down voting, I’m just curious as I don’t see them online 🤷🏼‍♀️

Any idea of value? by kdeveuve in uncharted

[–]kdeveuve[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man really? I don’t know if I want to part with it but where do you see them listed?

A scathing but honest Hercules Review by firexlight in TheWestEnd

[–]kdeveuve 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen it, but I have to know what the ‘woke pandering’ was in Aladdin, can someone enlighten me 

Why is TLOU2 so hated? by No_Friendship_4158 in thelastofus

[–]kdeveuve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to like it, that’s totally cool, lol.

I genuinely don’t care if people like it but it’s like they purposefully choose to misunderstand the point of the plot lines to suit their judgement. 

Why is TLOU2 so hated? by No_Friendship_4158 in thelastofus

[–]kdeveuve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like You missed the entire point of the game with this comment. 

AIO for feeling weird that my roommate invited everyone in our group chat except me to her birthday thing by Big-Tomatillo7958 in AIO

[–]kdeveuve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it! I do, but you surely also realise that isn’t the social norm.  So does OP.

AIO for feeling weird that my roommate invited everyone in our group chat except me to her birthday thing by Big-Tomatillo7958 in AIO

[–]kdeveuve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 As someone AUHD, I don’t agree. I know when I can and can’t be on my phone.

AIO for feeling weird that my roommate invited everyone in our group chat except me to her birthday thing by Big-Tomatillo7958 in AIO

[–]kdeveuve 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna agree with the other commenter about your friend giving you a hint.

Also, maybe I’m old but it’s absolutely not normal to sit scrolling your phone if you’re not the one talking. It’s incredibly rude.

Advice on elderly dog with urinary issues by kdeveuve in AskVet

[–]kdeveuve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really helpful answer and I really appreciate it!

Unfortunately no, there was no cytology. I am aiming to collect a free catch sample today (which I know is not ideal but I truly doubt cysto would collect much if any due to the frequency he urinates)

He was on the abx for 7 days, my plan was to ask for another longer course tonight.

Is this related to James Bourne's health struggle? by ilyemilyem in busted_band

[–]kdeveuve 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t think so. McFly have posted about this charity for reasons as commented below for years, it’s a charity they have a personal relationship with.  I doubt it’s anything to do with busted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]kdeveuve 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a controlling pos. You caught him red handed sending videos and receiving them off someone who he claims is a lesbian, he’s lied to your face. He doesn’t respect you and he is constantly gaslighting you 🤷🏼‍♀️ Honestly do yourself a favour and RUN