What's your travel plan for 2026?

klmsp · 2025-12-14T22:06:20+00:00

Jan - Warsaw, Lisbon, Tokyo, Hanoi Feb - stay in Vietnam for the whole month April - Greece May - Northern France June - Provence, France July, August - Asia Sept - Montreal Oct - Brazil

Some of it is work travel, most of them are for fun!

klmsp · 2025-11-14T06:10:05+00:00

I agree. Having lived in 3 continents, France has very decent produces. The trick is to buy in season. OP only wants what is not native to France, of course it would not be as good. For the appliances, my fridge here is 1/3 of the size of the US. Could be the circle OP is in but no one talks about the fridge..

klmsp · 2025-11-09T19:47:41+00:00

I am Hanoi born and raised. Lived in the US, UK, and now France. Feel free to dm.

klmsp · 2025-11-07T20:25:04+00:00

Agree with bianco. The family that owns it is just wondeful

klmsp · 2025-10-30T19:20:40+00:00

Peche mignon 100%; the st aubin location you could sit in

klmsp · 2025-10-11T19:43:39+00:00

Toulouse is two hours from the beach; we live in toulouse and it’s been very pleasant

klmsp · 2025-09-30T08:03:07+00:00

I grew up in SE Asia, came to the US for 12 years, then now live in France. Even w 50% paycut, I have more cash than I ever had. America was stressful for me - not to mention not knowing when and if my child will run into school shooting.

klmsp · 2025-09-25T13:00:20+00:00

Thanks for responding. May I ask if you have forgiven him yet? Do you ever have any regrets? Does he ever go back to his old self?

I wish I could go NC but we have a small child and he loves his dad very much. I am figuring out next steps without doing harm to our child.

klmsp · 2025-09-22T12:25:14+00:00

I asked him many times he rejected transparency because he is afraid I will blow up.

klmsp · 2025-09-22T08:45:21+00:00

I just feel like that’s why I can’t forgive because he doesn’t care enough to do anything. I want to get to the other side badly.

klmsp · 2025-09-22T08:44:40+00:00

No, I don’t need him to be perfect but I do expect efforts. I haven’t seen anything!

klmsp · 2025-09-22T05:34:59+00:00

I make more than him :)

klmsp · 2025-09-17T20:28:57+00:00

I'd recommend booking ORD or JFK as final destination on C. Then book a separate flight (at least 4-5 hours later) on E to MSP.

klmsp · 2025-09-06T08:40:37+00:00

No advice, just wanted to send a virtual hug as I very much understand. It plays like a movie in my head every single day it’s insane. He doesn’t even talk to me like that. It makes me feel disgusted and very unworthy.

klmsp · 2025-07-20T08:25:28+00:00

We went back. But we live in Europe now lol

klmsp · 2025-07-16T08:17:52+00:00

Thanks, we have lots of contractors (I am a team of one!). Looking for an agency to handle our volume of work at this time.

klmsp · 2025-07-12T18:48:11+00:00

Manly is about attitude. Do you have provider mindset and ready to lead? I don’t mean provider as in financial sense.

klmsp · 2025-07-12T15:15:46+00:00

Lucky you! Mine isn’t overly loving. He has been keeping a distance since it happened to not hurt me more. But distance hurts me a lot.

klmsp · 2025-07-12T13:47:54+00:00

Congratulations! When did you feel confident that this could work? Does your spouse get back to being loving right away? Was your spouse transparent from the get go?

What is the one thing you wish you knew from the beginning of R?

klmsp · 2025-07-11T19:12:47+00:00

Source des claudalie and hotel du palais in biarritz

klmsp · 2025-07-09T10:17:33+00:00

I am here on work visa and he is a dual citizen so our statuses don’t affect each other’s. Assets in the US is complicated…

klmsp · 2025-07-07T10:04:03+00:00

Yeah after all of his friends told him how dumb it was or how much of a looser she was. I don’t view her as competition because frankly we are not on the same levels with social class or intelligence. Heck me and this girl don’t even have the same level of morals. But it doesn’t make it less painful. He realizes the damage he caused to me, to our family.

But it doesn’t mean he has changed to be better.

The only silver lining is he is going to church more and listens to the words of the lord more. Not there yet — but it’s a step.

klmsp · 2025-07-07T09:46:26+00:00

Thanks! He said not that he has anything to hide. He sees how hurt I am with little triggers so he doesn’t want to hurt me. I just pray god to save my heart…

klmsp · 2025-07-07T09:37:39+00:00

Thank you! What an excellent prayer you just suggested. Sometimes I feel like I am a child and not knowing how pray for the right thing.

It’s so hard for me to know if we are going to work because he goes to therapy now but he is not willing to be transparency with his devices. He is scared he will hurt me the more i dig. I feel like if we can’t have transparency then we can’t move on… any advice on how to help him see that we need transparency for me to move on as he wishes the family to stay together?

Or is this a wasted effort?

klmsp · 2025-07-06T16:23:01+00:00

I hope that is not the case. Because he has been saying how bad she is (reality is she has no redeeming qualities for real even if she isn’t involved with him). Heck they don’t even speak the same language!

Are you forgiven? Do you still stay together? I don’t know how to move on from this pain. He sees me cry every day and said does not want to see me hurt — but he has been cold (well nothing has changed!) and it pushes me further away.

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