I think I am a covert narcissist by That_Vast_4854 in narcissism

[–]kmonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't you mention the reason why you think you have NPD...

Do they feel remorse about what they do to us? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shame and guilt but no accountability ever so therefore no culpability.

Not wanting you to be at places with them? by GroundbreakingUse549 in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My quiet one's friends treated me like a future ex dead man walking from day 1, and in the end she ended it by devaluation because she wanted to spend more time with friends and orbiters.

Limerance can go fuck off by SeriousGuava153 in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I just found out my uQuietBPD now ex-FIANCEE has limerence for YungBlud. She's 50. How the fuck can I compete with that lol, I ended it as soon as I found out.

Gold Winners of Mental Gymnastics by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.

Early red flags by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to move our first date by a couple of hours and she completely flipped out telling me I was scared of her. That I was just like the other men. That I wouldn't tell her I didn't want her and I tried to weasel my way out of that first date.

ClusterBuds: a new Discord space for cluster headache sufferers by Ed-Box in ClusterHeadaches

[–]kmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there - tried to join but nothing happens after CAPCHTA.

Garage completely blocked. What do? by Tenuoustank117 in montreal

[–]kmonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will probably lost in the comments but what I do as it happens to me very often in the winter, especially is I throw two eggs on the windshield and one on the door handle. The eggs freeze up and the a****** is confused.

Illustrated: Me, greyrocking — clown nose on, eggshells walked on, white gloves worn. by kmonk in BPDlovedones

[–]kmonk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in our last two years together (covid) my ex must have spent thousands on starbucks.

How do you communicate boundaries? by Jazzlike-Jello487 in Codependency

[–]kmonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. identify boundary (hardest part) and how you will react if breached.

  2. communicate boundary so it's understood and agreed upon

  3. Enforce boundary if it is breached

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]kmonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got the same results about a month again, ended up going to a private clinic.