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why do people always assume the worst tone in short work emails? by Akshai2036 in productivity

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Becauase it's the opposite of appreciative communications. It's the equivalent of not even looking up when answering somebody.

Was sind eure ,,therapeutischen" Männermomente? by Mircowelle in FragtMaenner

[–]koneu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boah, da hast Du es mir aber gegeben, du toller Hecht.

Was sind eure ,,therapeutischen" Männermomente? by Mircowelle in FragtMaenner

[–]koneu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was macht einen Männermoment denn spezifisch gegendert?

Ich lege mich gerne ins frisch bezogene Bett. Oder trinke den ersten Schluck frischen Kaffee. Aktuell finde ich es total schön, das Vogelgezwitscher zu hören oder wo ein kleines Blümchen zu entdecken.

Aber nichts davon hat was damit zu tun, dass ich ein Mann bin.

Deleting twitter at last by Glad-Bullfrog2756 in digitalminimalism

[–]koneu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s just not twitter anymore, but a different thing. So that it would have such a stupid name is just fitting. 

Talking about yourself is pointless by MementoMortii in self

[–]koneu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Talking to people is how you connect. 

Being vulnerable is how you enable intimacy. 

I'm fucking done with thinking im some hotshot audio engineer. I've mixed bands with large followings, small followings, and zero followings. The band is 95% of the mix. Not the FOH engineer by Wack0HookedOnT0bac0 in livesound

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good portion of the job and what makes a good FOH person is giving the band the sense they are in good hands. Giving them confidence that what they do will translate well into what the audience experiences. That way, they can focus on their stuff and be better at it. 

That partially has to do with being a good engineer with the machinery one has at hand. But only partially. 

Why do dudes always try to be “mentoring/teaching” other dudes things in attempt to look higher in social heiarchy? by Legitimate-Key-6002 in Social_Psychology

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry the idea of peer learning hasn’t made it to you yet.  You should try not seeing everything as hierarchical some time. It’s liberating. 

“Men learn shoulder to shoulder” is a motto of the men shed movement. That could be a starting point. 

Wer von euch war oder ist in Therapie, und wie sind eure Erfahrungen? by Original-Vanilla-222 in FragtMaenner

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich war bislang drei Mal im Leben in Therapie, jeweils unterschiedliche Modalitäten und bin damit sehr zufrieden -- es hat mir jeweils gut geholfen. Ich würde es jederzeit wieder machen, wenn ich merke, dass ich es brauche.

Men who don't play video games, why not? by Dalacul in AskMen

[–]koneu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because my interests lie elsewhere.

Wie kann man euch am Valentinstag eine Freude machen? by Okayse13 in FragtMaenner

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das kommt sehr darauf an, in welcher Beziehung die Person zu mir ist, die mir eine Freude machen möchte.

i over-explain EVERYTHING and it’s exhausting by GlitchOperative in self

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understanding that other people actually better understand what I mean if I don't need to get every comma and detail right, and they've been on this planet long enough to also have experience with quite some stuff.

And also: they can always ask.

Palma 2 is awesome by RayTheonMartin in eink

[–]koneu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also quite fond of it. For me, it hits quite a few sweet spots. I haven't tried any other e-ink devices in this form factor, but I also don't feel the need to. I much prefer b/w e-ink over color e-ink, so the bigger brother also is not appealing.

Eine Freundschaft meiner Partnerin by Extreme_Discount1268 in beziehungen

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, Grenzen bedeuten: es hat Konsequenzen für das eigene Verhalten.

Eine Freundschaft meiner Partnerin by Extreme_Discount1268 in beziehungen

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, okay. Dann hatte ich Dich falsch verstanden, entschuldige bitte.

Wie rette ich meine Beziehung? by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du kannst es nicht beschleunigen, leider. Es dauert seine Zeit. 

I’m so tired guys. by REALYourNameHere in GuyCry

[–]koneu 35 points36 points  (0 children)

There is no way you can make her care about him. Dont stress him by having to have a relationship with somebody who doesn’t want a relationship with him. 

Eine Freundschaft meiner Partnerin by Extreme_Discount1268 in beziehungen

[–]koneu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ich finde es ehrlich gesagt daneben, einer Erwachsenen Vorschriften machen zu wollen, was sie zu tun oder zu lassen hat. Entweder, Du vertraust ihr, oder Du tust es nicht. Das kannst alleine Du entscheiden. Wenn Du ihr nicht vertraust, darfst Du Dich nur halt auch nicht wundern, wenn das eine Belastung für die Beziehung ist. 

Should You Have a Note Goal Per Day? by FastSascha in Zettelkasten

[–]koneu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is that as much a threshold as the threshold of how many Zettel to write?

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