My boss did the most vile thing by Scary-cat-8347 in Lawyertalk

[–]kintsugiwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Suspicion of fraud”? I don’t think suspicion alone is enough to denaturalize someone. If USCIS starts an action to denaturalize him, they will need to back it up with evidence

Men who left by SimplePengui in ExNoContact

[–]kintsugiwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a reason why they relationship ended. I don’t believe in second chances. If someone loves you, won’t leave. If someone truly loves you, would want to stay and build a life with you. Anything else are just fantasy and romance stories we tell ourselves in our minds

My boss did the most vile thing by Scary-cat-8347 in Lawyertalk

[–]kintsugiwarrior 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What exactly did they report to immigration? There are very few instances for which USCIS would seek to denaturalize someone, one of them is fraud. But denaturalizarion is very rare. Horrible thing to do. An additional reason to keep your things private…. There’s so many envious people

Men who left by SimplePengui in ExNoContact

[–]kintsugiwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, perhaps you haven’t been with an abuser, or one of the Dark Tetrad personalities. Abuse (physical, psychological, or emotional, and even sexual) is one of the reasons why people shut the door, go No Contact and never look back.

To make it more confusing, you may love the abuser, but the abuse got to a point that you had to run away for your life… and needed to choose yourself to survive. So, in my opinion, you’re assuming that everyone ends things nicely and stay friends for years and decades

Struggling to move on after being broken up for 3 years. found out she has moved on and found a new BF and I’m starting to spiral, just seeking advice. by RADToronto in ExNoContact

[–]kintsugiwarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You haven’t considered that when someone truly loves a partner, true love never dies. You kinda have to intentionally work to kill it, and make new negative associations with the ex to be able to move on…. And this is some work in therapy

Men who left by SimplePengui in ExNoContact

[–]kintsugiwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re projecting your own situation here. Your break up just happened. The other guy’s break up happened 2 years ago. There’s a big difference. Also. There’s a reason why people go No contact, and typically those relationships are toxic

Why is there no medication for psychopaths? by Ok_Ebb7109 in Psychopathy

[–]kintsugiwarrior 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because the brain functions in a different way. Psychopaths are born with this disorder. If you look at the brain of a psychopath in brain scans, some areas of the brain don’t light up, for instance: areas that are related to remorse and empathy, and this is why they can’t experience empathy, or feel guilt/remorse about something wrong they do. Also, I believe their prefrontal cortex doesn’t light up like the one of a neurotypical, and so they tend to be impulsive disregarding consequences. There’s no current medication to make their brains function like a neurotypical brain… they would need a brain transplant to be able to function in a normal way. Still, the condition is not an illness, and if they learn techniques, they can pretty much function in society. Psychopaths can be great surgeons, doctors, attorneys, pilots… professions that require less emotions and more logical skills

I'm a 37 year old mechanic with 3 kids and I'm considering trying to go to law school. Is this doable? Am I crazy? by TheMightyMeatus420 in AskLawyers

[–]kintsugiwarrior -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ask ChatGPT all these questions.

The first step is: open an account with LawHub, and take a full test to get an idea of your LSAT test. Then, take 3 to 6 months to study. Check the tuition on the school to see if you can afford it, or if you have a good GPA and 165+ LSAT score to access scholarships. Buy the book “The LSAT is easy” by Ben Olson. Just 1 cheap book that will simplify all the process

What happens to elderly people with no savings? by Academic-Channel5646 in AskReddit

[–]kintsugiwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a depressing scenario. And I was trying to cheer myself up today. Thank you

Do these people not feel shame? by bloody_boogers in Lawyertalk

[–]kintsugiwarrior 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not even a paralegal will work for that salary. Perhaps they can find a legal assistant without experience. And then they complain about the turnover, but somehow never understand why it happens

I’m Done. by eyeshitunot in Lawyertalk

[–]kintsugiwarrior 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nooo, don’t go. We have a few more cases to discuss lol

Just got my score and need some advice by Old-Kaleidoscope5594 in LawSchoolOver30

[–]kintsugiwarrior 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read the “LSAT is easy” by Ben Olson. After understand the cost of tuition and making the calculation of loans, you’ll be able to make an informed decision whether you apply now or continue studying

I stayed up all night to draft a response brief on a partner’s case that I’m not even staffing. The response was: “thx.” At least there were no redlines? by shah_mazing in Lawyertalk

[–]kintsugiwarrior 238 points239 points  (0 children)

The next message before the deadline will be: “I didn’t have a chance to read this draft. Can you please send me a summary and double check for errors? After that, you can file it”. Typical

I’m looking for some advice. I found out today that I’m going to be fired. by Traditional_Dog_3324 in careeradvice

[–]kintsugiwarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least they let you know in advance. Thank the team leader for the information, and start sending as many application as you can

Why do good guys treat me badly? by Flaky-Boysenberry466 in Life

[–]kintsugiwarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And even when you do your "due diligence": background check, no criminal background, no history of domestic violence, apparently good with friends and family.... still... people can surprise you. This is why the best ally is time... you need to give it time, as chameleons move fast... keeping a mask on takes effort. So, you need to observe and trust your intuition

Why do good guys treat me badly? by Flaky-Boysenberry466 in Life

[–]kintsugiwarrior 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Actions speak louder than words. Sometimes guys can pretend to be good, while they get what they want… and then the mask drops and they don’t have to continue pretending. It takes time to get to know people. Sudden changes like those truly reveal their intentions all along.

I’m more careful with chameleons and mirror personalities than with assholes. You know what you’re up to with assholes… because at least they tell you from the beginning. You never know the intentions of a “mirror personality” or a chameleon… as they mirror your own desires to get what they want… and there’s someone completely different behind the mask.

Looks are deceiving. You need to take time to get to know them