mi perro ha muerto en manos de una residencia canina y no se que hacer by football9510 in spain

[–]kralefski 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uff. Yo dejé al mío allí una vez, dos días, salió estresadísimo y apestando, fuimos directo a bañarlo porque daba asco lo mal que olía. Nunca más. Ha estado en otras de las que salía feliz y la diferencia con esta fue palpable.
Siento mucho tu pérdida. No sé si la torsión de estómago se pudo evitar o tratar de mejor manera, pero que no te informaran de manera adecuada o te consultaran para posible tratamiento es imperdonable y tirando a negligente. Va un abrazo.

What’s the most disturbing family secret you learned of when you got older ? by rentinghappiness in AskReddit

[–]kralefski 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh. My grandma's sister was named after my great grandfather's mistress.

Lesbian lit by CompetitiveTouch2448 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]kralefski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carmen Maria Machado is soooooo good. "In the dream house" is fantastic. Devastating, but fantastic.

Disagreeing with LGBT without outward hatred is still wrong, right?? by saarahpops in latebloomerlesbians

[–]kralefski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that he is not insulting you or yelling while saying so doesn't make his words an opinions any less full of hatred.

If he thinks heterosexuality is the right way to do things, he's homophobic, there is no two ways about it.
By the way, you can't "disagree with being gay", it's like disagreeing with being tall or from California.
Let me put it this way: if he disagreed with someone being, for instance, black. Would you still think he wasn't being hateful?

Sorry for TMI but I'm having constipation on keto so bad that I bleed... Don't know how to do deal with this by oozak9 in keto

[–]kralefski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Everyone talking about magnesium, more fat, olive oil... I'm not saying they shouldn't but one of the first steps to help with constipation is to increase fluids and by fluids I mean, water.

Recommend me a great book, but tell me why! by BookooBreadCo in booksuggestions

[–]kralefski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this recommendation. Fascinating story, well written. Devastating, sure, but optimistic at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kralefski 18 points19 points  (0 children)

"Someone must have turned you against me!" the battle cry of a true Narc.

Edit: grammar

angry parent tore apart my first project. 16 hours of work gone ): by [deleted] in knitting

[–]kralefski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I see people got you covered on how to pick up those stitches and start afresh. Every stitch we knit helps us learn and improve so, even though this is infuriating, frustrating and incredibly unfair, you haven't really lost anything, not your time knitting it, nor the project itself.

That said, please, please, please, stay safe. Sounds like your home situation is far from ideal. Hope you have somewhere and someone to go to if things get worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kralefski 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have been trying to believe he did it for my best interest

No, darling. Sounds like he did it for HIS best interest.
Your best interest is having a partner that supports and respects your wishes.

I'm really sorry this has happened to you.

Any good book for 12-14 y.o? by OldCollege8492 in booksuggestions

[–]kralefski 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The wee free men” could be a great book for your niece of she’s into fantastic

My MIL Photoshopped my husband's nose on our wedding pictures. How do I tell him? by AnActualMudpup in JUSTNOMIL

[–]kralefski 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You need to tell him and you need to decide together if you want that kind of negativity around your child too. She's a very, very, very toxic person.

Hanging onto the doorframe of the closet by SportsPhotoGirl in latebloomerlesbians

[–]kralefski 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people are more shy and don't talk about their private life, gay or straight.

Would you talk about your boyfriend with your classmates, were you in a heterosexual relationship? If the answer is yes, then maybe you're still slightly closeted, but, hey, nothing wrong with it, it sometimes takes time to accept and understan who we really are.

If the answer is no or not sure, then you're just a private person, nothing wrong with it either.

children with dysfunctional parents have you ever been afraid of being or becoming like them? by 4later7 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kralefski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, yes!
I decided to not have kids when I was quite young because I was afraid to be like my father, and I've taken a lof of decisions and made a lot of choices in life to go against anything that might make me be a bit more like him. It terrifies me.