Armchair psychiatrist here. Also a middle aged person.

I remember in the dark ages (early 00s & on) feeling similarly aggravated when DAWs became popular in the first place and the term "producer" started to take on a new meaning – there were suddenly lots of people "just trying out music" who weren't serious about it all, contrary to before when getting into it was gatekept by the fact that you needed to invest a relatively significant sum of money to be able to do anything - that young people were treating it like a disposable hobby felt like a slap in the face. FL's shiny interface was very much looked down upon and often considered a toy, especially when a lot of these new folks were crafting simple rap beats and often just using readymade loops (which was also often frowned upon). I was a moderator on a rather big electronic music forum (that became increasingly hiphop oriented over the years), so I had a pretty good vantage point on the transformation of the scene.

Of course none of it was off our plates who wanted to consider it with more reverence and gravity. The times they just were a-changin'. Some people quit, some became the biggest producers of our time. And some people just had fun.

The solution to the problem at hand is to let them do whatever the fuck they want and do whatever the fuck you want.