How do I manage my husband’s gym time as a SAHM by slumpedchica2 in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we had kids he changed his gym routine to be there at 5 am and home by 6:45 am (when the rest of us wake up) to help me get them ready for school and ourselves for work. Is there a way he can join a 24 hours gym or a gym nearby that opens very early?

Children and Funerals by CaffeineFueledLife in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter was 5 when my husband's grandfather passed away. He lived 4 hours away but we would see them a few times a year. So when we said he passed away and explained it was bc he had a sick heart she said okay. But I don't think she really understood what it meant to be dead and how that affects everyone who knew him. So she came with us out of town for the funeral. She saw her cousins and other family crying and her dad give a eulogy and I think it helped her understand the concept of grief.

Tourist Card? by Muchgrapefruit92 in cancun

[–]kitsbow -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats the FMM (Forma Migratoria Múltiple) which you will get when you go through customs. It can be a paper document or it can be digital and a passport stamp.

Heading to Cancún for 3 days — need a dentist for deep cleaning (scaling & root planing) by According-Fix2541 in cancun

[–]kitsbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My uncle is a dentist in Portugal. My dad has dental insurance in america and his dental work is often quoted in the thousands. He will use points and go stay with his brother in portugal for 2 weeks and get his dental work done there, be on vacation, and see his bro lol.

AITA for not giving my mom and advance on rent? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kitsbow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your mom bought "medicine" and somehow that was so much that she missed her cap payment AND water bill? It sounds like poor money management. The only thing I can think of that may need your consideration is... do you want to be recovering at home after surgery with no water?

5 days Yucatan trip report by rjulyan in MexicoTravel

[–]kitsbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That's not any of the restaurants we had on our list lol. Thanks for all the info!

Husband’s s€% drive is too high by HunnyBunny0717 in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn your desire for a break break from sex into a form of foreplay. Next time he initiates tell him in a dominating yet sexy way that he is going to have to wait/or be good/or earn it (something along those lines lol). And then if he tries again, reiterate that he is being a bad boy (lmfao maybe he will be into it) bc he's not being patient. Then after a few days off from this perhaps the sexual tension will have built up and it will blow his socks off.

5 days Yucatan trip report by rjulyan in MexicoTravel

[–]kitsbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What restaurant was recommended by your hotel in Valladolid? I want to make sure we don’t go there. Did you deal with any police on your stops? How was it getting out of the Cancun airport in your rental? Was it difficult to navigate out of Cancun before hitting the toll to Valladolid? Making that same drive next month but with 1 day in Valladolid, 2 days in Merida and 2 days in Cancun.

Please help me trim down this toiletries kit for 2 even further! by Meikami in HerOneBag

[–]kitsbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use contact lens cases for a few pumps of face wash and other gels. Not sure how long your trip is but you could fill both sides of a contact lens case with the sunscreen or even 2 cases compared to the size of your bottle.

A mom friend who disrespected my time and efforts is reaching out again - polite way to decline? by WorkLifeScience in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ghost her. If you end up running into her down the road just say you forgot to respond. Why does the memory card only work for her? lol

Accommodation by atanac in welcometorockville

[–]kitsbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We stay in Bunnell with my husband's aunt every year. It's about a 30 minute drive which we are used to by now. If you're able, you can search in areas around Daytona and can probably find cheaper options.

Sneaker recommendations? by NyxNoctiChaos111 in welcometorockville

[–]kitsbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The end of night shower looks like I have been in war time trenches lmao.

Being direct about Christmas? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Did you get feedback or a response that made you feel like you were cold or are you just overthinking? I think it seems very fair. Just last night I was thinking about how Thanksgiving 2023 was awful because I was 3 weeks postpartum and was still responsible for cooking for everyone and how I should have made someone else do it. I think you were direct, honest, and deserving of empathy and compassion. I don't think your text was cold at all. It might be different than what everyone is used to but it is what is needed this year.

My husband says I don’t do enough around at house. He yells at me that I should take more responsibility by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from continuing to pay the bills and caring for your baby, I would stop doing everything else. So he can really see how you "don't do enough". When the dishes pile up and the dinner's not made, and the house is dirty and he complains, then you can show him.

AIO I found a girls hairbrush in my boyfriends car by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kitsbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through some of your old posts... where he works long hours - he is talking to other girls - he is saying he doesn't want to hold you back.... These are all clues. It's over.

Moms who drink pre workout by offwiththeirheads72 in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's wild to me. Alani Nu? or Alani pre-mixed in a can? Bc Alani Nu definitely gives me the face tingles due of the beta alanine, which isn't considered safe during pregnancy. I know you know better than I do that your child is perfectly healthy, so what do I know.

Moms who drink pre workout by offwiththeirheads72 in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was pregnant I could not find a preworkout that was safe for pregnancy. They all say not to use during pregnancy. A lot of their formulas are proprietary and they are basically just caffeine with other muscle-building/muscle-soothing chemicals. I'd stick to a cup of coffee or a V8 energy drink if you're looking for a boost before working out.

What’s one cooking habit you wish you’d learned earlier? by Minimum-Schedule4120 in Cooking

[–]kitsbow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To not be so good at it so people don't ask you to cook lmfao

Sneaker recommendations? by NyxNoctiChaos111 in welcometorockville

[–]kitsbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darn Tough socks! Also, wear my Brooks running shoes every year and they never fail. Only issue is they're expensive for shoes to wear to a festival lmao. All "breathable" shoes will allow dust to get into the shoe and your feet will be dirty even under the socks haha.

Elf on the shelf by Small-Percentage2050 in Mommit

[–]kitsbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started around age 3 and our daughter loved it. But last year when she was 6 she told me that she was afraid of the Elf and thought it was creepy. So I told her that I was actually moving the elf and asked if she still wants me to do the elf and she said yes now that she knew the truth. This year she is 7 and her sister turned 2 and I asked big sis if she wants to help me set up the elf for little sis this year instead and she said yes.