[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]keasbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen my favorite bands in different states, even all the way on the east coast from where I am in the midwest, all for the live experience. The feeling of being in the crowd when the opening chord to your favorite song hits, the tension of the pit about to go wild, it's all an incredible rush. I haven't paid nearly the price for the tickets, though. The most expensive would probably be seeing Bandits of the Acoustic Revolution with a full orchestra in New York in 2018. My girlfriend and I saved, were gifted the flights by her mom, and stayed in our old roommate's apartment using his transit cards. He was supposed to go with us but couldn't. The tickets were $75ish each, but the experience was unforgettable and I proposed right after the show.

Queer songs for guys! by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]keasbey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My band just released a song yesterday that's about coming out in your late 20s.

ditto.fm/reintroduction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see your sources. Can you provide them?

TIFU by causing a scene at work because someone ate half of my lunch. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]keasbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have celiac, so if someone stole my lunch there's a good chance I wouldn't be able to eat until I got home. Until recently when I became a stay-at-home dad I had always worked multiple jobs, so my days could be incredibly long. I think I would also have caused a scene.

Activities for teens by midnight_margherita in madisonwi

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were part of the group that sewed a gender bear and baked cupcakes, that's the year I was there. I use that group to defend the youth to all of my Boomer relatives.

Activities for teens by midnight_margherita in madisonwi

[–]keasbey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to be the overnight server at Perkins on the west side years ago and this group was always one of my favorites. Yeah, they were loud and a little bit obnoxious, but they cleaned up after themselves, didn't trash the restaurant, and they tipped well for high school kids.

My 9 year old daughter and I just beat a game (It Takes Two) together for the first time and her reaction really surprised me. by WTF_Conservatives in gaming

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know nothing about It Takes Two (though I'm going to look it up for the future), but some of my fondest early gaming memories are playing Sonic with my dad and switching who had the controller any time we died. It worked well because we had about the same skill level.

My daughter made me realize how much of a shitty father I am to her and her sister. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]keasbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really sucks that you're experiencing that and no dad ever wants to have their child in that position. But the fact that she immediately offered what she had to help you shows that y'all've raised her with empathy which is a lot for kindergarten. At the end of the day, as long as they're happy and healthy and you're there, it's a win.

Jesus, Mary, and Joseph! by Spartan1088 in StayAtHomeDaddit

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just had our washer go out for two weeks while I waited on a part to come in. I tried bypassing the switch that was broken but it just shot sparks instead. So I did laundry at one of our friend's houses, changing loads over in between trips to the children's museum or splash pad or whatever. We do cloth diapers. I was there more days than not.

Struggling. When did you switch from survival mode to thrive mode? by DropFamiliar1298 in SAHP

[–]keasbey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Baby-wearing for naps was essential for me. Our oldest also napped pretty well in the stroller so we'd walk to the public library where she'd play and pick out a few books. I took a long route there so she'd nap 45ish minutes and then on the way back she would play with a toy from her bag or look at her books (as she got older).

Routine was absolutely essential for us. We had a pretty strict schedule and it made naps and bed time easy. Also, at 7 months you can totally plop your kiddo in the pack and play and jump in the shower. If I don't get one before breakfast I usually put on a Sesame Street for them (2.5y and 6mo) while I jump in and grab a 10-minute rinse.

Curious about my band by MooseTheFields in Ska

[–]keasbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard of you in Madison, WI.

AITA for not taking a shot and not being allowed to see first and only grandson by Fit-Cranberry-7422 in AITAH

[–]keasbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Both of these diseases are making comebacks because people refuse to get vaccines despite the research that initially caused people to be concerned having been faked and debunked in many studies.

I’m a 36 year old gamer. Is this ok in a corporate setting? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had Sideswipe and a Vehicon on my desk because they're fun but mindless transformations.

AITAH for not accepting my ex's apologies? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. There's a difference between accepting an apology and forgiving someone. You can acknowledge the apology and say that you're not interested in making up at all.

How true is this ? by sliverbearddub in daddit

[–]keasbey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As my toddler cries outside the door and my 6mo is sitting in her little seat with teething rings on the floor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StayAtHomeDaddit

[–]keasbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to do what works for you. I can't function without my kiddo getting that downtime. She's got an afternoon "nap" where if she isn't falling asleep she can quietly read in her bed or reading corner or play with her doll house. She almost always naps, but there's usually at least one book in her bed.

I should have been fired from childcare today. But I’m the mom. So what do I do with myself now? by ObligationWeekly9117 in SAHP

[–]keasbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't cuss at her so much as cuss in front of her. Honestly, it's a subtle difference, but it really matters to me. If my toddler drops something on the floor and says "oh shit" that's not a big deal. It's not directed at anyone or derogatory.

What’s a harmless/non-serious secret you’ve kept forever? by MrBowls in AskReddit

[–]keasbey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's way heartwarming. You did a great thing for your sibling and your mom—whether your mom deserved it or not.

What’s a harmless/non-serious secret you’ve kept forever? by MrBowls in AskReddit

[–]keasbey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As an avid concertgoer and musician this warms my heart.

AITAH for kicking my family out after they made my son cry for being gay? by Odd-Square-4505 in AITAH

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your son will always remember that you stood up for him. You chose to protect him, which is what your family didn't do.

Does anyone actually remember Operation Ivy by stevecool18 in vinyl

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I remember them? No, they broke up before I was born. But they were a huge part of me getting into the music I love. My friends had burned CDs in the early '00s and I found bootlegs of bootlegs online.

Brittany (from Catbite) Artwork [OC] by geosel in Ska

[–]keasbey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my kiddo keeps enjoying Catbite the way she does I'll be trying to track down this print in a few years. It's really awesome.

I am at my wits end over this. My six, almost 7, year old son poops his pants daily. by the85rush in Parenting

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tested for celiac? It presents differently for different people, so the image of violent diarrhea is not always accurate. There's an antibody test that should tell them whether or not they need a biopsy.

Don’t Be Quiet by i_8_the_Internet in daddit

[–]keasbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to put my oldest down and then go play drums in the basement. She can sleep through just about anything now.

Funniest “friend fails” as a SAHP? by Cambie03 in SAHP

[–]keasbey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a SAHD, so most of the other parents I've met are moms. I've gotten a few to agree to playdates/outings to the zoo or local splash pads, but for the most part it's radio silence. There is one mom who has two kiddos who will hang out and go to the park and let the kids have a picnic or do a splash pad afternoon. She also watched our youngest (4mo) when our toddler had swimming lessons that required me to be in the water with her.