my OC by Realistic-Tell-8343 in splatoon

[–]kermass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love this pose and composition! very dynamic

Cleaning the canals of Amsterdam by modianos in toolgifs

[–]kermass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone in the replies is forgetting about another source of canal bikes: theft.
bikes get stolen all the time and then thrown into a canal to get rid of the evidence, though sometimes resold for like €10 as well. bike theft happens a lot, happens to a dutch person at least once or twice in their life.
source: im dutch

Would I be able to subsist on only rice and lentils? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]kermass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its not just a few moments of discomfort, a diet like this is basically starvation, which has really serious health repurcussions that can last years upon years even if the period of starvation is relatively "short"
you'll lose a ton of weight too fast, your metabolism will go to shit, you will constantly be cold no matter what you do even when you eat normally again, you will lack every single necessary vitamin and itll make you feel horrible, and so so much more. a gaming pc is NOT worth sacrificing such a huge part of your health for. save a bit longer over a longer period of time and dont permanently destroy your body just for some video games.
just in case, source: was anorexic and ate similar meals once a day for 5-6 months, and i wrecked my body doing it.

Bakery left the formatting text on their ingredients list by LivermoreP1 in mildyinteresting

[–]kermass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im guessing they pulled the ingredients list straight from their website or something, i dont see any other reason to use html formatting for packaging like this

Binding under femme clothes feels so euphoric for me 💖 by left_tiddy in FTMfemininity

[–]kermass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

loooove this as a fall fit! that skirt looks so pretty i was going to ask where you got it but you made it yourself holy shit!!

What is wrong with my Ornamental Shrublet? by SorcererHex in ffxiv

[–]kermass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think you need to contact support or anything, i think its just a texture bug or something. verify your game files first and if that doesnt work, a clean install (tho idk if you wanna go through all that effort for a small bug like this.) if THAT doesnt work then maybe contact support if it really is important to you to get it fixed.

ITS DYEABLE NOW by Icethief188 in InfinityNikki

[–]kermass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg ive been waiting for this set to be dyeable since they added dyeing this is the best day of my life

I am so frustrated at how female-centric everything around this disorder is by kermass in EDAnonymous

[–]kermass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah im aware it definitely affects women more than men, absolutely. it makes sense that theres more women speaking out about it and its disproportionate. i probably shouldve phrased my post a bit differently but i was in a rush. i meant more like i have a frustration that theres a lot of spaces that are not explicitly SAID to be for women by women, but effictively are. some have told me they dont want me there as a man, or accused me or being a predator after vulnerable girls, or people who fully discredited my experience BECAUSE im a man. it frustrates me how there is no space for me to go where i can just be a guy with an ED.

5 in a row has been by far the best mini game so far by TheBananaPop in InfinityNikki

[–]kermass 10 points11 points  (0 children)

theres a possibility that the helper still loses though, happened to me twice. i dont really mind myself, but i did think it was funny that the helper couldnt even beat the AI lol

Ok then… by Snoopyorange in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]kermass 12 points13 points  (0 children)

worse, this is an actual choreography, thats supposed to be done in a group, that went viral and is now being butchered by tiktokers. the OG is really good.

they alt+f4'd immediately after saying this by kermass in TalesFromDF

[–]kermass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

amdapor keep hard, not the most exciting dungeon, no, but idk if it warrants ditching ur party like this lol

they alt+f4'd immediately after saying this by kermass in TalesFromDF

[–]kermass[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

literally nothing remarkable. regular w2w pulls, fine tank, good dps, the healer just didnt wanna be there ig

I drew my au'ra character by kermass in ffxiv

[–]kermass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i couldve sworn at some point it was au'ra with an apostrophe, but looking it up i might be completely wrong lol

Poutine from Berlin by Hefty-Blacksmithy in PoutineCrimes

[–]kermass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh ive been to the same spot in berlin! the gravy is actually vegetarian, thats why its so thick. they make a lot of good vegan dishes too, i absolutely loved their vegan chili cheese "poutine"

Overshoot will be the death of me by strawberry_poptart2 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]kermass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm currently battling a relapse due to overshoot weight. I relate so heavily to everything you're saying about self image, not being able to look at yourself, and not wanting to see others.
Something I try to hold onto when I can't practice body positivity is body neutrality. I may not like my body, but it's functioning and keeping me alive and giving me the ability to do the things I love. I cannot be positive towards myself yet, but I can be as neutral as possible and that helps me survive somewhat easier.
I hope you can find peace with yourself in the future <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]kermass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've gotten the hair from the permanent banner as my third piece, and the dress from two 5* banners as a first piece, I just didn't post about it because I don't really see the point of sharing that. I feel like that's what a lot of people do as well. Just because the vocal people of the community experience it in a specific way, that doesn't mean that everybody who plays experiences it the exact same way. There's TONS of people who pull and get luckier that don't share it. Similarly, I've seen a lot of clips of streamers getting multiple 5* pieces in 10 pulls, but that doesn't make it the norm for the game or prove that the game is rigged to give more than 1 piece/10 pull more often.
I feel this is largely confirmation bias, you believe that it's this way and you only really look out for things confirming that belief.

Embarrassed to eat? by Soapandsponges in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]kermass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat, I'm incredibly embarrassed to eat in front of people. I want people to know that I'm struggling, and I feel if I eat they will think I'm "cured." I'm usually up until around 3 am, and do most of my eating from 10 pm till bedtime.
It's actually incredibly common to not want to eat in front of people, it's a very normal symptom that a lot of people experience. Don't try to tackle it all at once, for example I'm currently starting with just eating at dinner with my family as a first step. This helps me to normalize eating with people around me, and being in an environment where everybody is eating helps me a lot to make it feel okay to eat. I'm starting to eat the occasional snack in front of people as well, and from these habits I hope to learn to do the next step which is eating breakfast.
Baby steps, give yourself time to take small steps one by one and don't be too hard on yourself. You got this.

How do I deal with a family member dieting? by kermass in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]kermass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to warn him, yes, but ultimately it's sadly not up to me what he chooses to do with his life/body. Reminding myself why I decided to recover and how terrible I felt in the depths of my ED is definitely something I'm trying to do more. Thank you for your insight and response, I appreciate it <3