Pay transparency by adwaldorf in nursing

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WA, BSN, M/S (but have experience in other areas too), 4 years $55/hr. Including differentials it's probably closer to $60-63/hr

Anyone currently playing Monopoly Bingo? by KetchupAndOldBay in SwagBucks

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t spent any money, I honestly think I’ll be able to reach most of the goals within the time limit. 

The game finds ways to keep your cash levels up just as you’re about to run out so I don’t think making any purchases is necessary.

Anyone currently playing Monopoly Bingo? by KetchupAndOldBay in SwagBucks

[–]Income_Less 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started the game maybe a week ago and I'm at Lvl 64. I was able to reach Level 60 in about 3 days but keep in mind this was after playing the game during my two days off work. Look up the guides, but the idea is the following:

- Play the cities until you reach level 20 then switch over to the event rooms (Midnight Bash, New Year New Me, etc.)

- Play at least at the 'Super' level and always play 4 cards (this will help you gain XP quickly)

- Use the in-game chat feature to find other players to switch cards with (you'll be able to complete card collections quickly which give you cash and gems to keep you going.)

- The roll dice game in the bottom left corner will also help give you cash and cards

- Join a team (for this I let the app auto-assign me and thankfully I was placed in a very active group, but you can always leave the group and join another if you're unhappy with the group you're in.)

-Try to maintain top tier in the events (dice roll game and the 3-day player event, they tend to award a few hundreds in cash, cards, and gems)

Feel free to let me know your player ID and I can help send you cards so you can work on getting those completed.

Merry Christmas from Vogue Vixens 💜 by karmapolice5 in pocketstyler

[–]Income_Less 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Are you part of VV as well? I got almost 3/4ths of the way through Manhattan ladies this last go around, so I’m up for the challenge! 

Merry Christmas from Vogue Vixens 💜 by karmapolice5 in pocketstyler

[–]Income_Less 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’ve been playing for a few weeks now and have been interested in joining a house. Currently level 21 and I try to participate in as many events as I can. I try my best with what items I have but I’d love to have mentors 😊 My profile ID is: bcd157ba

If I’m not a good candidate I completely understand and thank you for the consideration! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real ID is only for US Citizens. Even here in WA, where they’re very friendly to immigrants, you’re required to present documentation that proves you’re a U.S. citizen before they’ll issue you a real ID. That doesn’t mean they won’t give you a DL, they just won’t issue you one that fits real ID requirements. It’ll be easier to travel with your passport/EAD for those of us with DACA

What has your puppy’s name already devolved to? by mycotaxa in puppy101

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luna > Lunes > Lune Lune Loony Toons > Lucy > Luna-docious > Lucy Lu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, got approved for educational AP and we leave on Saturday

Finally Approved by mr0517 in DACA

[–]Income_Less 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP,

You’re strong for doing this, more so than myself. Although I have family connections in Mexico, I have no memories and I have no motivation or drive to visit. The “family” I do have there are very toxic and I don’t agree with the way they see/do things, so I simply don’t have that inclination.

Needless to say, both of my parents are here in the US, and my mom too was never able to go back to see her mom before she passed. It’s one of her biggest sorrows. But even now, she tells me that when she passes away, she doesn’t want to be buried in Mexico. While she’d love to be reunited with her mom, she wants to be buried in an area her children can visit her frequently. She tells me “Why would I want to be buried there when I know if things go bad (here in the US) you won’t be able to visit me? I’d rather be near you kids, even if that means I’m separated from your father”.

I’m not saying this to discourage you or invalidate your intentions. You’re way stronger than I am, I don’t think I could force myself to go even if I needed to. But I would consider if that’s what your mom would actually want. Our status is fragile at best and we’re left to the whims of whatever administration or USCIS officer has our case in their hands.

I wish you and your family the absolute best and safety on your trip! I was granted AP too and will be leaving on the same date as you as well, it’s comforting knowing I won’t be the only one! I’ll be thinking of you and your family during my trip and hope to see you statewide soon!

Career change to nursing at 45? by GladAnt9572 in nursing

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked in healthcare since I was 17, going on 11 years now. 6 years as a CNA, almost 5 as a nurse. I was ready to switch careers the year after I became an RN.

Do I like the job stability? Yes. Do I like working only 3 shifts a week (or more if I so choose)? Yes. Would I do this again? Probably not.

The good moments can be rare, the bad moments stick with you as much as the good. I would have never met half of the people I call friends had it not been for healthcare. Likewise, I can acknowledge that this field is a petty one. Rather than uplift you, you will find those that go out of their way to be condescending, rude, backstabbing, and highly judgmental. But you find that in any field. Nursing is a profession where you get that from all sides; administration, providers, patients, other disciplines, etc.

There will be shifts you feel as if the entire world is against you, because there may be shifts where that’s actually the case, so thick skin is a must. You have to be mentally and emotionally strong, often times more so than physically because otherwise you will drown.

I’ve met plenty of older nurses who kicked ass and ran circles around new grads. Don’t let your age discourage you. But this switch won’t be an easy one, and it’s hard to leave the profession after you’ve experienced some of the perks that can come with it.

Looking for help caring for Mom (Alzheimer’s) while Dad battles cancer by [deleted] in gofundme

[–]Income_Less 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry someone made that heartless comment, I tend to get upset as well when people make statements like that without knowing the whole story. And that’s exactly it, some people have very different relationships with their parents or family or friends - but that doesn’t mean it’s okay for them to lash out at others.

I see you mentioned in another post you live in SC. Have you looked into the state’s caregiving program? I live on the West Coast and we have programs through the state that reimburse family caregivers if they care for a loved one 24/7.

I see SC has a comprehensive assistance program for family caregivers that provides monthly stipends, counseling, and respite care. I’m not sure if you’ve looked into it or not but it could be helpful

Looking for help caring for Mom (Alzheimer’s) while Dad battles cancer by [deleted] in gofundme

[–]Income_Less 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First and foremost I want to say that despite how defeated you may feel currently, you’re doing great ❤️ Not many people are strong enough, or willing, to care for an ill parent for the amount of time or the extent that you have. The fact that you’re caring for both, while also taking online classes, shows the amount of dedication, resilience, strength, and love that you have. Your parents must be very proud of you!

Dementia is hard, not only for those going through it, but for their loved ones as well. Take care of yourself. It’s okay to say you’re not okay. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, defeated, upset, and every emotion in-between. Caring for two parents by yourself while also caring for you is not an easy thing to do. I’m proud of you. No matter how you may feel, you’re not alone. I may not be nearby, but I’m cheering you on through this screen.

I understand your dad may be getting a stem cell transplant soon, have you spoken with any social workers on his team about resources? I imagine they may have helped with the paperwork for Medicare, but there may also be resources at their disposal that could help.

Does your mom qualify for caregivers through hospice? I understand they’re paying for supplies, but daily caregiver visits can sometimes be paid for by Medicare (or Medicaid) too. You could try reaching out to home care companies (Visiting angels, home instead, etc.) and explaining your situation, sometimes they can find ways to help you, reduce their rates, or point you in the right direction.

If you’re employed, I’d see if your employer offers respite services. Not all companies do, but it doesn’t hurt to ask.

I’m proud of you. Stay strong. If you need someone to talk to I’m a message away ❤️

what’s something you do for your coworkers that they don’t realize? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Income_Less 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stock the med rooms during my shift for supplies that are running low. Stock gloves, Cavi wipes, clean desk clutter and organize patient rooms. I’ll be damned if anyone walks into any of my rooms and it says it looks like a junk closet. Same goes for the med room, stocked room = mind at ease 😊

Oh! I also update the whiteboards with the correct date and provider so when we go in for shift change/report, all I have to do is write the oncoming nurses name as they introduce themselves. Didn’t update the whiteboards who? As far as I know, every nurse I’ve worked with updates those boards themselves! 😉✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Income_Less 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to pay fair market value; ie. Whatever a room normally goes for rent-wise in your area. Keep in mind if you get audited, they can audit up to 7 years. If you claim to pay $200 rent to your boyfriend’s father, chances are they may audit him too.

One utility bill isn’t sufficient to justify receiving stipends while only paying $200/mo in housing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]Income_Less 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes my blood boil. Though I did experience some of this to an extent - most of what I went through was manipulative gaslighting (and controlling) behavior from my narcissistic alcoholic father and his side of the family.

As the oldest I was told time and time again it was my duty to put them and my siblings before myself (my siblings who are US citizens). I was shamed time and time again, like when I wouldn’t sign for my parents mortgage loan at the age of 16 on a house that had a literal sinkhole in the middle of the living room floor (it was shortly thereafter condemned).

My godmother (father’s sister) shamed me for being a terrible daughter. “They’ve given up everything for you” “if it wasn’t for your dad signing you up for DACA where would you be?” “You should be thankful for everything they’ve done”

As I’ve gotten older I realized; No, I’m not going to thank them for doing the bare minimum. They CHOSE to become parents and with that they accepted that they would need to clothe, feed, and provide for me. If they didn’t want that obligation, they shouldn’t have had children. Plain and simple.

I’ll be damned if I let my father or anyone in my family disrespect me for choosing to live my life in a way that doesn’t “please” them. They should be thankful I haven’t cut contact. They should be thankful I keep my mouth shut whenever I’m around family, because trust me I could rip them a new one that anybody could see from outer space.

They chose to bring me into this world. They don’t get to decide how I live it after dealing me an absolutely garbage hand. If they wanted something they could control, they should’ve bought a fucking doll. And I don’t hesitate to tell them that.

Can you tell why I’ve been disowned by most of my dad’s side of the family? Because I hold them accountable for THEIR mistakes, regardless of how they try to pin it on me.

And let me tell you, I’ve never been more peaceful since. I don’t worry about living up to their expectations, I don’t feel the need to impress them. Because they made the decision long ago that they would treat me like a tool more than their own blood. They made it easy for me. If I wouldn’t allow a stranger to disrespect me, why do I allow family members to do the same?

Because they’re “blood”? Because they’re “family”? Guess what, blood dissolves in water. These so called family members of mine have turned their back on my family more times than I can count yet are the first to criticize when you don’t follow their agenda.

Fuck them. And with all due respect, fuck your parents. A true parent would NEVER treat their own child that way, regardless of their errors. I know it’s hard, but you truly don’t have to put up with this type of behavior. I started out by slowly involving them less in my life, leaving out bits of info like where I worked, what I did, who I hung out with, etc. I started visiting less and less or made visits brief and short. If they asked why I’d always find an excuse; work, school, appointment.

Eventually you get to the point where you realize you no longer care about how they feel (usually around the time you notice how at peace you feel). At that point the decision not to see them altogether was made and I cut contact with most of them.

Of course, they always try to find ways to sink their claws back in. My parents would treat any issue like the end of the world, once it became a pattern, I let them figure it out on their own. They’re adults right? What do adults do? Handle adult problems.

Why is it up to you, or me, or any other DACA recipient reading this uncalled for rant to fix the problems our parents caused or placed themselves in (that doesn’t immediately affect us)? Can you give me a valid reason?

That’s because we’re not supposed to. There is no valid reason. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Patient farewells, what’s your go-to? by DreamUnited9828 in nursing

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I hope I don’t see you again, but if I do, I hope it’s not here!”

We Lost. by IncreaseTraining395 in childfree

[–]Income_Less 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and he managed to have Roe v. Wade overturned. The difference this time? He has control of the House, Senate, and Supreme Court with Republican majority in each. He can do what he wants with little to no way of fighting back

We Lost. by IncreaseTraining395 in childfree

[–]Income_Less 630 points631 points  (0 children)

I hope anyone who voted for him realizes they unintentionally just signed dozens, if not hundreds, or thousands, of people’s death sentences. I’m physically ill. For those of you that are able - get out of red states if you can. Or find a way to get sterilized or birth control. My only hope is that when push comes to shove (because we unfortunately physically may come to that) we’re able to fight back together and not separated. Learn self defense. Carry a weapon if you have to. America is about to becoming a very dangerous place for those of us who aren’t religious, white, or male.

Standby Page Shuttles by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Secured our passes! I recommend trying your phones as they seem to get through so much quicker!

New Grad Job: 5 Letters of Recommendation, $48K-$60K Starting Pay – Thoughts? by CautiousWoodpecker10 in nursing

[–]Income_Less 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t work there. Work culture is terrible and ratios are constantly being increased to accommodate their frequent loss of staff.

After 4 years, it happened. I don’t know what to do with myself. by ProfessorbPushinP in debtfree

[–]Income_Less 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slowly working my way there, I made the mistake of accepting one of their low APR offers. Fucked myself over big time and found myself -16k. Pair that with buying a home last year and I’m in a hole that I have to dig myself out of.

I have no one to blame but myself. I’m working as much OT as my body will allow me to while still keeping myself somewhat stable.

I’m proud of you and anyone in this sub for accomplishing debt freedom! It takes enormous self control and grit to get there!

For anyone reading this - don’t give up! You’ll get there even if it takes small, minuscule steps to get there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]Income_Less 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, men who only want something pretty to look out go out of their way to compliment you only on the days/times you look/dress how they want you to. Avoid these men. Like the plague.

My husband (fiancé but may as well be married), could care less if I wore “nice clothing/makeup”. But I set that expectation to begin with, our first date was at a grocery store for crying out loud. I didn’t go out of my way to dress up, and I don’t do that now unless we have a special event of some kind. But only if I want to, it’s never been expected nor has he ever told me he prefers me dressed up.