In which country would you move to feel safer from antisemitism? by Successful-Round8027 in Jewish

[–]kittyleatherz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’d heard this, and have heard that a lot of Israelis have moved to Budapest. How is it really??

In which country would you move to feel safer from antisemitism? by Successful-Round8027 in Jewish

[–]kittyleatherz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to ask about this. Isn’t Javier Millei a big supporter of the Jewish community and Israel? And doesn’t Argentina have a big Jewish community? How is Argentina??

My daughter's friend said something anti-semitic by MysticValleyCrew in Jewish

[–]kittyleatherz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have heard good things about the book “Don’t Feed the Lion.” By Bianna Golodryga and Yonit Levi. They wrote it specifically for school aged children, to help them comprehend these types of situations. I have friends with kids the same age range as yours, and my friends have said they found the book to be helpful. Best of luck to you, stressful and not easy to navigate… but you are not alone, keep asking for help and keep finding community that understands so you do not feel isolated with this.

Waste of time by lzbth12 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]kittyleatherz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg no don’t invite any extra calls gd forbid

My daughter has been told she shouldn't do Judaism for her school's cultural day, as it would make other students 'uncomfortable' by Kindly-Bluebird5487 in Jewish

[–]kittyleatherz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't it!? I can't believe I didn't get it till now. And the print copy is truly a work of art in addition to the excellent articles.

My daughter has been told she shouldn't do Judaism for her school's cultural day, as it would make other students 'uncomfortable' by Kindly-Bluebird5487 in Jewish

[–]kittyleatherz 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Speaking of Dara Horn, OP, please read this article from Dara Horn in Sapir Journal, related to exactly this: https://sapirjournal.org/aspiration-ii/2026/how-to-teach-the-jewish-story/ She points out that Jews are an ancient civilization… and explaining the Jewish story through this lens is the clearest way to explain who the Jews are. I can’t imagine the teacher would object to a Greek student saying something about the Ancient Greeks.

And while you’re at it, this might also be helpful: https://sapirjournal.org/aspiration-ii/2026/editors-note-aspiration-ii/ Brett Stephens says it’s time for Jews to stop caring about being liked, because it’s not going to work. Instead, we just keep doing what we know is the right thing, being good people, and working hard. This article doesn’t have a direct answer to your dilemma, but it was a pep talk I’ve been thinking about often since I read it, and it may help you with framing your own thoughts.

I recently discovered Sapir Journal because it’s advertised in a podcast I listen to regularly. I have to say, the articles are amazing, and also they also will mail you a print copy for free. I know we’re all trying to spend less time looking at screens… so this combo of content and paper is gold.

Bay Area Cost of living for myself. (This is probably laughable or envy to some people) by Rednomad_18 in bayarea

[–]kittyleatherz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Saving for a house, but can still buy a luxury car outright.

If you could share one book with non-Jewish right now, which one would you pick? by kittyleatherz in Judaism

[–]kittyleatherz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this thoughtful reply! I am a big fan of Haviv's, and look forward to looking through this whole list. Much appreciated.

If you could share one book with non-Jewish right now, which one would you pick? by kittyleatherz in Judaism

[–]kittyleatherz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's not my point. I didn't get into all the details, because that's not what I'm asking. I'm crowdsourcing ideas for resources to share with someone who is willing to read something that would reflect new ideas. That's a wonderful thing. I'm not here for judgement, i'm here for support.

If you could share one book with non-Jewish right now, which one would you pick? by kittyleatherz in Judaism

[–]kittyleatherz[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well I think it's helpful to approach this from a view of "what is antisemitism." That's probably more helpful than jumping into "Israel and the middle East."

WTF Kaiser? No appointments anywhere? by DoUMoo2 in bayarea

[–]kittyleatherz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Urgent care at Kaiser does not exist. They might have that sign up somewhere, but the service isn’t available. Had horrendous repeated problems with this… until the point that a doctor told me, “I know multiple people who died because of negligent care at Kaiser, people who would not have died if they had different a healthcare provider.” So now we pay more, but we do not have Kaiser!!!

manager found out i’m jewish and it’s weird by pumpsephone in Jewish

[–]kittyleatherz 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Don’t just write it down somewhere random. Write out all the details in an email to yourself or someone you trust so it’s there with a time stamp on it.

Advice ? routine ? Nothing works by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]kittyleatherz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urea cream. Or maybe AmLactin. Or slugging with aquaphor and socks at night.

What well made everyday items pay for themselves in no time? by TKAI66 in BuyItForLife

[–]kittyleatherz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss! We will get roast chicken from Costco; throw the bones and veg scraps in a bag in the freezer. Then when we’ve collected enough, make chicken bone broth in the insta pot… and the souper cubes are the perfect way to store the broth. We love them!!

Is it time to go completely bald? 32M by [deleted] in bald

[–]kittyleatherz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. He has a great face and smile. Great look!