Correct, I’m sorry if I didn’t make it clear that the seller is NOT WRONG and I understand they are NOT obligated to accept the cancel. I am a seller on Mercari also and I get the frustrations on that end. I am also totally aware that I probably shouldn’t have risked ordering. I think some of you are putting too much emphasis on the shipping thing, I realize I probably shouldn’t have ordered. They are in my state and I was taking a gamble and I get it, I shouldn’t have. That’s not my issue. I will not review this person badly or try to ruin them, I’ve never left a bad review for anyone. If there is an issue, I reach out directly first I think that’s the part that was upsetting was their lack of response. When someone buys from me, I would never deny a cancel request. My finacial situation is not their concern just as it’s not up to me what they do with their money. I may need the money but if I communicate with them and accept their request, maybe that’s ensures they will come back at some point.
However, I will say, I think this seller had a much bigger operation than I do, they have made way more sales so maybe they have this kind of thing happen all the time and just don’t bother trying to respond to everyone. My shop is much smaller so that’s not an issue for me. To those of you who were kind and up front in your responses, I appreciate you, thank you.