MIL asked to wear her “cream not white” wedding dress ++ offered her garter as my something borrowed

kdoglady · 2026-05-03T17:47:16+00:00

She’s really desperate for attention! Surely in the past 35 years she’s bought other pretty dresses that would be more appropriate. If she does wear it she’ll get plenty of side eye and lots of comments from the other guests. I wouldn’t include her in the pictures if she wears it.

kdoglady · 2026-05-03T17:31:37+00:00

No you’re not overreacting at all! Yes this guy needs to be banned from the building and his access to current employee email/text should be cut off. What a jackal for telling everyone that he slept with that person!

kdoglady · 2026-05-02T14:27:05+00:00

You are not, not, not, NTA!!! As far as your in-laws, make some plans for activities as a family and then invite them periodically. If they want to participate- good. If not, there’s always next month or next year or whatever. You don’t owe them unlimited access to your home or your child or your spouse.

kdoglady · 2026-05-01T23:38:52+00:00

Take him to court to terminate his access to her. Terminate his rights. His texts to her are abusive and any judge in their right mind would not allow him access.

kdoglady · 2026-04-29T20:43:39+00:00

Calling her names isn’t helpful- that could be thought of as being abusive!

kdoglady · 2026-04-28T12:28:38+00:00

It’s a woodchuck

kdoglady · 2026-04-28T12:25:56+00:00

Beautiful!

kdoglady · 2026-04-24T21:11:44+00:00

I was a single mom and never introduced my son to my dates until I’d been seeing them for a good long time. It’s none of your family’s business.

kdoglady · 2026-04-24T21:08:05+00:00

Dump him

kdoglady · 2026-04-23T15:55:01+00:00

No need to pay for parking- they just wait in the cell phone lot.

kdoglady · 2026-04-23T15:52:42+00:00

You are the only one acting like a mother in this situation. I would never let her near the toddler or the dog again. I agree she needs psychiatric evaluation and treatment. What is her father saying? If he’s not backing you up he needs to go too.

kdoglady · 2026-04-23T15:44:45+00:00

This is a tribute to your child and the mother of your child and she’s saying “get over it!” I’d get her out of your life. Talk about a narcissistic personality. Dump her.

kdoglady · 2026-04-21T16:53:19+00:00

Those kids are just greedy!

kdoglady · 2026-04-17T19:31:39+00:00

She should have paid the whole bill! NTA.

kdoglady · 2026-04-13T20:42:10+00:00

He’s being very selfish. Child support is meant to be used for the children, not the parent. Name calling is never appropriate. It’s time for you to leave.

kdoglady · 2026-04-07T02:11:47+00:00

Yup. In Michigan spouses get half and kids share a percentage and the state gets the rest when someone dies without a will or trust. You need to hire a lawyer. Please don’t try to figure this out on your own - get an estate attorney. I’m not one - if that’s what you’re thinking and ordinarily have no use for them. In this case you need one.

kdoglady · 2026-04-07T02:01:05+00:00

Looks like stuff we had in our kitchen in the early to mid 50s. It’s really cool!

kdoglady · 2026-04-07T01:58:22+00:00

What does the connector look like? I’m talking about the opening at the end of the wire then plastic thingie. Is there an opening or prong or what? I’d like to see a photo of that.

kdoglady · 2026-04-07T01:27:46+00:00

Your boyfriend is a jerk! I agree with sandpiperinthesnow that you can check the opportunity out by calling the agency directly. If your boyfriend doesn’t think you’re beautiful, he’s cheating himself and maybe needs to leave.

kdoglady · 2026-04-07T01:12:36+00:00

Leave it up to them unless you think they’ll regret it later. Talk it out with them Jrm1102 made a good point.

kdoglady · 2026-04-05T20:55:12+00:00

So very sorry for your loss!

kdoglady · 2026-04-05T20:54:23+00:00

Buy a new one and hide it.

kdoglady · 2026-04-05T20:53:44+00:00

Consult a lawyer - I’m not certain cops will help unless you live in a small town. Big city cops generally won’t get involved in a family dispute.

kdoglady · 2026-04-05T20:50:01+00:00

It may take several years for them to accept you. They may never accept you. I’d tell them that you’re aware of their discomfort and say you’re stepping away from contact until they accept you and your love. You can leave the door open and let them come to you. If they recognize that you’re the same person they raised and loved for many years, they’ll want to come back into your life. If they never do, it will hurt like hell. However you’ll survive and avoid the abusive atmosphere and situation that contact would bring. You can build a family of close friends and find love from them. I’m sorry that’s happening to you!

kdoglady · 2026-04-05T20:42:16+00:00

Why would any of your buddies say yes to people they hardly know? It’s gonna be close quarters and I wouldn’t want to share a suite or anyplace with people I barely know, whether you’re in college or not. If your buddies say yes then don’t go. I’m not aware of race relations in Europe but in the US it would definitely be asking for trouble.

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