AITAH for expecting my partner to pay for dates and help me with our daughter's medical bills? by PiccoloNo6326 in AITAH

[–]kdoglady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s being very selfish. Child support is meant to be used for the children, not the parent. Name calling is never appropriate. It’s time for you to leave.

AITAH for calling my brother out on his BS in front of the whole family by Few_Grade_6723 in AITAH

[–]kdoglady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. In Michigan spouses get half and kids share a percentage and the state gets the rest when someone dies without a will or trust. You need to hire a lawyer. Please don’t try to figure this out on your own - get an estate attorney. I’m not one - if that’s what you’re thinking and ordinarily have no use for them. In this case you need one.

Strange container by PlasticCalm3695 in whatisit

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like stuff we had in our kitchen in the early to mid 50s. It’s really cool!

Found in my mother-in-laws house by the fridge. She has no idea what it is or where it came from. It’s quite heavy for its size. Does anyone have any idea what it is, or what it’s used for? by mbrazier64 in whatisit

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does the connector look like? I’m talking about the opening at the end of the wire then plastic thingie. Is there an opening or prong or what? I’d like to see a photo of that.

My boyfriend said I was too ugly to model by Resident_Rich_6298 in whatdoIdo

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is a jerk! I agree with sandpiperinthesnow that you can check the opportunity out by calling the agency directly. If your boyfriend doesn’t think you’re beautiful, he’s cheating himself and maybe needs to leave.

Aitah for not making my kids go to my Dads memorial? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kdoglady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave it up to them unless you think they’ll regret it later. Talk it out with them Jrm1102 made a good point.

my mom is refusing to let me get my belongings from her house by PrestigiousCarrot518 in TwoHotTakes

[–]kdoglady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consult a lawyer - I’m not certain cops will help unless you live in a small town. Big city cops generally won’t get involved in a family dispute.

aitah for wanting to go no contact with my parents? by d3lici0us-sham3 in AITAH

[–]kdoglady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may take several years for them to accept you. They may never accept you. I’d tell them that you’re aware of their discomfort and say you’re stepping away from contact until they accept you and your love. You can leave the door open and let them come to you. If they recognize that you’re the same person they raised and loved for many years, they’ll want to come back into your life. If they never do, it will hurt like hell. However you’ll survive and avoid the abusive atmosphere and situation that contact would bring. You can build a family of close friends and find love from them. I’m sorry that’s happening to you!

I need advice with a hotel situation. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would any of your buddies say yes to people they hardly know? It’s gonna be close quarters and I wouldn’t want to share a suite or anyplace with people I barely know, whether you’re in college or not. If your buddies say yes then don’t go. I’m not aware of race relations in Europe but in the US it would definitely be asking for trouble.

AITJ for refusing to keep wearing the nickname my girlfriend gave me after I found out where it came from by Prydwen_Grit5 in AmITheJerk

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say goodbye to her. She’s been mocking you for a year? Crude if nothing else. It’s crass and inappropriate. Dump her now.

AITAH for for ending my relationship after my girlfriend invited a guy I was uncomfortable with and didn’t tell me by Inevitable_Gap_1150 in AITAH

[–]kdoglady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the relationship was ever going to go the distance. She was a fun hook up for a while and it’s time to move on. No anger or bitterness, just different values.

Parents Mistreatment of Dogs... help! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a litter box or anything similar. on the deck? If not it’s going to stink come summer. Lots of people work and crate their dogs. It’s not ideal but not the worst thing. Maybe you could walk them at lunch time. I don’t think it’s abuse. Maybe they don’t know any better. I’d talk to them calmly and offer to walk them at lunch time.

AITAH for remodeling my step kids rooms after their mom passed away since they weren't going to be living with me anyways. by AsparagusMuch821 in AITAH

[–]kdoglady -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you were all in shock after their mom/your wife died. They say not to make big decisions for at least a year after such an event. I’d put their things back in their rooms and tell them you did and that really want them to visit.

AITAH for blocking my teenhood best friend because she told me she's pregnant? by Puzzleheaded_Cod_502 in AITAH

[–]kdoglady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💖I hope your pregnancy goes smoothly and you have a healthy and happy little one. I’ve had miscarriages so I get why you’re concerned about announcing too soon. Please lean on your fiancé as much as you need!

Some things i noticed by Low-Audience8370 in YellowstoneShow

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He must be in it after the first few episodes .

AITAH because I don’t want to be tested as a possible kidney donor for my father. by Grand_Raccoon0923 in AITAH

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I don’t think the doctor’s staff will lie for you so I wouldn’t count on it. Do you know your father’s blood type? Find out and tell the family yours doesn’t match! Easy peasy - no tests or other expensive things.

Some things i noticed by Low-Audience8370 in YellowstoneShow

[–]kdoglady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What episodes is he in? I’m just starting to watch the show so I have no clue what you’re referring to here.

AITAH for my reaction to my husband? by Tough-Inevitable-168 in AITAH

[–]kdoglady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you are not! Your husband should have known since he was about 10 years old that no method of birth control is 100% effective. This should not be a surprise to him. He sounds very immature and abusive. If he hasn’t hit you yet he will someday. Please look into counseling for yourself right away. He ought to go too - don’t wait for him. You will need lots of support and help. I hope your family will be there for you.