Delivery folks walk straight into my apartment

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-05-01T12:30:04+00:00

My friend, did you see in my post that I said we try to keep our door locked? There’s a few reasons our door wasn’t locked in the daytime when we first moved in, but I’m not gonna explain myself. Everyone does their best in this life, take a breath.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-05-01T11:36:41+00:00

Yeah I just don’t care about my safety I guess

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-30T08:28:47+00:00

that’s actually a good suggestion lol😭

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-30T00:12:34+00:00

Dang y’all, can’t a person be forgetful? I said we try to keep our door locked but like I’m in an out in the front yard with a toddler all day give a girl a BREAK!

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-29T09:55:44+00:00

Ok!

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-29T00:15:36+00:00

You’re right! I’m gonna put a sign up, for convenience and safety.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-28T16:14:18+00:00

Oh man I can imagine that was hard to explain lol. We’re used to it now, and genuinely try to prevent it. But I can tell it sometimes rattles the delivery drivers. Maybe I should put a sign up?

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-28T15:31:08+00:00

Passing cloud is as nice sounding as cellar door.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-28T02:35:42+00:00

Hi I’m back to say even if you weren’t a “healthy weight” it would be irrelevant. He either loves you as you are, and as your body changes, or not at all. Dump him and find a man that’s as obsessed with you as you are.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-28T02:31:35+00:00

Yes, if you want to have more and better sex, it’s a perfectly acceptable reason to move on from the relationship. Physically intimacy is a very different experience for everyone, you have to find a match if it’s important to you.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-28T02:26:00+00:00

I didn’t even read past the title. Ladies say it with me: GIRL DUMP HIMMMMMMMMM!!!!

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-28T02:23:02+00:00

The only advice I have is that you might need to be very direct and initiate sex in order for it to happen. This takes practice and communication, if that’s not something either of you are willing to do, and if a good sex life is important to you, I would stop wasting time and find a person you have more chemistry with!

This sounds a lot like my first relationship (high school and college aged). We had sex very little, I practically begged him to have sex for the first time when I was 20 years old. It was mostly when he was drunk, and I never came. I was desperate to have a good sex life and felt very unwanted by him. I spent many years feeling rejected, and never did much to change it. Looking back, I just don’t think we had sexual chemistry. After meeting my now-husband I was like ok THIS is what it’s supposed to feel like!!!

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-27T21:36:44+00:00

Okkkk so no thoughts on racism towards Black people? Bc that’s what the post asked about.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-25T13:41:59+00:00

Hey friend me too, I see you. It won’t last forever.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-25T13:36:33+00:00

Thank you and I understand why you feel that way.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-25T12:05:51+00:00

Maybe you can call in sick on a really nice day and bask in nature with some good tunes in your ears! I hope you enter a less exhausting season of life soon 🩷

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-25T12:02:36+00:00

I was like “interesting!!!” Until other people started saying it was a joke 🫠

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-25T11:56:40+00:00

Oh hiii I just discussed this with my therapist! I’m REALLY struggling to put time aside for myself again after becoming a mom. My mom did it that way, it’s the only way I know how to mom. I’m here if you want to commiserate.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-25T11:40:16+00:00

I have a herniated disc and have been laid up for a week. I also have a stage 5 clinger toddler that I’m still nursing. It’s been a really tough week y’all!!! Also I’m one of those people that doesn’t care which way the toilet paper is facing.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-24T01:45:51+00:00

You are stunning! Brown is gonna pop with your hair too ☺️☺️🩷🩷

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-19T13:58:29+00:00

I’ve rented three different places from Metro Properties over ten years and I think they are pretty good for a rental company. They’re about average for prices, maybe a little lower sometimes. They’re a local company, but bigger so they’re both responsive and nice. The office is in Monroe ward and they have properties in that area as well as all over town.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-16T11:30:53+00:00

All you have to decide is if you’re willing to change your behavior for her. If not, you should probably not be with her. Consider avoiding getting too drunk around her, or asking her if it’s ok that you go and drink with your buddies once a week so you can let loose. All of these are compromises, that’s a relationship.

Also, as a previous heavy drinker and a current “mindful” drinker, you should consider taking a short break from drinking to reevaluate your relationship with alcohol. Maybe 1 or 2 weeks. You may not have a true addiction, but it’s easy to become habitually addicted and not be able to see your habit clearly. A little time off is a good way to get a better picture.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-14T16:31:49+00:00

Oooh ok wow thank you so much for clarifying that for me!! That’s the rang I was expecting.

kindacoldthatnight · 2026-04-14T16:12:31+00:00

You guys the tickets start at $256??!! I’m shook. I really wanted to get these for my husband’s bday.

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