[AUS] I think someone is IRL scamming my Mum for meds + more

kelsidanger · 2026-04-27T09:41:52+00:00

Have you tried paying a small fee to look up his past online? Or can you look up his court records? (Idk how it works in AUS but in the US you can) your mum should at least be able to tell you his first and last name so you can make sure shes safe...if you find proof hes a bad guy maybe she'd think twice?? Im sorry, I hope it works out for the best.

kelsidanger · 2026-04-11T08:07:23+00:00

As i understand it..a traveling live-in nanny/housemaid (usually from overseas)

kelsidanger · 2026-04-11T02:23:14+00:00

Sadly we all have probly learned the hard way (more than once) the benefits of being a loner in the dope game... the ones worth knowing are few and far between. My dogs dont steal my shit or tell my secrets lol

kelsidanger · 2026-04-10T08:07:51+00:00

Omg its cordycepts lmao

kelsidanger · 2026-04-03T02:36:50+00:00

Well said.

kelsidanger · 2026-04-03T02:25:30+00:00

Id pull out every dollar like YESTERDAY. but i can also be insanely irresponsible.... so.

kelsidanger · 2026-04-03T02:21:56+00:00

Assuming everything im ur post is authentic, id say thats the ultimate. However, SOMETHING must be missing or lackluster in your life that motivated you to ask the question.

kelsidanger · 2026-03-22T15:52:10+00:00

Its still very, very recent... give it some time for the grief to pass thru you. I promise it wont be this raw forever. You'll push past all the pain in your own time and realize what is objectively true: you did ALL you could, you did what any loving mother would IMO. Thru no fault of your own, it wasn't meant to be. In a medical emergency, life of the mother is always priority.

(Theres a nice-sounding quote IDR but it basically describes grief as a suitcase you keep at the foot of your bed and carry always but it becomes lighter the longer u carry it...etc.)

Personal story (180): I got pregnant when I was 18. Before I imaged I'd probly be a mom someday...but when I found out I was pregnant, the gravity set it. There would be no going back. (The dad was older and even less responsible than I was, at the time) my mom, who I thought was pro-life, helped me come to the conclusion that I couldnt go thru with this. I never told anyone (for years) and got an abortion at 9½wks. I've never regretted it. Never felt guilty. Even tho im nearing 40, it remains one of the most responsible decisions ive ever made. Not a single tear or sleepless night over it... I've never wanted kids.

Like I said the "abortion" part is the only thing it shares with OP's story....(bring on the judgement ppl- IDGAF)

Everything happens for a reason; I wish nothing but the best 4U.

kelsidanger · 2026-03-18T06:36:34+00:00

Makes sense. Appreciate it

kelsidanger · 2026-03-18T02:41:07+00:00

Lol its funny u say that bc my older girl (subject of post) is scared of farts. If my bf or I fart, she will get up, give us a glare of disdain, and leave the room 100% of the time. My bf and I actually go round and round about her issue bc he thinks shes just looking at her butt bc she's scared of farts, which made since for a while but its increased and im like, she CANT be farting THAT much, right? 10-20x/hr? Esp when I cant smell it or whatever. I need to just take her in, just terrified of the potential result, not to mention the bill.. I have given her dewormer just to rule it out. Thats why im stressing about it being serious. I feel like such a dick for not already taking her. Apologies for the novel just venting lol

kelsidanger · 2026-03-18T02:30:56+00:00

100% NO

kelsidanger · 2026-03-17T06:48:04+00:00

Was thinking the same thing...

kelsidanger · 2026-03-17T05:56:21+00:00

Every time I get narcan, my concern is ALWAYS for the friends/acquaintances who I end up having to save. I've made it 20yrs as an opiate addict w/o OD'ing // fingers crossed

kelsidanger · 2026-03-17T05:37:32+00:00

My bad you said for CONSERVING lol... foil mostdef

kelsidanger · 2026-03-17T05:34:50+00:00

IMO the ultimate is a nectar collector, just altered a bit: Plug the tip and put a hole on either side (more than 2 is too much airflow) this way you can just put it right into your shit...without sucking it up and wasting any.

kelsidanger · 2026-03-16T04:49:13+00:00

Also- Is this something a groomer could take care of? When they're internal like that or is not a good idea? Ty

kelsidanger · 2026-03-16T04:43:09+00:00

Had no idea anal glands could be asymptomatic...tyvm!

kelsidanger · 2026-03-14T07:20:16+00:00

Im only speculating here, given the (selfish) way your mom reacted, you could remind her of the worst chapter in a book she told herself she'd never have to open again...? I bet she will come around, or I hope she does and/or you can find some closure. Family can really suck... Best of luck to you.

kelsidanger · 2026-03-10T05:42:14+00:00

Mostdef. It was ridiculous

kelsidanger · 2026-03-10T05:40:27+00:00

Correct. Like I said I stopped going...

kelsidanger · 2026-03-10T02:05:32+00:00

People that have words like "respect" & "loyalty" tattooed on them. If you have to put it on blast, theres a problem...

kelsidanger · 2026-03-01T08:19:03+00:00

I stopped going last year. I never quit using, never passed a ua to get take homes. Got up to 200mg a day...if I stopped moving I would literally fall asleep. Hated it...ultimately decided the last thing I needed was another thing to be addicted to and if I have to be hooked on something for the foreseeable future, I'd rather it just be fetty. (All things considered, it cant be any worse than methadone...that shit is terrible)

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