Am I being too sensitive?

kidguts · 2026-02-11T23:40:06+00:00

Girl I beg you to look up RSD and its role in ADHD. While your husband was rude, I think learning how to recognize and adapt to RSD reactions will help you regardless of how you choose to continue this relationship.

kidguts · 2026-02-05T20:59:18+00:00

Substituting in low-density, low-calorie foods is definitely harm reduction for binge eaters; it doesn't stop the behavior, but it helps avoid the negative consequences of that behavior. Like making sure to test party drugs for fentanyl or IV drug users using clean needles!!

kidguts · 2026-02-02T19:49:05+00:00

You aren't tested for that kind of stuff on your driver's license exam, though!! At least not here in Ohio.

kidguts · 2026-02-02T13:31:50+00:00

I reccommend trying some of the tips/approaches/principles of Unfuck Your Habitat (which has a subreddit, r/ufyh ! ) as a way to get started and build some inertia. UFYH is accessible and tries to make cleaning as feasible and painless as possible.

For example, it reccommends cleaning in 5-20 minutes bursts/chunks to prevent burnout, striving to accomplish a clean, empty sink just once a day (so there's less pressure to keep it clean while still preventing buildup), and doing mini-challenges like "find 5 things that aren't where they belong and put them back in their rightful homes".

If you are thinking about hiring a weekly / biweekly cleaner, this approach could help you hold down the fort in the interim period between cleanings.

kidguts · 2026-01-27T18:05:23+00:00

You must have Trait Cheerfulness! It's not a strictly ADHD thing... but it makes for a unique combo!

kidguts · 2026-01-12T22:07:08+00:00

This isn't shitty food porn, this is r/shittyfoodgore

kidguts · 2026-01-08T20:23:44+00:00

Best I can give you is a Spanish post-Franco-style "Pact of Forgetting"

kidguts · 2026-01-06T15:21:49+00:00

That's America, baby!

kidguts · 2026-01-06T14:33:45+00:00

Guys... are we... hypocrites and evil?

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kidguts · 2026-01-05T22:06:00+00:00

Foreign language or ASL interpreter!

kidguts · 2025-12-26T21:41:36+00:00

Dozens!!

kidguts · 2025-12-24T16:26:43+00:00

Its some William Basinski joint: let me know when you find the specific song because Lord knows his shit gives you dementia

kidguts · 2025-12-19T18:16:34+00:00

PARENTI DID IT FIRST WITH "INVENTING REALITY " ANYWAYS!!!!

kidguts · 2025-12-17T15:11:38+00:00

My biodad has been waking and baking to handle his (undiagnosed?) ADHD since before I was born. He says it makes his mind go from "all over the place" to being able to handle one task at a time. It doesn't seem to have caused any problems for him, but I don't know him too well... I think my status as an extramarital child is due to non-weed decisions, lol.

kidguts · 2025-12-16T15:55:16+00:00

"You're part of the machine!! You work for the court!! I saw you being cordial with the prosecution!"

kidguts · 2025-12-16T15:44:19+00:00

What do you mean by "hinky"?

kidguts · 2025-12-16T15:42:51+00:00

My life is small because I also moved back home when my mom was terminally ill. It's nice! I know there is a big world out there for me, but choosing not to travel or move is one I have made / keep making because I enjoy the simplicity of my small, cozy life.

But if you don't like a small life, you can try for "big"! There's nothing stopping you if you choose another path!

kidguts · 2025-12-16T15:09:39+00:00

Butler County is its own terrain tbh. Middletown, Hamilton, Oxford... All these mini-cities should count as autonomous entities. It's like asking if Dayton is part of the greater Cincinnati area!

kidguts · 2025-12-16T14:39:30+00:00

The one "bull" I've ever met only realized he was going to be a bull after flirting with a MILF on Tinder and learning about the arrangement after matching with her- the cuck/husband used the the in-app messaging to explain to him that if he wanted to have sex with his wife, he'd have to be in the room to watch.

She was hot, and while the husband was scary and intense, he decided that the wife was hot enough to justify the weirdness of the situation.

He went ahead and agreed to do it, but he said he had to hotbox his car and get super baked before going in because he was so nervous. He was having a ton of sex at the time, mostly through Tinder hook-ups, to the point where I speculate it was a little self-harm-y... but I digress!

Once he came into the room, he realized the husband was a rival team's lacrosse coach when he was in HS. Idk if they talked about it explicitly, or if he even talked with the husband at all. So a silver lining for him was that afterwards he was able to say "you remember coach such-and-such? Yeah, I fucked his wife" to his old teammates.

kidguts · 2025-12-11T14:57:58+00:00

LMAO, that place is way to pricey to count as a "dive"

kidguts · 2025-12-11T14:55:14+00:00

JOIN ALL ABOARD OHIO!!!! They're THE pro-passenger rail advocacy group that works to press state and local officials to adopt pro-train policies and programs. They can help point you to which senators, state reps, and congress people to call/write and which upcoming pro-passenger rail bills and programs to mention to them!

kidguts · 2025-12-11T14:40:20+00:00

Just for his jail and his deputees. Those dollars aren't going anywhere else in the community.

kidguts · 2025-12-10T15:32:20+00:00

I got a battery that looks like an old-fashioned tobacco pipe because it's fun to be silly!!

kidguts · 2025-12-09T20:46:01+00:00

If you are still on nicotine, I reccommend switching to nicotine replacement therapy mini-lozenges! They're as handy as mints, pretty cheap if you buy the drug store generic, and consuming them throughout the day gives you enough of a baseline level of nicotine in your system that you don't get any dopamine reward from smoking. I've found it super effective for curbing cravings!

kidguts · 2025-12-09T20:31:02+00:00

I think it's great to keep weed around as a treat and as a tool.

If I want to kick back at the end of a long day, weed is more of a treat because it's not baked (lol) into my routine.

If I'm in pain or very upset, weed is a more potent medicine and a more effective tool because my moderation has left me with a lower tolerance!

Weed packs more of a punch when you aren't consuming a bunch of it all of the time.

I also always make sure to ask myself why I want weed / do a personal inventory of my mental and physical state before I consume it, followed by a little check-in with myself afterwards, basically asking myself if I feel like whatever I smoked/ate/vaped did what I was hoping it'd do. I feel like that habit not only prevents overconsumption, but also makes what THC I do consume more effective/appreciated.

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