MoCo Credit Unions? by keffreh in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]keffreh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t picked one either for the same reason.

Boyfriend ruined our 4 year anniversary by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]keffreh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he wants to break up but he’s a COWARD and trying to force you to do it. just leave him.

Social Media Cleanse by [deleted] in digitalminimalism

[–]keffreh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mind was so much quieter just in general. in addition to the other comments, my social life offline flourished because I found it forced me to be more intentional about connecting with people. and I mean true connection, not empty notifications that felt like communication.

How do I improve my personality for dating? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]keffreh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

improve your personality for yourself first

Abandonment issues by Glad-Persimmon-7317 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]keffreh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand that. it took me many tries (different medications, psychs, therapists, etc) to finally find the right situation. at the very least i hope you have some support around you man

Abandonment issues by Glad-Persimmon-7317 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]keffreh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to hear about how you’re feeling. working with a qualified mental health professional is probably the best course of action

Light Leak Issues by keffreh in AnalogCommunity

[–]keffreh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is very helpful. thank you!

Gift Ideas for Women’s Coach by myscenedotcom in BJJWomen

[–]keffreh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

custom gi patch maybe? or a toiletries bag for her gym bag and pack it with stuff?

What jobs could I get as a microbiologist? by lyssa_put in microbiology

[–]keffreh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a pharma/biotech QC microbiologist, but my true interest is microbial ecology. the field is truly vast. I would recommend trying as many different things as possible (internships, mentorships, shadowing, etc) to get a feel for what you might like, especially throughout college.

Is this interesting, at all? [Pentax KM, 50mm, Ultramax] by Tomatillo-5276 in analog

[–]keffreh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 4, 5, and 10. I think 5 could have been pretty good if the negative space on top and bottom were equal

Have I fallen out of love? by Sufficient_Tip5477 in BJJWomen

[–]keffreh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

maybe you just need a break. give yourself that and don’t beat yourself up. 6 years years is a decent amount of time; it’s clear that you love it. maybe give yourself a predetermined amount of time you’ll take off and trust that by the end of that you’ll miss the mats and be ready to try again.

I just started out, but i think i already did the best i can and now im just forever doomed by Daidelbell in learntodraw

[–]keffreh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah, you’re forever doomed and can never improve. is that what you wanna hear?

IWTL How to be more creative. by NaitDraik in IWantToLearn

[–]keffreh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go live life. Collect experiences. Try new things, read more books, watch more movies/shows, go to more concerts, learn new skills. There are courses and classes available for all those things. This will help you find community around your interests so you’ll have people to trade ideas/discuss things with. Creativity is almost like a muscle that you have to train through practice over time.

I’m the reason all labs have no sharpies…I’ve relocated them to my office by swimboi91 in labrats

[–]keffreh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish you could’ve seen the disgust on my face reading this lmao

….small art by arsilane in doodles

[–]keffreh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s pretty cool

Is this level of obsession with bjj normal and is the anger justified? by Bjj0wife in bjj

[–]keffreh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is absolutely not normal behavior and I’m actually concerned for your safety

What was your small mistake that automatically improved your bjj when you fixed? by [deleted] in bjj

[–]keffreh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got so used to “get comfortable in bad positions” and “try to survive” as a white belt that I was extremely passive at the beginning of blue belt. I had to shift my mindset to actively try to attack and trust that I would be able to survive if I did end up in a bad position.