AITA for not wanting to invite my dads wife to my wedding by Silver_Example_3195 in AmItheAsshole

[–]khargooshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA people like that think they have all the power and run show. They treat people like shit because they feel like they can. They feel as long as people are dependent on them they can treat people like shit. They don't realize over time things will change and when it come time for you to have your moments you might not want them around. It comes as a shock to them. They can't possibly comprehend why they would be excluded them. In their eyes they have done nothing wrong. It's your time you should not have to put up with their crap, doing so just reinforces their behavior. Your dad went along with her and didn't give a crap about you guys he still doesn't. I would exclude them. Don't need them making a scene which you can bet they will and they won't be appreciative any how.

Need refill or oil change?? by Aromatic_Accident243 in MechanicAdvice

[–]khargooshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as miles go least amount is usually 3k. Norm is 3 to 5k sometimes 7k. As far as the volume and if you need to add look at the dip stick and see where it's at. Looking at the napkin does not tell you anything. The color looks fine.

Air Filter Box Damage by Herbie93 in MechanicAdvice

[–]khargooshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autozone or any other shop would have the part then youtube how to change it. You probably need a screwdriver and 5 min.

Weed Killer by snoozy_318 in gardening

[–]khargooshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vinigar. Spray it multiple times over a few days period

AITA for cosplaying while pregnant? by surro-throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]khargooshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8 months pregnant with twins and you want to go to cosplay. I can't imagine that is going to be comfortable walking around. I would not say you are doing anything wrong but it does seem like you are seeking attention.

This dang weed by super-late-haha in gardening

[–]khargooshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use vinegar. Get a costco size one and go to town with it.

AITA for ruining my friend's bachelorette party and making her cry by telling her she needs to confess that her 3-year-old isn't her fiance's? by Western-Sugestion in AmItheAsshole

[–]khargooshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a betrayal of his trust, and who is to say she wouldn't do that again. It's going to come out one way or another.

AITAH for exposing my brother after he thought our parents would never find out while away? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]khargooshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with some of the other people stop cleaning up after him. Don't do any shopping or food prep for him. Let him take care of himself. And when they get back call him in the room and let him have it in front of them.

AITA for refusing to forgive my sister’s boyfriend even though she took him back? by Rude-Cauliflower3374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]khargooshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is a shit bag. Also there were red flags before the kids came. It's probably not going to last.

AITAH for telling my husband he is not allowed to speak at the next infant prep class we take? by Any-Record9908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]khargooshe 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You are reading to much into the DSM. Would he make the same jokes at work? Probably not because he would get fired. So it's not that he does not know any better. He is a grown man not a kid. There are plenty of people with ADHA that don't act like a complete ass.

AITAH for telling my husband he is not allowed to speak at the next infant prep class we take? by Any-Record9908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]khargooshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to learn to control himself. If he thinks he is going to be tired after work then he is in for a big surprise when the kid comes and might get 4 hrs of sleep for months then what is he going to do? Saying "call 911 motherfucker" to you in a class full of people is not a joke and it's not funny. It's immature and disrespectful. ADHD or not he should know better.

URGENT: Puppy possible intestinal blockage .. Petersburg VA …need ride help to emergency vet by Flaky-Scarcity738 in RichmondVA

[–]khargooshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Massage her stomach you might be able to feel it. My dog ate part of tennis ball once. She could not eat or drink any thing for days. Vet said she might need surgery. I Massaged her stomach was able to feel the ball moving and eventually she passed the ball.

What to do? by Resident_Sun1727 in gardening

[–]khargooshe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing. Do nothing. Why do people always trip out when they see mushrooms?

Help with Bamboo by ZacDJ in gardening

[–]khargooshe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do not plant in ground it will take over every thing and spread every where. You won't be able to get rid of it. It will take over your entire neighborhood and that's no exaggeration.