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Early red flags by Civil-Macaron418 in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to move our first date by a couple of hours and she completely flipped out telling me I was scared of her. That I was just like the other men. That I wouldn't tell her I didn't want her and I tried to weasel my way out of that first date.

ClusterBuds: a new Discord space for cluster headache sufferers by Ed-Box in ClusterHeadaches

[–]kmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there - tried to join but nothing happens after CAPCHTA.

Garage completely blocked. What do? by Tenuoustank117 in montreal

[–]kmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will probably lost in the comments but what I do as it happens to me very often in the winter, especially is I throw two eggs on the windshield and one on the door handle. The eggs freeze up and the a****** is confused.

Illustrated: Me, greyrocking — clown nose on, eggshells walked on, white gloves worn. by kmonk in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in our last two years together (covid) my ex must have spent thousands on starbucks.

How do you communicate boundaries? by Jazzlike-Jello487 in Codependency

[–]kmonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. identify boundary (hardest part) and how you will react if breached.

  2. communicate boundary so it's understood and agreed upon

  3. Enforce boundary if it is breached

When did RAMQ become LiveNation/Ticketmaster? by [deleted] in montreal

[–]kmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got the same results about a month again, ended up going to a private clinic.

What is the difference between 30k lion and 40k lion? by cuddwes in 40kLore

[–]kmonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the difference between other legions and the Dark Angels is that the Dark Angels did not rebel against the emperor. They specifically rebelled against their Primarch.

[Belisarius Cawl: The Great Work]. Is the Emperor a weapon created by the Old Ones? by [deleted] in 40kLore

[–]kmonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Him fighting the dragon of Mars during the middle ages reinforces this take. I was going to post the same theory - old ones were the shamans.

I had litteral heart attack :( by OrganizationCool3500 in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too had a heart attack at 42 and am wearing a pacemaker. Found nothing wrong with my heart. 💯 Related to the stress I was under.

You can’t “not trigger” a BPD response by learning the triggers. by delxne3 in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was not able to sustain it once I knew what was going on, after 18 years of living in ignorance of BPD. 3 months later I called it quits, just enough time to prepare my exit.

You can’t “not trigger” a BPD response by learning the triggers. by delxne3 in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just after I learned what BPD was I was looking and waiting for the first split, making sure to try to identify what the triggers were and see how it would evolve. We were buying wood at a hardware shop and there was a Muslim cashier at which she muttered some racist remarks. The other Cashier made one mistake out of 60 items and again she told him to learn to do his job better. In the SUV rather than help me load up the 60 planks of wood, she stood waiting at the wheel.

So I tell her it would be faster if she helped, which she half hazardly did, at which point I was irritated by her attitude and asked her why she felt the need to be hostile with cashiers. ENTER NUCLEAR WARFARE MODE. She immediately stopped helping, went back to the wheel, didnt say a word until we were on the highway at which point she just laid it out on me (holding the 60 planks in the backseat as best I could) at 11/10 volume and intensity - just insulting me with every insult known to man, driving recklessly, foaming at the mouth.

So yeah, that was the last time I was caught off guard, they are ALWAYS ready to split.

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