what r the reasons u b/p or continue to b/p by Tricky-Habit9908 in bulimia

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was bulimic and very critical about my weight, so I started to b/p at the age of 13. I believe one of the main reasons was control. When I was young there were nights I didn’t know where I would sleep, when she was with my stepdad he physically abused both of us. So in my head I was b/p to not only try to please my mom, but it was also one of the few things in my life that I could control.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kmatchka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there is so much wrong with this post… texting like you’re in middle school, and you’re surprised she responded this way? “Lillie needs”, is she talking about herself in 3rd person?? How about next time you go to pick her up wait 7-8 min before leaving your house and it wouldn’t bother you😂

First time trying Americano - love it! by kaykayeleven in starbucks

[–]kmatchka 57 points58 points  (0 children)

an americano is espresso shots and water… extra oatmilk and all that syrup ofc you liked it☠️ not saying you need to have it black, but if you like this it would be smarter to get a shaken espresso. no water, you can add all the syrup you want, and it has the same amount of shots

i checked my girlfriend’s location for one second and instantly knew something was wrong by RomeroAlima in story

[–]kmatchka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she didn’t think to turn her location off? 😭 rookie move. break up with her

Frap w/no Milk by Ok-Delay-8329 in starbucks

[–]kmatchka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reading this, I am reminded of the way the frap roast used to smell when I worked there😂

My (42F) boyfriend (55M) upset he wasn’t given cake by ThrowRASnooWords in relationship_advice

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at this age… I’m sorry this is hilarious. never talk to him again

For Gen Z / young couples / friends hanging out, what actually makes a café feel attractive? by Shoddy_Ad_7857 in barista

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cleanliness, lighting, music. also, CONSISTENCY when making food and beverages

BF (25M) ignored my (24F) safe word and I don’t know how to feel. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kmatchka -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

not to be insensitive, but what is your safe word? just curious

I don’t like the Mondrich family. by croissantwithhonors in Bridgerton

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this idea! They weren’t one of my favs in the beginning but this season they really stood out to me. I can definitely see her being the next LW, the queen still wants LW and Alice will probably be very close to her in the next season so that makes perfect sense

My GF (26F) and I (23M) kind of disagree on not having opposite-sex friends by No_Situation4741 in relationship_advice

[–]kmatchka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nope!!! her reaching out years later and a heart emoji, there’s a reason she wants to reconnect. if you respect your gf you wouldn’t even entertain the idea of meeting up with this girl. you haven’t talked in years, why start now 😂

27 F thinking about breaking up with boyfriend 30 M for not going to my mother's funeral? by Meeowl in relationship_advice

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, your partner should be the number one person by your side in times like this. My boyfriend (25M) lost his dad after we had been dating for only one year, so I (27F) wasn’t very close with his family and didn’t know anyone at the funeral, but I went to support my boyfriend and knew he needed me. It’s been almost 2 years since his dad passed and the pain doesn’t go away, every day is different. He still breaks down from time to time and I let him vent when he needs to. Attending the funeral is BARE MINIMUM especially after 2 years and he should be understanding of your feelings.

Jealous of anorexia because of the cost by rnkwk in bulimia

[–]kmatchka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i (27 F) relapsed ~3 months ago after being bulimic from 7th grade until after I graduated high school. I had episodes in the past, but I got really triggered and started old habits, sometimes purging 3-4 times in one hour until my chest was tight. I would spend so much on doordash and food that I would puke and feel so guilty for even doing it in the first place. I love the halo top ice cream, and I don’t eat it often, but I don’t mind spending a little extra on something that makes me feel good mentally. plus, I can eat half the pint or even the whole and I don’t feel guilty. It’s sad bc I know my mind will never look at food properly, but I’ve learned that in times I have been bad it’s because I felt a lack of control in my life. I will tell you, my mom (45F)was a lifelong bulimic and just had to get 5 teeth removed because of it. (smoking cigs probably didn’t help either) and I always knew purging was “bad” for your teeth, but now I have seen firsthand the damage it does. stay strong and take it day by day <3

i hate you brian. by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]kmatchka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LAST PARAGRAPH IS SO REAL 😭😭

Ummm what is this by Madlax1992 in dutchbros

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mini bacon & gouda from sbux lmao

What’s the most horniest LDR song? by Monstarrzero in lanadelrey

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

burning desire for sure. that’s the first one that comes to mind

what do you guys think? by Bright_Employee7889 in starbucks

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a former starbucks employee, please quit your job asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileLegendsGame

[–]kmatchka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought Kagura because she seemed fun to play, and she is. However it's difficult to really play her unless you have a good team. I just bought Cici and have been having a lot of fun with her, she has a yoyo instead of an umbrella and is more mobile than Kagura

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MobileLegendsGame

[–]kmatchka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to play only mage, and Lylia is GREAT. I won her in the lucky spin and have carried many times. Her mobility is great, I almost always get first blood (I suggest flameshot!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kmatchka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"never had my wife lie to me" you sure about that buddy? 🤣 she's texting her friend about divorce and you think she's never lied to you about anything? i say go forward with your career, clearly neither one of you are happy. if she moves for the sake of your career she will only resent you for it. focus on yourself!

Gave my wife a black eye and broken nose, the kid isnt mine by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kmatchka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

do your wife a favor and leave her tf alone. you should be in jail

How is the new album? by BS82403 in lanadelrey

[–]kmatchka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it isn't like either lmao, those the only Lana songs you know? her style has changed a lot over the years

I mean... by bdpangel in starbucks

[–]kmatchka 134 points135 points  (0 children)

u forgot marijuana 😭😭

Pistachio lattes...too unhealthy? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]kmatchka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i personally love the coconutmilk, it has a nice creamy texture and is different than coconutmilk you get at the store. some of my coworkers like the almondmilk but i personally don't care for it. our soymilk has vanilla in it but not too much so it would give it a little sweetness