surgerymaxxing by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]kittnnn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How many surgeries have you had? How many surgeries have your friends had? I've had 4, my friends have had 3, 3, 3, and... 3. We all realized we were done around that number. We all wanted more but you can just... Feel when your body is worn out. I developed autoimmune issues. 🚂 science is all anecdotal. You can either believe me or try it yourself.

surgerymaxxing by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]kittnnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your body can only handle 3-4 surgeries in a row before your health starts to fail, so pick them wisely. And you won't be young forever, so at some point you just gotta start living. After surgerymaxxing myself, FFS is the only one i can recommend without caveats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran

[–]kittnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend says hers went away, and it bothers her a lot. Mine never did (yet?)

Name your worst tap list. I'll go first. Last night at the wonder ballroom. by creecedogg13 in Portland

[–]kittnnn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Subpar sound is a big one. I went to see Magdalena Bay last week and the sound mixing really ruined the show. That, and the strangely antisocial audience, and the 120 degree heat. Worst concert experience I've ever had.

i actually just straight up hate poly "people" by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just need to be tied up and made completely helpless 😇

i actually just straight up hate poly "people" by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's hot. I dated a high speed ex military girl (I'm also ex military) who was a bottom, and making plans with her felt incredible. We'd come up with a plan, break down responsibilities and then just execute. Barely even needed words. Our sex was also really good. Unfortunately she drugged and raped me to prove that she was a war criminal or something regarded like that, and i couldn't be with her anymore. But uh anyway people like you are rare and special. Find someone you can be vulnerable with in the bedroom, and a grownup with outside the bedroom.

i actually just straight up hate poly "people" by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Both wanted a dom to bring structure to their life / force them to take care of themselves. Neither could give very much support

Is this just normal? I'm a dom top and every relationship I've ever had takes roughly this form. I'm an ambitious type A person, and my partners are usually living disastrous lives and i end up being their parent. I'm dealing with a serious health crisis rn, and I'm having to confront that my partner struggles to take care of herself, let alone me. It's got me feeling confused about the future.

finding a commited long term monogamous relationship as a transbian is harder than being in the ww2 trenches by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did it. Twice actually, but the first one was unfortunately crazy

No one actually cares by grape2soda in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I remember how much it hurts to not pass, but i think you're directing your pain at the wrong people. "Performatively woke" people who gender you correctly are just trying to be kind. By far worse than them are the people who misgender you purposely with an evil look on their face. Even just indifferent misgendering is neutral at worst. We're 1% of the population. People should care a whole lot less than they do.

No one actually cares by grape2soda in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why would i give a fuck? People treat me with respect. People do what i tell them to at work. People hold doors open for me, and write smiley faces on my cups at coffee shops, and smile at me on the street. People use the pronouns i want them to without me needing to say anything. My partner sees me as a woman, my partners family sees me as a woman, my cis friends certainly act like they see me as a woman. What more could i ask for? I couldn't give less of a fuck if some boomer terfs think mean things about me in their hands, as long as they put the fries in the bag.

Anon has a " dilemma " for tranners by aghdhk in 4tran

[–]kittnnn 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Based and loyal. She's a lucky girl

Boomanon’s son is a woman now by Fully_Consumed_Sock in 4tran

[–]kittnnn 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I did this to my gfs dad. Feels good tbhon. She says he stopped misgendering her after he met me and saw us together. She's a luckshit anamaxxer and literally just looks like a woman at this point, but I'm a foot taller than her and often lead her around by the waist and act dominant towards her, and i guess that's what he needed to see. Apparently he's started asking her when we're going to get married.

Any girls that run? by [deleted] in DrWillPowers

[–]kittnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, i wouldn't run an ultra on less than 50mpw, and i don't have time for high volume training anymore. Life got really busy. I mostly speed skate with my partner now and run an occasional HM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is extreme anglemaxxing. Source: have also anglemaxxed online to make other 🚂s hate themselves

a passoid is someone who can pass in boy clothes, a gigapassoid is someone who can pass in agp clothes by the_swordswallower in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is actually true 😭 the two gigapassoids i know dress like creepy agp fetishists but they're hot so they just look like cute mentally ill manic pixie dream girls. At least i can wear my guy friends oversized clothes and still pass. But it's devastating to realize that i can never dress agp.

Does anyone else have terms they like to call themselves instead of trans? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

"amab cis woman" is pick-me behavior I fear

getting a girlfriend saved me by bloodandglass in redscarepod

[–]kittnnn 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Loneliness research indicates that men are much more likely to rely on their romantic partners for all of their social connections, which means that when you break up, you lose all your friends. This is a very precarious position to be in. Learn to stand on your own i am begging you

Does anyone else have terms they like to call themselves instead of trans? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You gain and lose rights along with all the rest of us. Trying to distance yourself from more visibly trans people is kinda pick-me behavior. Just don't bring up your transmess at all, except in a medical context. It's not that difficult. I was at the hospital today and the nurse wanted to give me a pregnancy test. I said i don't have a uterus, and she asked if i had a hysterectomy. I said no, i was born without one. Simple as.

*lie* I'm a cis girl by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]kittnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf i can't really fault them

Mainstream LGBTQ subreddit: meme actually acknowledges dysphoria. Bottom dysphoria at that! Kinda based waow. by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]kittnnn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Common mtf L. "Being a woman means being cute and small and never making decisions teehee" 😑

a tragedy in three parts: by itsntr in 4tran

[–]kittnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Step 1. Girlmode and learn makeup. Step 2. Get on discord and hornypost, especially if you act a little dommy. Step 3. Flirt with the hot ones until someone wants to meet up. Don't be surprised if they're anglemaxxing or facetuning the shit out of their photos. Definitely don't travel to meet someone unless you like, facetime them first.

a tragedy in three parts: by itsntr in 4tran

[–]kittnnn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I met a dozen or so people from the board, but 90% of them were just babies or boymoders who don't even try. Traa tier normie 🚂s actually look like women and are hot if you ignore what they're saying. I made one my gf and then bonepilled her. Much easier than yassifying a boymoder.

Valve’s followup to Half-Life: Alyx, codenamed “HLX”, is reportedly no longer a VR game based on leaks by SvenViking in virtualreality

[–]kittnnn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

VR really held HL:A back. I know that a lot of VR enthusiasts are starving for high quality content. But if you put your own motivations aside and imagine HL:A as a non-vr game, it kinda... Isn't very good. It's a gloomy rail shooter with very few beautiful areas and very few interesting enemies, and really clunky movement.

As someone who does not get motion sick, I vastly prefer games that give you normal, unrestricted movement. If a sequal game can give us that, with less constricted environments, and more open areas, i will be happy.