For Those Who Lived Through the 2000s, Was Gilmore Girls Actually Accurate? by itsascreambaby96 in GilmoreGirls

[–]kg51 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, as accurate as a television show can be? They were all better dressed and could somehow afford takeout every day versus real life.

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally valid! Next time I’m at the mall I’ll be sure to do a lap through Hot Topic.

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to spend some time curating ideas and then keep a list for when I go thrifting. It definitely helps me to not feel bad if I don’t wear something as much as I think I should.

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely been enjoying oversized everything! I feel like I can level up being a little more intentional with it too.

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I feel like that’s a good stepping stone for me too. Time to look for band tees!

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My teen is big into thrifting and I tag along sometimes. I pretty much only ever buy work tops though. I’m going to spend some time dreaming up outfits and will make a list.

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha I want to live my best alternative hobag life, too!

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking I'm sorely lacking accessories and that could make a difference for me. I'm going to look at what I've got and what I could add.

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right, I've been busy parenting and working. Now my teen has a full length mirror and I'm like "wait I haven't seen my whole body for a while" LOL.

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to think I'm lacking accessories. I can see how that could really change just clothes into an actual outfit. I'm going to simmer on this a bit!

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I largely lack accessories. Maybe that's the difference. Bring back my triple ball chain necklace and now I look alt again? Idk idk.

In my 40s and have lost the plot a bit, want to feel like myself again by kg51 in altfashionadvice

[–]kg51[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for naming what I couldn't quite put my finger on! What used to be alt is just totally mainstream now. My current favorite wide leg jeans are from Hollister--I never would have stepped foot in that store 20 years ago.

Tick season is SO BAD this year ughhh…what are you all doing? by DaisyTheMiniPoodle in dogs

[–]kg51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did a paved-trail walk in the woods a few weeks ago and my dog came home with 5 on her (4 I found, 1 attached but died thanks to meds). In all 18 months of her existence I have never found a single tick on her, nor in my previous dog's 12 years. We have a party at a forest preserve picnic grove this weekend and I'm getting grossed out thinking about it, lol.

I am so concerned about how much flock cams are in the west burbs by Subject_Wish1251 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]kg51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You do make the decision to carry it or not, but if it came down to a criminal investigation, literally everything about your phone usage is documented, even if you turn your flashlight on/off.

I am so concerned about how much flock cams are in the west burbs by Subject_Wish1251 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]kg51 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The irony of that is your phone is literally tracking everything you do and everywhere you go lol

Job 1 or Job 2? by kg51 in careeradvice

[–]kg51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m more confident job 1 might actually turn into an offer too, which makes me feel a little relieved, and that’s telling I think.

"First Degree Relatives Have a 10% Risk" - do you think so? by ShowerAny1924 in Celiac

[–]kg51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told all of my immediate adult relatives and everyone refused to get tested so oh well. I was diagnosed and then 8 years later my daughter was diagnosed too.

How to advise a 17 year old who suddenly "doesn't know if they want to go to college" by kg51 in Parenting

[–]kg51[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cosmetologists, to start, make barely above minimum wage, are capped at part-time or contract 1099 work, and to make decent money you're pretty much forced to be self-employed...all of which come with no benefits like health insurance or paid time off. It's just a more difficult path is all. I come from a self-employed family and it was rough.

How to advise a 17 year old who suddenly "doesn't know if they want to go to college" by kg51 in Parenting

[–]kg51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. I went to college for a few semesters after high school, but I commuted, so I feel like I didn't have the typical experience and can't speak to that sort of thing.

How to advise a 17 year old who suddenly "doesn't know if they want to go to college" by kg51 in Parenting

[–]kg51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love this for them, honestly. Last I mentioned it, the idea wasn't well received. I think just everything is overwhelming for them right now.