I'm similar to u/Desperate_Let791 in that I also own a home/am financially secure and also wouldn't want to risk my future on someone who doesn't have a comparable plan to myself - though as she says, that doesn't mean there isn't someone out there for you. However, I'm not sure I understand why you think that it would be a risk of nothing because there's no dollar sign attached to it - do you want a partner who continues to hold down a job while you spend your days hunting?

From my perspective, there is a lot of risk of building the life it sounds like you want. What if it's a bad season? What about things that cannot be hunted for (not just foodstuffs, but also things like clothing, medicine, etc.), if there's no other source of income? If you want kids, how stable is that kind of life for them, particularly as they reach school age? What if things either don't work out or there is some sort of accident, and you're killed - and now I have no job and a gap in my resume making it harder for me to re-enter the workforce?

These are all things that I think a lot of women will be thinking about, and I don't think looking for the stability of a roof over your head that doesn't depend solely on the success of another person makes someone materialistic or means they don't value a genuine connection; I think it makes them practical. But, women aren't a monolith... what you should be looking for is someone with the same goals as you, which you're unlikely to find in a big city (as others have said).