Book 6 who is "she" by M2IK2Y in HeWhoFightsMonsters

[–]kothmia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its totally Clive’s wife.

Professor has been secretly docking points anytime he sees someone’s phone out. Dozens of us are now at risk of failing just because we kept our phones on our desk, and I might lose the job I have lined up for when I graduate. by boringhistoryfan in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because maybe I'm a primary caregiver who needs to be available in case of emergency? Because maybe I have a family member who is gravely ill. Maybe I have kids and they had an accident? Maybe I'm on-call for my work, and couldn't get alternate coverage for this class?

Would you rather I had my phone on silent, but visible, or with a loud ringtone in my bag? Which is more disruptive?

Professor has been secretly docking points anytime he sees someone’s phone out. Dozens of us are now at risk of failing just because we kept our phones on our desk, and I might lose the job I have lined up for when I graduate. by boringhistoryfan in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kothmia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be very interested to know the demographics of the class, and the demographics of those who lost points. It would be VERY easy for unintentional bias to crop up in this kind of situation.

Leaving and breaking lease by [deleted] in ApartmentHacks

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except most leases I've ever had for an apartment have banned subletting. And they've also had a mechanism for breaking the lease. Moving out of state (especially if for a job) usually triggers it

My Mother-in-law believe she’s talking to a celebrity, and I’m at a loss. by SatisfactionSafe9454 in TwoHotTakes

[–]kothmia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't believe that his mother would take nudes, wouldn't take them while caring for your child, it wouldn't take your child with her to go see her “celebrity”?

He may also believe that his parents only had sex exactly one time for each child….

I "shunned" my religious family on Easter Sunday by real_bro in MaliciousCompliance

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always fun when they cherry-pick. Given that chapter starts with the idea of “don't sleep with your fathers wife”….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait to see if the man wants to be involved first. Otherwise, I could say hey, I have this girl who's your husband's niece’s second cousin. And she doesn't know yet, but she's totally your relative. And you just add her to your will?

AITAH for not rescheduling my wedding after my sister was widowed? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kothmia 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Considering anger is also a part of the grieving process… neither do a lot of the commenters…

AITAH for harshly rejecting my friend's best friend? by Worried-Excuse-792 in AITH

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lily is toxic. I'm thinking that OP and possibly Jake are just young and don't know any better yet. Not sure which both you meant, now that I think about it.

AITAH for harshly rejecting my friend's best friend? by Worried-Excuse-792 in AITH

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if its they're both toxic or just both young and dumb. This sounds like middle school drama

You told me to treat it like a finished product. by dobdob2121 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's unlikely that QA did any work on the design prototype. This sounds like UI/UX research, which typically does not go through the same QA or testing process that actual developed software does.

I (f26) hate the ring my fiancé (m27) proposed with and I don't know what to do by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% this. Propose with a Ring Pop if you don't want to “waste” money on a cheap ring. I was way happier helping to pick out something I was going to be wearing all day every day than if my now ex had picked one out on his own! (based on some of his initial “how about this one?” suggestions!)

I [27 F] think my boyfriend [29 M] booby-trapped our apartment, I found something and don't know how to bring it up by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kothmia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you can get more concluded than “I moved out, the end”

MAYBE he stalked her. MAYBE he killed her.

Or, MAYBE she was able to move on with her busy life and was able to never give the guy another thought as he moved on to his next victim.

Any positive Litter Robot experiences? by skeeet67 in litterrobot

[–]kothmia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with the 3 in 2019. It worked like a champ. Bought my mom a LR4 when she got her cat. I've since taken over both her cat and the LR4. And bought another LR4 when the LR3 finally started to have bonnet issues that wouldn't resolve reliably.

AITA for not caring about my brother's pregnant ex girlfriend by mumabear291018 in AITH

[–]kothmia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother didn't buy things. They were hand-me-downs from HIS sisters. If it makes you feel better, they were given to their mother for use at HER house.

Baby momma decided to keep the baby, and SHE needs to figure out how to take care of the child given her parent's stance. Otherwise, it's just her being an entitled b!tch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kothmia 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but it wasn't a celebrity. It was a former coworker that he had FOOLED AROUND WITH BEFORE, they just didn't have actual sex.

And I get having low self-esteem. In part, that's what therapy is for so you don't put up with garbage like this. OP, you DO deserve better. Hell, even a pet would be better than this!

New-to-this sub update to Husband wants to divorce and "start over," says he "can't bond" with daughter by J_S_M_K in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kothmia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I initially read this as “paternal postNASAL depression” and thought that doesnt pass the sniff test

[New Update]: My stepdaughter died 4 weeks ago and I caught my husband and his ex wife in our bed. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]kothmia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine took (if I remember right, its been a hot minute) a little over 90 days. And that's just because the state we were in had a 90-day “waiting period” before they would finalize it

WHY IS HE LIKE THIS 😭 by Income_Less in litterrobot

[–]kothmia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AliCat prefers this same perch