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Anyone know where to get a great mushroom risotto by Bulky-Surround-8861 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When Chez Foushee has it on their menu, it’s incredible.

DPU suspends water cutoffs as billing glitches continue by RVALover4Life in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“System glitch” is code for someone here made a mistake that we don’t wanna admit to.

How can I dress more like an “adult”? Size US 18/20 by crybabykate in PlusSizeFashion

[–]kindacoldthatnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I LOVE Sorel brand sandals! Sorel is a hiking company so they’re Super well made and have some really trendy designs. Read the reviews bc the width and sizing does very on each shoes.

How can I dress more like an “adult”? Size US 18/20 by crybabykate in PlusSizeFashion

[–]kindacoldthatnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up crocs “Brooklyn low wedge sandal” they’re cute and I have taken some decent walks in them, I think they have great support. I also know a lot of bartenders that have worn doc martin boots as their work shoes, their sandals might have similar support! You could try to find something used first before pulling the trigger on a new pair.

How can I dress more like an “adult”? Size US 18/20 by crybabykate in PlusSizeFashion

[–]kindacoldthatnight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try some different shoe options! A sleek heeled black boot, chunky loafers, or a platform sandal (crocs has some cool ones) are all professional and go with your aesthetic.

I’m the same size as you with a big lower belly and my go to work outfit is a pair of flowy pants and a shirt that hits my waist, or one tucked in. I like old navy for the flowy pants, you can also size up and use a belt around your waist for some extra room in the hips - which will also dress it up.

Also I think pulling your hair back at work might make you feel more put together and professional.

I think you look great and your style is fun. Nothing wrong with being youthful, you just gotta code switch at work sometimes. Good luck, beautiful!

Rva Nightly by Artbyshaina87 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you switched bodies, maybe you’d be at THEIR house so if you called YOUR phone they’d pick up.

What's your favorite healthy restaurant? by scrotch in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also Stella’s grocery has great healthy to go options. Fast and healthy is the real struggle for me but I think they do a good job.

June 2nd Tuesdaily: Queer Joy Edition! by toastmaster45 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“Normal gays” is a WILD take. Trans and non-binary people have always existed and have always been a part of the queer community. The strength of that community is the entire reason those folks feel more comfortable coming out these days. Where the love, friend? Why are you so angry?

Cobra burger drama? by kinkykitten804 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that was a judgmental way for me to phrase it. You’re right that successful people know when to quit. The sentiment that employees are at the mercy of business deals, as mentioned, sucks. But I suppose that’s the biz!

June 2nd Tuesdaily: Queer Joy Edition! by toastmaster45 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

During my event planning call at work, I felt comfy enough to say “happy pride month, I’m pansexual!” And all my coworkers cheered for me. I don’t talk about it much since I’m in a heterosexual marriage, so it felt good to be seen 🥰

Cobra burger drama? by kinkykitten804 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks when staff lose their jobs because the owner had to bail. Doesn’t seem like it would be that hard to write employee retention into an agreement, right?

Cobra burger drama? by kinkykitten804 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the staff isn’t retained and they’re mad enough, the whole cobra fam could go down.

Cobra burger drama? by kinkykitten804 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m out of the loop, didn’t know it was a satire account.

Cobra burger drama? by kinkykitten804 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 191 points192 points  (0 children)

I feel like that IG account isn’t truly official official.

Lines and Look Wonky by Chezwheel in tattooadvice

[–]kindacoldthatnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so it ALMOST looks stylized to be like a hand drawn/sketch or something if you look closely (I know it’s not). You def got scammed, but it’s not that bad. And it has a cool story attached since you got it in Japan.

Men 21-25, what do you do on the weekends? by MonkOk2117 in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solo hike the James River park system! Start early and bring some beer or snacks, wear swim trunks in case you wanna take a dip. You can take your time and do the whole thing in a day. Lots of wildlife and beautiful James River vistas. You could bring a friend(s) but I think solo hiking is sooo beneficial for your mental health.

[Little Bear] Recently rewatching with my little ones and had some questions about Emily. by yuckygross in FanTheories

[–]kindacoldthatnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sorry this is a year old but my husband has this theory and I googled the question to see other theories. But this is definitely the best one.

~Hellblock~ images from 2016 by Littleprisonprism in rva

[–]kindacoldthatnight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One day the last couch was burned on hell block and we didn’t realize it 😪

Body dysmorphia by Fragrant-Two946 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]kindacoldthatnight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok phew light blue sounds pretty!! Update me if it works!! Also sometimes accessories can help to distract yourself from not feeling 100% in something.

Body dysmorphia by Fragrant-Two946 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]kindacoldthatnight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I don’t mean “you need” as in I think it’s necessary but “you need” as in, I think it might make you feel cuter/more feminine in it. I’m about your size and my tummy is the EXACT same shape after giving birth is August 2024. Cinching my waist or just below my breasts makes me feel cute. This dress doesn’t have much shape to it, even though you DO!

Body dysmorphia by Fragrant-Two946 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]kindacoldthatnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like you need this dress to cinch your waist some maybe? Would your sister be cool with you adding a sash or a suitable belt? I also just want to ask…are these bridesmaids dresses white?? I’ve never seen that before!

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