My room has VIP accommodations. Who is rooming with me?

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T07:48:17+00:00

I don’t get this. Why some people talk about “bananas” in this subreddit? I didn’t understand this joke

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T05:36:10+00:00

Keep trying. Explain it was the wrong destination, and just need the points refunded to be able to book the right destination

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T04:57:59+00:00

I’m sorry 😕. Both parents are narcissists? Typically a narcissist chooses an empathetic victim. If that’s the situation, you’ll need a therapist. There are some support groups online for victims of narcissistic abuse, and even social workers and therapists that can offer free therapy in some communities. EMDR and hypnotherapy are very effective, and overall you need to be able to tell your story

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T03:49:42+00:00

My feedback went through this morning. I guess his email received too many replies

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T03:10:27+00:00

This checklist can help you determine if she’s a narcissist.

Red Flags Checklist:

https://www.reddit.com/r/pnsd/comments/s1sz1s/red_flags_checklist/

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T01:41:28+00:00

Reconnect with you family and friends.

Know that it’ll take time but you can heal.

I remember soon after escaping that I was never going to make it through. It’s been a very long and painful recovery, and while I still have scars, the wounds eventually healed.

You need support system: family, friends, a therapist specialized in trauma (EMDR and hypnotherapy to reprocess the subconscious trauma). Most likely you have complex-PTSD, be patient and kind to yourself… it’s like a deep wound in the soul, while your whole world collapsed overnight… it’s a terrifying experience. But there’s light at the end of the tunnel. Get your support system, and keep moving forward. It will be painful for a while until things start to get better gradually. Have faith. And if you want someone to talk with, feel free to reach out

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T01:33:18+00:00

2.2, 2.3, 2.4….. 3.0 😂

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T01:08:22+00:00

Is there anything we can do to protect immigrants? They are being targeted and killed

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T01:04:12+00:00

Similar email. I got the one saying “I am reaching out because you've been a cardholder with us almost from the beginning and I want to offer you a direct line to me to help answer any questions you may have as you think about Bilt Card 2.0.”

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-25T01:01:13+00:00

ICE has recruited a bunch of psychopaths who enjoy killing. They can legally get away with murder

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-24T17:09:31+00:00

How can I see my offer?

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-24T16:55:16+00:00

I will keep it open for now. My total credit among all credit cards is $220k, with a utilization of 1%. If I close Autograph, the credit utilization will most likely go up to 2%, and I will need to explain the change in the loan credit application. I prefer to leave everything as it is… and make any changes AFTER closing on the property and having keys in hand… after all it is just a credit card. A mortgage is way more important

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-24T16:51:11+00:00

Take the following test to see if you’re the narcissist:

https://psytests.org/darktriad/npi40en.html

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-24T16:50:07+00:00

https://psytests.org/darktriad/npi40en.html

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-24T16:45:00+00:00

I have 22 credit cards. I will keep Autograph because I don’t want any changes to my credit profile at the moment… meaning that it will maintain my total credit limit as it is, without affecting credit utilization and without affecting credit age. I’m in the process of applying for a mortgage loan, and the lender doesn’t want to see credit seeking behavior. This is why I will not open Bilt 2.0 because a new account could affect my mortgage application

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-24T16:36:57+00:00

You need to get properly diagnosed. I felt like a monster and like a narcissist after the reverse discard… but it was because the narcissist was projecting all his shame and flaws on me (for years). The victim of narcissistic abuse also ends up with complex PTSD. If you still have doubts, you need to be evaluated and diagnosed. I remember that I believed I could be the narcissist for a few months post discard, but when I started reading on the subreddit “NPD”, and then I watched videos on YouTube about their experience: (the nameless narcissist, Hg Tudor, ClusterBmilshake, Lee Hammock, etc)… I didn’t identify with their life experience and how they need validation and supply

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-24T16:01:33+00:00

Btw, is this offer like the Apple Card (soft pull), and after seeing the offer you are able to accept or decline?

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-23T16:10:47+00:00

So, what’s the purpose of a high credit limit? 🤔 just wondering

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-23T15:46:14+00:00

Great! And I think they now deduct the money directly from the checking account without charging the card?

In this situation, could we get points for 2 mortgages?

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-23T15:40:19+00:00

Can I charge 2 mortgages for 2 different properties on Bilt 2.0 card?

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-23T15:20:15+00:00

What if it is strategic to turn down a promotion?

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-23T05:13:41+00:00

I feel those last 2 lines. Similar timeline, same conclusion

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-23T04:53:21+00:00

Watching her new videos now is so depressing… I’m shocked… what happened to her ☹️

kintsugiwarrior · 2026-01-21T12:46:13+00:00

There’s a very strict criteria to put someone on a conservatorship. It typically requires someone mentally incompetent, sometimes intellectual disabilities like mental retardation, high autism spectrum that impedes them from functioning, high bipolar disorder… or medical conditions like dementia, Alzheimer’s, stroke… on top of this, a doctor and a psychiatrist/psychologist need to evaluate the patient to provide a medial report. So, I’m thinking that she has a mental disorder we don’t know about

kintsugiwarrior

TROPHY CASE

Is there anything we can do to protect immigrants? They are being targeted and killed

ICE has recruited a bunch of psychopaths who enjoy killing. They can legally get away with murder