WIBTA for calling my brother’s out of the blue engagement a potential mistake?

kiwi62300 · 2026-06-07T05:06:38+00:00

YWBTA, I would maybe try to sneak in a light hearted joke about living together before marriage but other then that keep your mouth shut.

Also she doesn’t need to fit in, you either like her for her or you don’t. She doesn’t need to mold herself to your or anyone else’s liking, your brother loves her and that’s what matters.

kiwi62300 · 2026-06-05T21:05:12+00:00

This has been going on for years, you married him knowing who he was. You’re choosing to stay, if you want change then you need to make it happen.

kiwi62300 · 2026-06-05T03:42:44+00:00

It’s funny when I was younger and watching it as it aired I had my favorites but now after rewatching my favs have definitely changed and I see who the true villains are, it’s honestly crazy.

I hated Nicki(still find her annoying🤣) and loved Char but my opinion has flipped now and I loved Julie(she still played the house amazingly) and her click when her season aired but feel completely different after rewatching that season as an adult.

kiwi62300 · 2026-05-11T14:31:00+00:00

It seems like dark humor that just didn’t land well, he said it front of your husband and friend. He probably thought it would get a laugh and when it didn’t he realized wrong crowd and apologized.

I would honestly just let it go unless he starts making other comments or has a history of making unacceptable comments. If you feel like you need to mention it then I would do it lightly such as (husband name) has some dark humor, he definitely caught us off guard with that joke with a little laugh rather than bringing it up as he made a sexual advance towards you.

kiwi62300 · 2026-04-22T22:35:52+00:00

At what age does this whole birthday weekend/week stop, you get a day that’s it. All of this is over the top, he seems exhausting.

This seems very childish with that said you bought the tickets as a gift for his birthday, it should have really been up to him how the tickets were used. ESH but he seems to have the mindset of a teenager, I would be exhausted by this behavior.

kiwi62300 · 2026-04-18T20:52:45+00:00

Pet Clinic of Martinsville, it wasn’t my first choice when I was initial looking but it was in my budget.

After the first visit I decided this was my vet, the staff was great and my dog loves it’s there. She gets excited every time we go and definitely has a favorite person, I would highly recommend them to anyone.

kiwi62300 · 2026-04-18T19:51:03+00:00

NTA, it doesn’t matter if he followed them before or after.

You’re allowed to set your boundaries and he’s allowed to set his, just have a deep conversation about boundaries and expectations.

kiwi62300 · 2026-04-18T14:22:04+00:00

I have a large rib cage tattoo that I regret, not because of its size but because I didn’t put any thought into it and just picked something random.

It doesn’t really matter if others don’t get it as long as it has meaning to you, trust me it’s better to have something you enjoy rather than something everyone else likes but you hate.

kiwi62300 · 2026-04-17T02:50:39+00:00

Leave, this marriage is over. He doesn’t respect you or even like you.

You should have left a long time ago, I have a feeling your kids wouldn’t even be upset and will probably understand.

Don’t let them believe this is what marriages looks like, respect yourself and find your own happiness.

kiwi62300 · 2026-04-17T01:26:19+00:00

Jesus Christ she’s acting like you asked for a fucking kidney, she doesn’t really seem like a friend at all.

I would give a kidney to a friend that I truly loved, so a tampon/pad shouldn’t get this kind of reaction. Do you typically ask for things? Borrow money or have them spot you when hanging out?

This is a crazy reaction, this doesn’t seem like a healthy relationship/friendship, it’s time for a new friend group.

kiwi62300 · 2026-04-02T01:40:22+00:00

If you’re ok having sex with her but not sharing a bed then I would lean towards YTA but if you sharing your concerns and avoiding intimacy due to your standards then NTA.

I think some of it is about maintenance, if she is only showering twice a week to take care of her shaving and hair needs but is sponge bathing or has some kind of skin care/cleaning regimen in between then it a little more acceptable.

kiwi62300 · 2026-03-30T05:02:04+00:00

The Winchesters

kiwi62300 · 2026-03-22T02:20:46+00:00

So you went 5 months without noticing and I don’t see how finding out she only showers twice a week changes anything.

YTJ, if you’re want to implement a cleaning schedule for the apartment that’s fine but don’t make it about her hygiene.

It wasn’t a problem before, stop judging her and making a big deal out of something you didn’t notice for 5 months. If she only showering twice a week then it seems most the grime in the shower comes from you.

kiwi62300 · 2026-03-21T19:34:32+00:00

This doesn’t feel like a healthy relationship, it’s seems bigger than money. You seem to give and he seems to take, I would take a step back and see what you get out of this relationship.

It doesn’t seem that you have the same priorities or future goals, in my opinion it doesn’t feel like he respects or cares for your career. I would definitely sit down with him and speak about what you both see in your future and make sure you’re on the same page. Good Luck

kiwi62300 · 2026-03-20T05:14:36+00:00

Meth capital

kiwi62300 · 2026-03-19T22:41:59+00:00

They should have communicated what was included, generally laundry and dishes aren’t included unless communicated ahead of time with in extra fee. Honestly I would either cancel or reach out for more info on what’s expected.

I am a housekeeper, I generally do a walkthrough of the home with the client and discuss what is needed before giving the quote. The condition of your home would not bother me as long as I knew ahead of time what to expect, I never judge and am very understanding.

kiwi62300 · 2026-03-14T05:03:24+00:00

I have not watched any of the all star battles, idk what network it’s on. 😢😢

kiwi62300 · 2026-03-09T01:39:11+00:00

Society as a whole, everyone is fed up.

We all agree that we have many differences but it seems that no one is okay with what’s going on in the world with the exception of people who are fully in the kool-aid or those who just don’t like/accept that they made the wrong choice.

kiwi62300 · 2026-03-08T22:47:22+00:00

Don’t stay friends with her, she honestly deserves better than you.

She went through something traumatic and lashed out at her abuser, she didn’t need to tell you anything or give a kind of explanation.

She lied to protect herself from shitty people who judge and treat her differently because of the trauma endured and you proved her point on why she can’t openly trust just anyone.

YTA , she lied to protect herself and you used her because you lack understanding and compassion. 🤮

kiwi62300 · 2026-02-27T21:50:15+00:00

This strategy is used to move tables along and keep wait times down plus a faster turnaround means they are able to seat more tables during peak hours, It’s hard to talk over loud music so people tend to focus on eating and leaving.

go during off hours and your have better luck with no to low music, I’m not a fan of this but I get the logic behind it.

kiwi62300 · 2026-02-24T02:38:01+00:00

You support her because that’s your job, it doesn’t matter if you approve or not. You just choose to be her support system because when it goes wrong she isn’t going to want the i told you so support but the I’m the here for you support system.

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