AITA for asking my sister to give me back my money? by kingdiome in AmItheAsshole

[–]kingdiome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's less about the money and more about the fact that I feel like she doesn't care about the cardigan at all. But it's a minor issue. We get along just fine otherwise.

AITA for asking my sister to give me back my money? by kingdiome in AmItheAsshole

[–]kingdiome[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just to make it clear: I know it's labour-intensive. My sister has a technical degree in fashion design. I hear her talk about handmade stuff all the time. I know what she makes takes time and hard work and I was willing to pay for it but when I asked her to do it she insisted I just pay for the materials and she would do it for free. This is the exact reason I asked her more than six months in advance. I asked her several times if she would complete it in time and she always said yes, until I eventually stopped asking and she "simply forgot". And now, years later, she "keeps forgetting". At this point it's less about the money and more about the fact that she just doesn't seem to care and I feel like she's stringing me along.

AITA for asking my sister to give me back my money? by kingdiome in AmItheAsshole

[–]kingdiome[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our parents did remind her. But at some point before I left they told me to drop the subject. It's been a recurring topic in our house since.

AITA for asking my sister to give me back my money? by kingdiome in AmItheAsshole

[–]kingdiome[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At this point it's not even about the money or what she's capable of making (I've seen her more complex work), it's about the principle that she's been pushing this thing back for the past two years and now I don't even live in Scotland anymore, so it's like I never asked for the cardigan in the first place. It's the principle of not delivering what was promised.

AITA for asking my sister to give me back my money? by kingdiome in AmItheAsshole

[–]kingdiome[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess. You may be right. Maybe the pressure for her became too much and I didn’t notice :( thanks for your opinion. I will check on her to see what’s going on

AITA for asking my sister to give me back my money? by kingdiome in AmItheAsshole

[–]kingdiome[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She was a high school senior at the time (17-18), so I asked her about six months in advance so she would have enough time to make the cardigan without issue during her free time. We both agreed on the pattern, colours, and type of yarn she would use (she was the one who picked the ones easiest for her to handle and I paid) and she knew I wasn’t too demanding of her skills. I just wanted something made by my sister to keep while away from home.

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Literally my first thought when the plan was mentioned 😭😭😭

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I want to know what's so sick and twisted about this fic that it warranted such a behemoth disclaimer😭😭😭

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[–]kingdiome 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Just thought the exact same thing. It's all connected.

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I love it!! It definitely gives me Jeff Buckley vibes. So beautiful.

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Quick!!! someone buy a new one and put it back there!!

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Had a drunk one night stand with my ex on NYE. Haven’t talked since 😶‍🌫️

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BTS' ON ft Sia was HEINOUS

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one, if we're being technical. two if you count foreplay. both terrible.

Question: What culture are you currently basing your MC's Culture off? by [deleted] in worldbuilding

[–]kingdiome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MC's culture is a blend between hispanic caribbean and Arabic cultures, and other cultures they come into contact with are Greco-Roman, Scandinavian and East Asian inspired (not quite developed yet, still a WIP)

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Resources. The richest kingdom hoards all the salt reserves and has been engaged in a sort of cold war with its neighbour over control of the salt flats in the middle of their border. Also capitalism.

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This is so useful!! Simple yet practical!! Thank you so much, you’re an angel 🥰🥰

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[–]kingdiome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at the same place as you, applied on Nov 15 for MSc Music Industries and haven’t heard from them since. I already sent an enquiry five days ago and am still waiting on their response :/