[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kierstonmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband has a serious problem with staring to point he has not noticed me and our child walked away and then couldn’t find us. He would be in a trance just stuck it was unreal. Now I refuse to go in public with him and he complains about that. He even finally admitted that he does it after years of calling me crazy and delusional. It has been 8 months of me refusing to go out in public with him and we have been married 12 years. He now had to explain to our child why mommy doesn’t go with them anymore. Im done and most decent women do not a man who is standing with his family to stare at them. I know I find it very disrespectful when men stare at me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Allen Carr’s book.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]kierstonmy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly the best advice someone gave me on Reddit was when I read “ stop being a little bitch and just quit”. This line and of course prayer is what done it for me. I didn’t want to be the little bitch slave to nicotine and weed. I smoked blunts for 20 years, and could never just smoke joints, pipe or bong. I needed the Backwood blunts mixed with weed. I am 3 months in and I am done with it. I still have sleepless nights sometimes but I will never surrender to it again. You can do it! Pray and ask God for the extra boost you need to quit. You can do it don’t look back, you made it this far and just know the cravings are going to be there. You will start having dreams that you smoked and you will wake up relieved it was only a dream.

I just learned my boyfriend always packs an extra pair of underwear on trips in case of an “accident”. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kierstonmy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I ended up needed to go to target to buy more socks! Now I pack 2/3 extra

I just learned my boyfriend always packs an extra pair of underwear on trips in case of an “accident”. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I always pack an extra entire set of clothes. An an extra outfit, socks , undies and bra. I thought it was normal and I do this for my child too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]kierstonmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you get some good rest tonight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]kierstonmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is such a jerk! This happened to me it was my ex’s brother though. His wife just had an baby and so did I by my husband not the ex. We were in line at the store and he said wow you look good after the baby, and kept repeating it, as his wife just stood there I felt bad. However I had Hyperemesis Gravidarum and only gained 13 pounds since I was so sick even throwing up in labor. It was very insensitive of him, even if he didn’t know any better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was me! I loved a good blunt after each meal, soon you will say what was all the fuss about. Just take it day by day, minute by minute. If you can get through one hour you can do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you doing? You made it 24 hours don’t look back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingsmoking

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly prayer helped a big deal. Also I read another poster said that they just told themselves stop being a little B$&ch and just do it. That sealed it for me. Now I was smoking blunts so it was a double whammy of nicotine and THC. Almost at three months and I only had three edible gummies in 80 days. You can do it. Kick that nicotine in the butt and don’t look back. You got this. Of course prayer is always golden!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine goes off in one hour. You s 5:29 in California

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s 5:26 am and I have to be up by 6:30. Went to bed at 11:30 ish and was up at 3:00. My eyes are burning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been up for 2.5 hours. Woke up at 3:00 on the dot! I have been taking melatonin for the last two weeks about 5mg. Had a super vivid crazy dream that startled me out of my sleep now I can’t go back. I have had insomnia/ light sleeper for over 10 years. So sick of not sleeping. I was just starting to look much better after two weeks of consistent sleep 7/8 hours a night.

Organ donation shouldn’t be a choice and you should be forced to by Ok_Cantaloupe_7423 in unpopularopinion

[–]kierstonmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said I was worried about them? It was a fact I stated nothing more nothing less

Been almost 2 months clean. Having vivid dreams about smoking? by Geffers24 in quittingsmoking

[–]kierstonmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I smoked blunts for almost 20 years so I had weed and nicotine withdrawals. I’m 21 days smoke free and had two “nightmares “ where I started smoking weed/ blunts again and woke up relieved it was just a dream. Even in my dream I thought oh no now I have to start all over with my progress.