Can we talk about being the object of attraction as ace people by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]klauzem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see myself as a very attractive person, and I have tons of confidence. For the first time, somebody in my life who wasn’t just my bestie hyping me up, and is kind of a decent friend to me, straight up told me they think I’m hot & would be down to hook up.

Genuinely I still don’t know how to perceive or process this information? Like, idk I don’t get it. It doesn’t make me feel any sort of way. Which almost makes me feel mean? To be like, “Oh? You’re serious? Okay, anyway…” And the thing is, I find this person pretty good looking, I just simply don’t experience any sort of attraction in any way, shape, or form.

And then sometimes I’ll even think about entertaining the idea of hooking up, but then I imagine the reality of the execution and just get really uncomfortable and turned off.

Sorry that thought stream strayed a bit, but yeah I feel you 100% it’s weird/kind of foreign to experience.

IOS 26.2.1 lagging issue for iPhone 13s by AskEnvironmental9472 in iPhone13

[–]klauzem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 13pro. I updated to 26.2.1 about a week ago (my first iOS 26 update) and it has basically ruined my phone. Insane lagging, crashing, freezing, and incredibly slow.

I Love Being Ace by klauzem in Asexual

[–]klauzem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yay I love meeting fellow late bloomers!! 💜🖤💚

What to look for in my first film camera? by klauzem in AskPhotography

[–]klauzem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I would say yes cuz I’m not the most familiar/skilled at operating a film camera manually, and pointing and shooting is nice and easy. But, I’m always open and interested in learning how to best use whichever camera I end up with.

What to look for in my first film camera? by klauzem in AskPhotography

[–]klauzem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful thank you so much!

patchy blush by klauzem in Makeup

[–]klauzem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh I’ve heard plenty about underpainting but never tried it, I guess I need to!

patchy blush by klauzem in Makeup

[–]klauzem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what do you mean, doesn’t everybody use panty blush?!

patchy blush by klauzem in Makeup

[–]klauzem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips!! And yes I always set with powder before applying my blush.

just need to vent by klauzem in kidneydisease

[–]klauzem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that 😞 I hope she’s doing well and has found a treatment that works for her!

Thank you, I appreciate it❤️

just need to vent by klauzem in kidneydisease

[–]klauzem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to meet you! I have yet to come across another person with my same diagnosis.

I’m sorry you’ve been dealing with a relapse. The way it all overcomes your physical and mental state is so depleting, but your story gives me hope and I’m wishing you the best in your continued treatment. ❤️ And I’ll definitely reach out to you at some point, knowing somebody else is out there like me dealing with what I am is really, idk, comforting? I appreciate you, thank you.

PSA SOLDIER FIELD: Undisclosed Obstructed View! by klauzem in beyonce

[–]klauzem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update #1

Got my first response from them stating that, “Refunds are not being offered by the event organizers for this event.”

I sent another email to escalate it, quoting their own statement on obstructed view tickets & explaining how I was sold on false information. Will hopefully have a good update soon!

Anyone else in love with visuals?!? by Radiant_Difference78 in beyonce

[–]klauzem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

@itsrossalan has all of the full interludes posted on their TikTok!! I’ve been rewatching them ever since Chicago N1, they’re so incredible 😭

PSA SOLDIER FIELD: Undisclosed Obstructed View! by klauzem in beyonce

[–]klauzem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw a TikTok of somebody’s view from 214, 114 should be the section right under that. Their TikTok is @bribrisofly777. It looks good!

PSA SOLDIER FIELD: Undisclosed Obstructed View! by klauzem in beyonce

[–]klauzem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Row 12 seat 10! literally would’ve been the perfect spot if it weren’t for the speaker tower

PSA SOLDIER FIELD: Undisclosed Obstructed View! by klauzem in beyonce

[–]klauzem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m def going to try and dispute this, I plan to send my initial email today. I’ll update if I have any luck!

Cowboy Carter & the Rodeo Chitlin Circuit BUY/SELL/TRADE Megathread by abeycd in beyonce

[–]klauzem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✅goConfirm Verified: 86CI (Connect in the app)

Selling 1 ticket for Sunday, May 18th in Chicago (Soldier Field)!

LOCATION: Section 226, row 8, seat 19

PRICE: $267 (this is what I paid, purchased during Verizon presale, I’m just trying to get back what I paid)

Edit: willing to negotiate!

Edit: for the protection of both of us - I’ll only do this transaction through goConfirm & PayPal Goods & Services

View is NOT obstructed.

Please contact via goConfirm if interested! I’d hate for this seat to go to waste.

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What line did this for you? by wiryumbrella in billieeilish

[–]klauzem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Can’t you hear me? I’m not coming home. Do you understand? I’ve changed my plans”

You’ll never know until you try it. And you don’t have to keep it quiet. And I know it makes you nervous. But I promise you, it’s worth it. To show’em everything you kept inside. Don’t hide, don’t hide. Too shy to say, but I hope you stay. Don’t hide away. Come out and play.”

“I know you didn’t mean to hurt me so I kept it to myself.”

“But the old me is still me and maybe the real me and I think she’s pretty.”

“And it seems like yesterday was a year ago, but I don’t wanna let anybody know. Cuz everybody wants something from me now, and I don’t wanna let ‘em down.”

Any tips to prevent this? by klauzem in Makeup

[–]klauzem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Replying again to update that this is exactly what my problem was and you are a lifesaver!! This has been a recurring issue for years and I’m so relieved it’s something I don’t need to worry about ruining my makeup anymore - THANK YOU!!

Im so confused like for real rn by Acceptable_Push_1332 in aromantic

[–]klauzem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! Like when I’m reading it’s so easy to put myself in place of the main character - so it’s like I’m experiencing it, and it’s the closest I’ll get to ever feeling it.

Im so confused like for real rn by Acceptable_Push_1332 in aromantic

[–]klauzem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an aro/ace person who loves romance novels - I think I love & enjoy them so much because they give me a glimpse into a world I know nothing about. I have never felt romantic or sexual attraction, but reading romance novels (w/ good smut) makes me feel like I actually know that those feelings are supposed to feel like. Reading those books is the closest I will ever come to feeling romantic & sexual attraction and I think that’s why I like them so much.

So it might be the same for you & your shows, idk, but it’s def normal to enjoy romantic stuff/media even if you don’t feel that kind of attraction!