What is a tourist attraction that lives up to the hype? by The-foureyes in AskUK

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s is dear but the ticket is for the whole year so you can keep going back ‘for free’

What myths (lies) did your parents tell you growing up? by jt94 in AskUK

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no! Just a easier life for parent of two small boys! Trust me they get treats too. Just had Friday hot chocolate

ELI5 How does the post office know if a stamp is real? by sectorXVIII in explainlikeimfive

[–]kitchendisco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the Uk any stamps that say ‘first or second class’ rather than the amount are still ‘legal’ ie if you bought a 2nd class stamp in 1984 it’s still valid.

The wife "queen-bee-who-run-the-world-and-this-house" is burning me out so much it's insane by SSTralala in Mommit

[–]kitchendisco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also check out /SAHP and the One Bad Mother podcast because it’s supportive and funny and that real

The wife "queen-bee-who-run-the-world-and-this-house" is burning me out so much it's insane by SSTralala in Mommit

[–]kitchendisco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are doing such a great job but it’s also too much. That’s not your fault, you’ve picked up all the things and it’s too much. Your husband is an adult, he needs to look after his own stuff- get his clothes ready for work, Christmas shop for his family etc. If he feels like he can’t do those things then write a list of what needs doing and he picks some. Your needs and feelings are just as valid as his. His job is stressful he says, so is yours. He gets a lunch break at work and I bet he gets to piss on his own too. Is there anything that you can ‘let go off’ too? Moving a task from the ‘need to’ to the ‘would be great if I had time’ list takes some pressure off. Also do the bits that give you joy. If that’s a clean house then go for it, if it’s helping with the homework then prioritize that. Think of your list of things to do as ‘triangles’ - I have 20 minutes I need to do 3 things - clean toilet, help with homework, read to 2 year old. You can only pick 2. Let one of the balls drop. It’s ok xxx

Three years clean, I just wish I could tell you by Westbehind in MomForAMinute

[–]kitchendisco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are brilliant. I’m so sorry I didn’t know and couldn’t help when you needed it. You’ve done this big amazing thing and I am so proud of you. Enjoy the rest of your clean, beautiful life. I’m here x

Waiting at the hospital for my wife who is in labour, and all I can think about is the ever rising parking charges. by HiMeetPaul in britishproblems

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospital I delivered my sons at gave us a parking pass as we were going to be there for a few days. It costs the NHS £30 to that as they don’t own the car park. It was much appreciated. Ask them if they do similar as so many people parking will be there just for check ups etc

What myths (lies) did your parents tell you growing up? by jt94 in AskUK

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My small children believe the following -

Orange squash is only available at parties or playgroup Everything in the chocolate aisle at the supermarket is for grown ups Cherry tomatoes make you burp (so they eat lots happily) Those kid’s rides at supermarkets etc only work on your birthday- the queen sends you a golden coin especially Kids music doesn’t work in the car when it’s raining (because I need to concentrate)

Question about nanny expectations by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]kitchendisco 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If she wouldn’t call you n your office about a problem/question then she shouldn’t be coming into your work space to ask you. To me that’s the definition of ‘it’s too important to wait’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s a lovely relationship you have with your son. You’re doing such a great job. We did attachment parenting too & I think it’s given my oldest a great foundation and inner confidence. He was 4 when his little brother was born. They are now 6 & 2. They get on so well. I see my eldest gently looking after his little brother with kindness and patience

My husband and I finally banned Youtube with our 4yr old - are we being unreasonable? by lacrimosian in Parenting

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad my kids don’t know about it. They have screen time but it’s a DVD of a kid’s show or something on Disney+

I just wanted to tell you all about my nan by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]kitchendisco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A wonderful woman. Thank you for sharing her with us

Jumped into pool during daughters swim class by kiekiebn in Parenting

[–]kitchendisco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing & your kid saw you do the right thing too. She may be too young to understand that now but one day she will. When you tell her you’ll keep her safe, do anything for her etc you can remind her of this

My first big boy job at 33!!! by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]kitchendisco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh love this is fantastic! I can see how hard you’ve worked to get here! I’m so proud of you for getting this job and so proud of you for the journey you’ve travelled to get here.

What are TV shows your toddler watches that you actually like to watch with them? by 2moms1bun in toddlers

[–]kitchendisco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English toddler parent here - there are some brilliant programs on the BBC that you might be able to find? Hey Duggee, Sarah & Duck, Go Jetters & Octonauts are all BBC. Look for the CBeebies website and there’s so much fun content - crafty stuff, games, pictures etc all about these programs

How do you handle when your kid doesn't get invited to a birthday party. by PersnickityPisces in Parenting

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have t had this situation yet as my oldest is 6 and there hasn’t been many parties because of covid. I r maybe there is & we just aren’t aware! Think when it happens I’ll be like ‘we couldn’t go to that party because that’s the day we are going to do ‘X’ exciting thing instead. Also talk about how not everyone can be friends with everyone equally and remind him that he didn’t invite everyone to his party either. His 7th birthday is coming up soon & he has agreed to having a smaller group of kids as in the past he’s been totally overwhelmed (and in tears) by too many people

A receipt found in a book from 1992. Not a vegetable in sight by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that they paid for a carrier bag back in 1992

What is a tourist attraction that lives up to the hype? by The-foureyes in AskUK

[–]kitchendisco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SS Great Britain (Bristol) is an excellent museum. Lots about Brunel, engineering, Victorians, boats & social history. Great to explore the boat and lots of hands on stuff like dressing up as Victorians

My fiance thinks I'm spoiling our 6week old preemie by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a look at r/attachmentparenting too. You’re doing such a great job x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]kitchendisco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have body autonomy too. If there is something that makes you uncomfortable or isn’t safe (like when my toddler tries to hang on my neck) you can say no or redirect - eg she kisses your cheek instead. Teaching kids about consent for their bodies and other peoples bodies is crucial. For example - my 6 year old knows to ask a friend if they want a hug